In love with your straight friend? Here's what to do

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What to do when you fall for a straight girl, or maybe even your straight friend?
It's a situation that many of us find ourselves in at some point, and it's difficult to navigate, especially when you have the feeling that she may not be that "straight" after all.

So, in this video we talk about how to deal with a straight girl crush and/or falling for your best friend.

We hope this was helpful!

Love,

A + L

[buwhy]

Lesbians have 2 problems :
1. In love with a straight girl
2. In love with a very touchy straight girl

[PinkRainProductions]

Ah yes. My life is basically one big story of unrequited love for unavailable/straight women. It’s truly hell.

[kencoleman]

Oh, every time that I feel attracted to a woman and think that I sense some chemistry, I just HOPE that she'd hypothetically still be interested if I come out as trans.

[kimmyyberryy]

So glad you’re okay Lilian!! Alexis, which necklace do you have?! I looked online and there’s so many different kinds of chain necklaces and I love how simple yours is :)

[leslieminkler]

If you find yourself repeatedly attracted to straight women, ask yourself why.

[amandaconnell]

Lillian & Alexis I really liked all the points you brought out & yes, I have been attracted to straight women but I never act on them because I know they won't b able to give me what want. 🇬🇧 🇬🇧 ♥️♥️♀️♀️👍

[Lilo-dinu]

I just might have fallen for a straight friend. I am coming out to her soon, and I really hope she's gay.

[xx-nicogoblin-xx]

Mhm yeah… she’s Christian too! But I am boycotting dating till a certain age and I’m not there yet, but she was my first crush… we’re meeting up soon and I met her at camp so now we chat over the phone!

[Zoe-zczt]

Does Alexis speak German??! 🤔😲😂 She said a German word in the beginning of the vid😂😂

[divyatripathi]

I can't have feelings for any other girl other than that particular woman🥹

[ShirleyCascanteV]

I told my friend that I need it time away because I was developing romantic feelings. She told me that I was a very important person in her life and that she loved that I trusted her to talk about it, we saw each other a year later and our friendship is better than ever and we never acted weird with each other.

[nocomment]

I am bisexual, and I developed feelings for my straight best friend. We met about a year ago and hit it off really quickly. I hang out with her all the time and we are very close. She likes to flirt with me a lot, and while she considers it a joke, I have a harder time because of my actual feelings. We have talked about sexuality, and she has said that she is straight. I don't want to lose our friendship because she means a lot to me, and other girls have admitted to liking her and she has distanced herself from then. I would struggle with making friends, and so I think if I confessed, it would affect our entire friend group. But I don't want these feelings to grow stronger. I don't know what to do.

[bluesapphire]

I lost a great friend after telling her that I had feelings for her.. the last words I remember from her were "I was so happy for having a friend like you but you(I) ruined it" . It's been 4 years and we never talked, she blocked me on IG and FB but not on whatsapp..
I am actually glad that she left because if she hadn't I wouldn't have met the best girl in the world who is my wife now.. God has plans for us..

[ЮлияГалунова-зг]

I really need to leave my story here. Can I?
My best friend and I were soooo close for the last 3 years, supposedly too close, and I had no chance not to fall for her. I’ve always been so sure she was straight, she was (and still is) married with a guy. We were just friends and NEVER discussed our sexuality. Tree month ago she moved to another city to her husband and I felt so bad not having her around. And I realized I was so deeply in love with her this whole time. And I was so jealous of her husband and I didn’t know what to do with myself. It felt like I was drowning, I got into a deep depression.
So finally I decided to tell her that I cant live like that more, that I have feelings for her and really don’t know how we can stay friends. I was ready to let her go out of my life. I was so exhausted. I thought she would tell smt like “oh I’m so sorry but I don’t like girls” and I would move on. However, she said she has feelings for me too instead. She said she couldn’t imagine her life without me and that I was so much closer to her than her husband.
I was shocked and happy but only for a minute. Despite of how much she loved me she couldn’t choose to be with me and leave her husband because she loves him too. She even suggested me to become a threesome with her and her husband (WTF???). So many shit happened between us since then. The friendship and closeness were ruined, although we both pretend everything is ok. I ended up healing my broken heart by going on therapy trying to understand how I got into the situation like this; she decided to separate with her husband to figure out what she really wants. I guess it all for the best after all.
I got the lesson. I should be more open about my sexuality. I came out to so many people since this whole situation happened and I have never felt better about myself. I used to think about myself as pansexual. Now I think I was triyng to fit in the world were only straight relationships are normal (I’m from Russia and it’s even dangerous to be not straight here). I was fine about liking girls but I wanted to have options. Now I think I don’t have any, I only want to be with a girl. And I’m so fucking happy to admit and accept that.
Thanks, I got so relived :))

[kaweween]

The best news ever: Lilian is covid-free! 🙌🙌🙌

[ArsiekDHOL]

THIS IS MY LIFE, ... falling for a FREAKING STRAIGHT girl AND frieeenndd, ....GOD

[Birodalom]

My heterosexual sister and her heterosexual female friend was courting each other for FIVE YEARS, because they was in love with each other, but they both know the other girl is straight too, and if she confess, she lose her friendship forever, blah blah. Then my wife spilled the beans, and it was a disaster, they are separated, the other girl moved to Norway, but my sister three months later follow her, and now they are having their first year anniversary together! They are so cute, always asking us how lesbians doing this or that. I recommended them this channel. :)

[lmnopauley]

Ruined a 13-year friendship, because of this. After intimacy, distance, and her transformation into this hyper religious “straight” girl, I had to protect my well-being. Even despite her continued romantic gestures behind closed doors towards me, I decided to distance myself and eventually ended the friendship for my own sake. It’s been 3 years since we last spoke and I still find myself thinking of her from time to time. 😢

[silverlining]

I went through this and think it's maybe because my boundaries are blurred. Because I feel close to friends and attracted to girls it's easy to get crushes on straight girls. Also it's accepting less then I deserve with someone who is unavailable. I did feel a shift in a friend looking at my social media alot and commenting. She's bi and then said she's just split from some guy she was seeing briefly. I wouldn't pursue this though as don't want to get hurt or make a fool of myself. I'm happy being single and waiting some someone who knows what they want. But it's hard when I'm getting the attention. I'm just grateful for friendship right now and don't have the energy to chase anyone anymore :) x

[Soccernat]

This is an under-discussed topic. Thank you