Black Women Are TRAUMATIZED By Divesting!

Black Women Are TRAUMATIZED By Divesting!

In this viral video, a stunning African American content creator shares her deeply personal and heartbreaking experience of growing up in an elite, predominantly white prep school. While many would assume this environment symbolized "making it," her story reveals the unseen struggles of being a minority in spaces not designed for her.

She opens up about feeling out of place, never fitting in, and lacking a dating life during her formative years, resulting in a childhood that left lasting scars. Her honest account sparks a much-needed discussion about the trade-offs Black individuals often face when advancing to higher socioeconomic levels.

This exposes the other side of "divesting" "level up" hypergamy and many of the other movements right now that are appealing to young black women who are aspiring for a better life..

This video dives into critical questions:

What are the emotional and social costs of breaking into elite spaces as a Black person?
How do we navigate environments that are meant to foster success but fail to provide inclusion?
What can we do as a community to prepare and support one another in these spaces?
Join the conversation as we unpack the realities of social mobility, belonging, and the challenges of "success." Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to continue exploring these powerful discussions! 🙌✨

0:00 Introduction
1:00 The Hope of The Divester Fantasy
2:15 Black Women Who Grew Up in "Privilege"
4:15 If You Are Able To Level Up
6:00 Black Men Know Early On
6:45 Black Women Have The Allusion Of Inclusion

#SocialMobility #BlackExcellence #InclusionMatters #Identity #PrepSchoolChallenges

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[truthnotfeelings]

I saw a divestor speak about a black woman who was killed by her Whyte bf be like ‘y’all must be picking wrong because I don’t ave these issues’
Meanwhile the same woman was beated bloody by her Whyte ex
Divestors often don’t live in reality are a projecting a fantasy
I don’t appreciate it because it leads to division and real black women being used and harmed

[coolbreeze.-mortemadfasc]

“Standard of beauty” means “finding approval from Brad.”

[jamieh]

You hit it on the head. I went to a all white prep school. I was told very early and aggressively that i did not belong.
From teachers, students, staff, etc..
I decided at age 12 that I would no longer try for their approval and stand on my own.

[Manny_Toure]

Growing up, I've often noticed young black girls up to black women act as if they are a complete separate race from black men and just focus on the interests of bw only. Our experiences are very different true but I notice they never really had a race-first mindset. So when I always hear, "we marched for you in the streets". I barely, if at all, witnessed that like they say.

[blasme]

We all saw the picture of Emmett Till, we have no illusions in white circles.

[DirtyJamesUK]

3:33 I've never considered it from a girl's perspective. I had this EXACT upbringing, but I went to an all boys school for intelligent kids. As a confident, black, sporty boy, I never really got bullied, mentally or physically. But I experienced lots of racism outside of school

But girls are all about manipulation, groups, beauty, and being fashionable. And ostracising others from groups. My sister went to an all girl's school (the exact equivalent of mine) but turned out quite nasty.

[Jimaction]

For me, as a B1ack man, I remember being around years old when I realized how combative our society is AGAINST B1ACK people in general.

[darronfinnie]

Did they really think the greener grass is on the other side..

[j.baldwin]

If you raise your child in an elite, predominantly white prep school, then you can balance it out with a Jack and Jill or similar organisation. What these types of black parents miss is that other ethnicities have cultural clubs and schools that supplement any cultural shortcomings of traditional education. That's why a lot of Jews go to Hebrew school, Asians often congregate with people from their respective countries, Arabs often have recreational clubs for their children to congregate, there are Irish, Italian, Mexican heritage organizations, etc. The formal education is the foundation, not the all-encompassing education for a child.

[lovechildheart]

😂 I never understood divesting, I could never date white men. I just don't find them attractive. If you can't find an African-American man there's other options in the diaspora. We got black men from Africa, black man from the islands, there's also afro-latinas that love black women as well.

[raw]

What’s funny is most upper class black women are there BECAUSE of their father.

[LionMentality]

As a Black Man. I don't care. Black Women do what they want, Who they want and NO ONE can tell them anything different. It's their choices and decisions "The Sisterhood".
It's our time as Black Men to move on and marry women who love us regardless of color or ethnicity. Our Great Separation has been a long time coming

[chillycharles]

I agree with your assessment. I grew up in a 98% white city and was in honor classes so they were basically all white. The thing is, I was considered intelligent amongst white students, and sports were made up of 90% black athletes. i really never felt inferior nor an attraction to white girls as i thought dark skin was beautiful. My sister tho was brown skin like me and told me she had a totally different experience. While I had to adapt to being black and eventually looked at as a possible criminal although I was an honor student, she felt less attractive and lighter skin was better. She eventually married/divorced 2 light skin guys and had light skin kids. She also moved to an all white community while I have always lived in mostly black communities. They only difference with some black women, she would never marry white.

[AlternativeFundingSolutions]

I say let them choose who they want, some people are hard headed, and have to realize you will learn from your decisions. The excuse of being young is a poor excuse cause once you turn 18 you're an adult and there are no excuses for bad decisions.

[RonaldTillman-jc]

Your analysis is spot on. BM from practically birth know we are NEVER going to be welcomed in the larger cultures therefore we accept that fate and embrace our blackness. This is why it's much easier for us in integrated situations because we accept the social reality of the history of our country.

[charlesislaw]

Mad Luv&Respect Sis
Blessings to you&Fam

[ryanw]

As someone who grew in an upper middle class area, I completely understand her point. But for me while I am black and my parents did put in the position to be around my people, it was still hard because I have never fit with black people either.

[warrenbfeagins]

Assuming there's mutual attraction, I think you do better or have better outcomes when you date people based on character irrespective of race as opposed to target dating.

[JabrilSayyid]

The grass will always be greener IF YOU WATER IT…

[nutube]

The day will come when we'll realize that "they are not us", and we are not them. We are different physically, mentally and spiritually. The only way out is coming together as one mighty people.
All to the MH! 🙏🏿