Why Won’t Guys Wife Her Up?

Today, we're checking out a video posted by a female fitness influencer who claims that she recently realized men don't like muscular, physically strong women. This raises the question: Can you be a strong woman and still embrace femininity? Let's discuss it.

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[abbeybuchman]

I love your closing statement, “femininity is not a weakness”. Such an important thing for women to know.

[emilyake]

All women need to remember or relearn this : your femininity is your greatest strength, not a weakness.

[Zeroangel]

I went to university with a very fit girl, as in hardcore six-pack, muscled arms and legs. She trained as a bodybuilder because she wanted to be the best in cheerleading. But while her body was totally trained, she still kept her femininity, loved wearing dresses, makeup and was just a sweet woman.

It's about the personality

[davidwolfe]

The fact that she is genuine takes responsibility for herself I got mad respect for her.

[rickwj]

The fact that she's aware of all this is a good sign. She genuinely seems sweet and I hope she finds what she wants in life.

[timlewis]

I became a widower 14 years ago and I've been running scared ever since. I have had many women trying to tie me into a relationship but they push too hard. My wife and I had a good marriage . She ran and was in charge in the house I looked after the outside. Major decisions were discussed them depending on the situation either I made the decision or she made the decision. Worked well for us. 34 years of marriage before Cancer won

[matthewpipoly]

There's nothing wrong with her. The fact that she came to this realization on her own is impressive and a sign that maybe she can still meet the right guy.

[taragonleaf]

My mom was a tomboy 100%. feed the chickens, hunt deer, built a shed. She was also painted her nails, wore pretty dresses and makeup.

[Capt._Batwookie]

My girlfriend when we first met was trying so hard not to look or sound like a tomboy. She was raised mostly by her father and was treated more like a son/younger brother where they would roughhouse. Being her first relationship, she attributes her new found feminine qualities to me treating her like a woman and from what I can tell she enjoys it. I love her and am blessed to see her grow and blossom into a beautiful feminine woman while still having a little tomboy charm.

[silverwolf]

Just a few minutes in, she seems great and just unfortunetly lumped in with the 'boss babe' stereotype. I didnt get any red flags from her. Culture's lied about what a lot of men want, but she also seems fun, responsible, and takes care of her health. She's not blaming people, just realizing she's been lied to. Maybe more of a tomboy, but there's nothing wrong with that. I hope she finds her person soon 😊

[WowMomLiz]

I’ve been a Tom boy my whole life. I grew up with boys, so I was more comfortable being more tough than feminine. I met my husband in high school and he fell in love with my head strong tough energy, with my skater shoes, my skateboard and ponytails. As I grew older I found my feminine side, and my husband loves it when I dress up, but he also loves it when we jump in our cars and go cruise together. I think it’s important to find a man that just loves you for who you are, he’s out there for you.

[roniquecross]

Wow Brett. You put into words exactly what I’ve felt for most of my teen years up until the last year or two (I’m 23). It was a defense mechanism. I remember being a tomboy and hating anything “girly”/feminine in my early teens because I saw it as a weakness. A weakness I needed to protect myself from. It’s so refreshing hearing another woman that felt the same as me but now holds new ideas as I’m breaking out of that old mindset. Haven’t heard anyone else bring up this perspective, thank you!

[nickcunningham]

As a guy, I felt no negative emotions toward her, didn't see anything wrong with her sharing her epiphany, and yet somehow knew she was gonna get a lot of nasty comments from guys. This gender war is stupid, everyone keeps looking for reasons to hate. I hope she finds what she's looking for.

[DaFrancc]

100% agree. I am personally against tattoos and piercings, I don't have them and I don't want my girl to have them. But women working out or even very muscular women are definitely not a turn off, quite the opposite actually. I'd rather my girl look like a she-hulk than overweight or anorexic. Taking care of yourself is attractive, eating right, moving right, and doing right by yourself for your own well-being.

[the_weasel_king]

All women need to understand STOP GETTING ADVICE ON MEN FROM OTHER WOMEN. Thats like me a dude giving a woman advice on being pregnant. It’s ridiculous.

[willowtree]

When you described how you were in high school, about how you dressed and presented yourself to the world. It sounded exactly like me in high school as well. Wore my 'masculine' traits as a badge of honor like you said. Now 10 years off I've fully embraced my feminine side, now have 3 kids with my husband. He helped me realize it was ok to be soft and feminine. Didnt make me weak or less than to want those things I denied in myself since I was a kid.

[stationthedoor]

For years my daughter was attracted to a certain type of guy, that always led to her eventually being treated badly. She decided to try dating someone different than her usual type, and so far she has had a much better experience. So, my advice to ladies who keep ending up with the wrong guy, is try changing things up. Try something different!

[logantenryou]

My wife has tattoos. Personality is everything. Before I met my wife I had given up on relationships. The only reason I gave my wife a chance was because she found a way to separate herself from all of the other women. When I gave her a chance she took it and kept showing that she wanted this to work out despite our fights and flaws. Every other woman I dated gave up the second something went wrong. Sell your personality not your physique.

[arcticglory]

One problem is that all those tattoos make a statement. And that statement is the emulation of the strong feminist that came before her and marketed that “look”. She may be a super nice girl whom likes to work out. But she has emulated a biker chick or man hater feminist, but put on a dress and did her hair nice.
The contradiction is a red flag.

Also I think she has made herself appealing to the fully tattooed crowd and in doing so has removed her appeal from the more traditional clean or tattooed free crowed.
More traditional men whom want to get married look for more traditional women, tattoo free, smoke free.
We men are usually oblivious, but those stand out.

[SoundheWarCry]

Other than appearance wise (tattoos and piercing), I think her demeanor, as well as her humility makes her a lot more wifeable than she realizes. She's not too far off. PS. it's also not because she goes to the gym, nothing wrong with that