Why Men Fall DEEPLY For Women Who Do This (And It’s Not Sex)

[Mary_QQQ]

1 Turn on inner light/ lifeforce
2 Go all in on uniqueness
3 Sensuality
4 clear and committed about values
5 Artfully holding directness and kindness
6 Paced vulnerability
7 Courageously interdependent

[Clementine.Pie.Am.I]

Many men adore women like this at first, but over time, some men start feeling outshone by their woman and start trying to diminish her. Being confident enough to be unique is often a double-edged sword. Many people envy it and attack you for it.

[Madhubindu.d]

Kindness
Self aware
Honesty
Taking care of themselves & others

[Alison-ukg]

be proud, be yourself, be independent, and stop being delusional & pin all your hope on finding the perfect man to solve all your problems. Demand respect no matter what! The perfect guy will find you!

[weekendnomad]

I agree with being clear about your values and don’t break them for a man ‼️‼️‼️

[Susan-fgnv]

I liked a guy once just for him being him. He is a wonderful human being. I realized one day I need to love, like, and admire myself as I do him. I now listen and take heart and show up loving myself not trying to be loved. When a man critique my personal individuality I realize I am not the one for him. I would have been happy standing in sewage fixing a septic system for that man with no complaints. Just proud to be next to him in his presence. So now I know that is what I look for in another person. Someone who likes me for me

[petras.]

This applies to women as much as men. Men, PLEASE dare to be your vulnerable, unique self! We have too many out there who are completely unremarkable because they try to fit some stupid stereotype. Be curious, be honest about your opinions, be a lifelong learner, and don't try to turn a woman into someone different than who you fell in love with. Allow her to remain an individual so she doesn't think she must 'shrink' herself to fit some expectation, thus losing herself in the relationship. Sending so much love ❤

[bhagavatilad]

The problem with doing that is that people get jealous of the attention a man gives you and they sabotage you so that you never get to the relationship stage ever again it happened to me

[melfrog]

I have been fiercely independent in the past. Feel it's something I had to learn through childhood that stayed with me.
Since my break up with my abusive ex, I am learning to lean in and ask for help when needed and embrace help when offered. The first half of this vid I feel I am doing well. I have the right people around me to help me be uniquely me and express my needs, values and boundaries in healthy open ways.

[anitaostrander]

Clear about and committed to their values is huge. Too many women are not clear about their values and therefore instead of being committed, they succumb to pressure …immediately losing a man’s respect

[Shawtymamma]

Be your yourself & the perfect guy will find you 🎉

[MichellePerdomoCoaching]

This was beautiful. The term be self-ignited gave me goosebumps. Thank you for sharing ❤

[SC-pmpg]

actual advice for once to be the best truthful version of yourself rather than manipulate someone with underhand tactics which is the clickbait 'advice' a lot of these other youtube 'relationship experts' promote-might be useful short term but will only cause problems down the line. Thankyou for this insight.

[laureleepoapst]

Truer words were never said. Thank you for this truth

[fleurrobert]

I use wheelchair and have bother knowing values and showing how I'm unique: excellent active listener, quirky sense of humour, deep empathy, great memory for trivia, interested in many topics for meaningful conversation, genuine smile ... however, people merely perceive an older woman in a wheelchair and, somehow, that equates to being incapable/unworthy

[bloom]

As usual a fantastic video • thank you Bernardo 🙏🏼♥️

[entrepreneurialempress]

I feel like I embody all of this but I can see how not pacing my vulnerability has been my downfall in the past. I genuinely believe every person we date or last experience changes us into the person we truly want to become.

[fmss]

I’m 45 and I’m unabashedly myself. At work I’m well known for my character because I am confident in who I am and I do not need to please anyone but myself.

[dariabogdan]

And that's the sad reality of life. There are more women than men who are willing to fulfil that role. So it's always the woman who has to stand out, has to work on herself and better herself.
Why don't we think: if there are not enough men, how can we encourage and find a way for men to better themselves? Maybe make x10, x100, x1000 more engaging videos for the men so they just stumble across them? Just a thought...

[shanbuchan]

Loved this video…you so easy to listen to.Your content is genuine and so beautifully placed on connecting with your truth 🤍 thank you for sharing.