r/Amioverreacting Help! My Boyfriend LOVES Men!

0:00 Intro
0:09 Liar
3:36 Pee plaster
6:44 Checking in
9:15 Christmas
14:04 Crazy rules

[SergioBicerra]

Bumble girl: she doesn't spend christmas with her family cause they've got fed up with her

[AmEvfam]

That last story: it's frustrating how many people say "open relationship" to mean "I get to sleep around as much as I want, but the moment you do, I consider it a bad thing"

[nils]

Story 3 and 4: Don’t you just love it when a potential partner shows all the red flags early on before the relationship actually becomes serious?

[LuckyFox_]

As a ukrainian, the girl in Story 4 does not represent our culture and values here. Celebrating with family is very common here.
Also, for the longest time until recent we had Christmas on Jan 7th. So there is very easy compromise right there...

[Mario-SunshineGalaxy]

The fiancé even wrote his own post where he basically doubled down and made fun of Redditors for being backwards, sensationalist, and prudish and hyped himself and his weird friends up as some sort of hilarious intellectuals that were better than everyone else, which is ironic since he was mocking the average Redditor mentality by pulling a peak Reddit move. He basically treated the whole thing as some big joke and sort of bragged about effectively “convincing” OP that nothing weird was going on.

[CloserZero]

Brother. Pal.
Everyone single one of the guys I did the “act gay” shit with in high school is some kind of queer now, myself included

[madeline]

Story 1: not only did OP discover love-bombing, but also the concept of bisexuality.
Story 4: yeah, I'm Ukrainian, and I don't know what this person is talking about. Family traditions are just as strong here as anywhere else. Also, Dabney, never say "свята вечеря" ever again, lol

[annabethsmith-kingsley]

Christmas girlfriend think they're married. But, if they got married... she'd find out soon that _she'd_ have to go to the in-laws for Christmas.

[fdm]

Happy birthday, Rslash. Story 1: OPs fiance is obviously bisexual and closeted.

[Dphantomfan]

Story 2: he was in a house, there was at least one toilet available. WTAF?! My guess is this is the contractor equivalent of spitting in someone’s food. And even then why the F in the kitchen, I mean, there’s no right place to do that in a house (except for the toilet in the bathroom), but the kitchen is most definitely the worse.

And if it’s proof. OP needs I’m pretty sure if she take it to court and send that piss cover mix to any lab to confirm, no judge would argue that they need to redo the whole thing, and issue a full refund because seriously WTF.

[nomarspaulding]

Jesus Christ. Christmas Girl is full blown crazy. How about the idea that a couple might go *together* and visit eachother's families on a holiday like normal humans? Even I have no trouble figuring why she was still looking for a boyfriend...

[nopenopenopenope]

The Christmas story: she's a weirdo, she can't even explain herself clearly. Crazy

[DarkEinherjar]

Last story: of course she wanted the relationship to be open only on her end... as always, "I want to open up the relationship" is code for "I'm already cheating on you and I want to do it without consequences... BUT DON'T YOU DARE DO THE SAME TO ME!!!"

[Erika.Jupiter]

The first Op has posted an update within the comments of her last post where she details that the love bombing has stopped, the wedding has been delayed once again and she doesn't feel like she can leave him because "she just loves him so so much".

The kicker? The update was posted a few minutes ago. I'm 99% sure that the entire post was fake. From the way she talks, to the way her fiancee posted his side of the story... everything is too "perfect". Especially with how involved she is in telling us her entire life's story every week.

[timisme]

I think I know what happened with story 2:
Site Manager: I've gotten complaints about your attitude on OP's job.
Plasterer: I just that I HATE doing that job because "reasons"!
Site Manager: Well we need the job done. Just make sure urine to your work from now on.
Plasterer: You got it!

[eric]

For the plaster story, threatening a lawsuit would get them to comply fast. Save the bucket, don't stir it. Maybe try to collect a small sample of the unmixed pee.

[Dphantomfan]

Story 1: I make jokes with my friends like that too, but I have never sent pics of my parts like that and I don’t know anyone else that does that. Unless they’re are or trying to smash. Poor OP is only just starting to realize she’s a beard.

[pascaleelliott]

Last story : OP needs to leave that relationship. It's not only toxic, it's a double standard selfish relationship he's in, with a girl who clearly only wants the benefits of having a boyfriend and not the committment or equality of being in a relationship. Open or not.

[LilBluSky]

My husband and I spend Christmas together with each other/our kids AND with our families. Like, we will typically start out here, and then go to his parents house (cuz its physically closer to our place), then we go spend Christmas afternoon/evening with my family.


I don't understand the hangup that this girlfriend has with the set-up. Like... Why can't they celebrate together AND with family???

[MorganVsTheInternet]

Christmas story, what is she huffing? Most people spend the holidays with their parents or extended family! Like is she already doing the groundwork to isolate him from his family!