It's time for some TOUGH LOVE decluttering!

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Are you tired of fighting a messy and cluttered home?! Let's chat about the war against clutter and how you can win the battle once and for all.

As your friend, I will give you some tough local and some hard truths. Today is the day you put down the excuses and pick up a trash bag and donation box. Let's do this!

[bridzs]

BREAKING NEWS: confused husbands all around the world reported their wives started attacking carboard boxes while screaming like Xena. The women allegedly all blamed some type of bug for their behaviour.

[susandavis]

My Aunt who was 90 years, complained one day to me that she did not have room in her chest of drawers to even put her everyday pants and shirts or underwear. I looked in the chest and all deep and full to the brim, had about 150 old belts from dresses, long gone, tiny little balls of old leftover yarn, her MIL’s old hearing aide, and the same MIL’ old false 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 No wonder she had no room in her drawers for her clothes. She got mad at me for trying to talk her into getting rid of all this junk, but finally let go, and we discarded, 2 big bags of pure junk. She was really happy when she was able to place her clothes, ( neatly) in to those drawers. And loved me even more🤣🤣

[MarnaGroves]

I donated my mother's antique china to a local tea house that is in our city's historical district. They loved it and told me that if my family came to have dinner there, to let them know and they would serve us with them. Win-win.

[BeingNancy]

Great live Cas. Here is a fairly recent quote directly from my adult single son. I was Godsmacked when he said it. He's the king of tough love. "Mom, you're not getting any younger neither is Dad. Why are you saving this? You don't need it. I don't want it. Get rid of it or I'll have to...and I will. It's not fair to leave me with this job" I started my response to him with..."But Nick" He promptly left the room. Gotta love him.

[lianatrombley]

I found a neighbor who takes ANYTHING back with her to family in Mexico! Gave her a bunch of luggage, after someone gave me her old set. She was so happy. She said that, now, everyone in her family will have a suitcase when they visit Mexico family. Yippee! Everyone wins.

[darkphoenix]

I watch this and this helped me to throw out spiral notebooks worth of my notes. Anytime something comes to mind I just write it in the closest notebook, thinking it later I’ll put it in something organized. I never do. I’ve got dozens of these spiral notebooks filled with my brains rantings. And I was going through them slowly to figure out if I wanted to keep each page and where I was gonna put those pages or if I was gonna have to rewrite them. And I realized, Cass would tell me that I have not used these journals in three years and my life was fine, so I do not need whatever written in these journals. There’s no need to even go through them.

So I threw them out!

[enlightenedDragon]

Honestly for the china example, people need to just start using it again! Use it on the sabbath once a week. Use it once a month on the 1st or the full moon, or birthdays. use it on a lot of holidays. Enjoy it and appreciate because you should use beautiful things and appreciate them.

[angelahagemeyer]

The day I packed up and donated three sets of “grandma china” I had inherited (because no one else in the family wanted it on either my or my husband’s side) was the day I started taking back my house!! It was so liberating!!! My husband and I were the first in our generation to get married (my brother and BIL were neither one married and settled until years later) and so we became the dumping ground for all the things from our grandparents. My mother and MIL both gave us all the things they didn’t want - furniture, china, Knick knacks, art etc. Before we knew it, my husband and I had a house full of grandma things and our home was not our own. Out of a sense of guilt and obligation we took it all. Even a gigantic doll house. It was RIDICULOUS. Donating those sets of china freed me from it - I began getting rid of that stuff like crazy and I finally started having the house I wanted. There are still a few lingering things around that my husband’s parents convinced him are “worth a bunch of money” that he won’t let go of, but it’s 90% all gone. It’s amazing.

[mirjam]

Let's make space for space in our homes, in our mind. A big hug from Germany😊

[mariahaggman]

Hi Cas! I am 67 and live in Sweden. You are pinning needles into my soul. It feels terrible but I can se myself, with warrior makeup, screeming and runnning down to the basement. 😂 I am like a part-time hoarder but now there is hope… 😊

[maureenbullis]

After listening to you yesterday talking about how we feel badly about wasting things and how we bought this or that cleaning product but we aren’t going to use them, I Decluttered two thirds of my cleaning products from my laundry room . I was high for hours with happiness! I also kicked out random tools that landed in there. I told my husband to take all that toxic stuff to the toxic waste area at the dump and when I told him that Cas gave me permission to let it go. He said, “I like her.”

[melissa]

My mom retired in Feb 2017 & started to declutter. It was super hard as she had her mothers things as well - she passed away in 2001. 😢. When the pandemic hit, she started working harder to get rid of stuff so I didn’t have to deal with it when she died, that was a blessing for me. I tried to help in Oct 2022 when she got out of the hospital and she refused to get rid of anything. My mom passed in March 2023 & I spent weeks cleaning out her apt, deciding what to keep that I wanted & what to donate/toss. It was hard & I was in tears every day but it had to be done. I got rid of 95%of what was in there, I have a storage unit small on 5x11 with the items/furniture I wanted to keep, plus the paperwork I needed in case of estate audit. Prayers that doesn’t happen. When I came home from that trip, I started working on my house, have taken 2 trips to donate & have a pile on my dining room table right now that will be going this weekend with more stuff. It’s hard & it’s emotional up to keep my sanity I have to do it. ❤❤❤❤

[terriestrada]

Working on the garage and found a suitcase full of my clothes from when I was in my twenties. My kids saw them and fought over who gets what. Made me happy and I was glad I got to see my favorite clothes get a new life with my kids

[robinmitchell]

I've known ladies in hospice/home care who threw parties for their families/friends to attend. At the party the lady would give the attendees the items she wanted them to have so nobody could say "Oh, Granny wanted me to have such-and-so after she died, she just forgot to put it in her will."

[AlmaPerry]

My grandma recently passed away (99), she lived in the same home for roughly the past 50 years. While cleaning things out, my mom and aunts were blown away with how much junk she had squirreled away in drawers, cupboards, closets, etc. We are talking bills from the 80's, unopened utensils and other kitchen items mixed in with the bills. ALL OF THIS went right into a dumpster. The amazing thing is that no one knew this stuff existed because their home had gobs and gobs of storage compartments. The house always looked so immaculate!

[andrearoose]

Cas, one year later and this is still a fabulous body doubling and motivating video~❤❤

[EntertainmentByLaura]

I need this tough love and want more! FYI I actually have Viking Blood running through my veins. I am a Shield Maiden!!! I would love if you can do tough love videos by categories. Example: Tough Love Declutter Your Bathroom; Your Kitchen; Your Clothes Closet; Your Bedroom; Your Living Room; Your utility/garage/basement etc. This video is great but overwhelming, too exhausting and I’d lose my motivation. If it was broken down, I could handle it. Or pick the categories I need help with. I LOVE that in this video you are constantly telling it like it is. Tough love. Reminders we are warriors! You don’t just say it once. It was very helpful to me that you kept on reiterating these truths over and over! You are changing lives! I’m not being dramatic, you are and have been changing MY life and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you! Now I’m crying!!!

[martamiranda]

🥰😇🥰 Dear Cass, you have no idea how much I love you 💖 and how much you have helped me in my life. I don't have friends, well, I didn't have friends, but now I have you. You are a blessing to me. I've been following you for a long time, but I appreciate you more and more. I want you to know that I also ended up crying like you at the end of the podcast. Millions of Blessings for you and your beautiful family 🥰😇 from New Jersey, USA

[janegonzalez]

Not a crybaby, Cas, just passionate and honest! You know what a difference this can make in people’s lives. Keep it up and keep being you, girl!💖

[nelly]

So off I went at midnight to sort out my mug cupboard! I pulled everything out, washed the cupboard out & rearrange the selves. I was then able to fit my mugs, waterbottles & flasks in. All in one very thin cupboard. Thanks for the tough love.