Signs You're The Chill Friend

At least you’re not impatient.

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[warrenstarc]

Buzzfeed has a very skewed definition of what 'Chill' means.

[laurap]

Nope, if you're an hour late, you're not chill, you're rude.

[FunWithGuru]

This isn't the "Chill Friend", this is the "Simple Minded Friend". I think a Chill Friend is someone who doesn't get angry or up tight about anything. They don't care much for planning and just want to chill out with you.

[selcamin]

I always hold the door open for everybody, then my parents end up yelling at me because they're halfway down the parking lot and I'm still by the restaurant's entrance. xD

[sorox]

The chill girl is really cute, I love her facial expressions

[katb]

if "chill" means scatterbrained with no opinions...

[shojohi]

Forgetful, Indecisive, and a Pushover = Chill Friend?

[cdstiojuoo]

I am the chill friend, except when my best friend asks me to come over, I'm there in a heartbeat.

[erinmcallister]

last time i checked, *chill* and *pushover* are different things

[marieb.]

I love that girl's red curly hair.

[staardusted]

Chill=Holding doors open for people? That should be common courtesy

[soniadobi]

This is literally me, except for the Menu bit... I love food too much to NOT look at the menu.

[TheVildee]

No, this is not a doormat, this is a chill person! The fact that some of you look at her as a pushover just shows you're not the chill friend. The thing is, we don't mind these small things. Because they are just small things. And everyone are super friendly to you when you're like this. I don't have a single enemy, and I've never met the "liars" and "fakes" everybody talks about. If someone actually makes me angry, which happens maybe once every four years, they freak out when I change completely to let them know and they never do anything like that again. I have paid for things because my friends have forgotten money and stuff, but I've gotten it back in support and other constant small gifts :)
And when I sit and listen to other people it's because I want to, and I'm genuinely interested in my friends!
I'm always late too, this girl IS me.

[eggrollyummy]

Everyone saying this isn't a 'push-over' or a 'doormat' is definitely the impatient friend. The things that happened in this video were little things. Holding the door open for multiple people and letting other people pass during driving isn't being a pushover. If anything it's being patient and more kind than anything.

[culterwaleddy]

I'm chill, but I'm not lazy.

[samuelhodil]

Is there a difference between chill and pretty damn stupid?

[radsical]

There's a difference between chill and apathetic

[adolphadeirdre]

Why is everyone calling her a ditz and scatterbrained? Sure, you may see chill as a different definition but you see through the whole entire video she remains calm no matter the scenario. She plays everything off, even in an embarrassing moment for herself. If you actually look at the video, you realize she goes along with everything and is able to keep herself from overreacting to something. It's "chill" and she's nice and very "gonna wing it" kind of person. Yes she gets pushed around a lot but she doesn't let that bother her, and she still smiles.

[mrdunn]

This is more of a pushover friend than a chilled one

[hopedean]

All of those people saying this is a push-over... She's not. Im a 'chill' friend and in NO way am I a pushover. What's wrong with being patient and kind? What's wrong with being open to other options? What's wrong with being selfless? If there was REALLY something we didn't want, we would make it clear.