The Four Choices to Overcome Adversity | Carrie Koh | TEDxValparaisoUniversity

[iamnotfabio]

Carrie is to be applauded for the bucket list she created for her son to enjoy and for giving him those memories.

[BroadcastSocials]

I can relate to Carrie's hesitation to open that book. Sometimes, it's just too overwhelming to face our suffering head-on. It takes time to gather the strength to confront our pain and find ways to cope with it.

[logan-steele]

For me the take away from Carrie's talk is that even in the darkest of times, there are choices we can make to find moments of joy and meaning.

[cookieguy]

4:28 1. Ownership of uncormatble emotions rather then projecting
5:31 2. Connection with negatives. Experiencing benefits.
6:52 3. Identity, Self confidence
7:46 4. Changing Focus

[jacobydusar]

There's no such thing as a good or bad person. We're all just people doing things that get perceived one way or another by other people based on their own experiences and perspectives.

[julianfritzer]

The concept of choices in adversity resonates with me. It's empowering to know that even when we face difficult circumstances, we still have choices. Taking ownership of our emotions and behaviors is crucial to navigating through tough times

[-joanna-wang]

I think connection is vital during tough times; it allows us to share our burdens and find support from others.

[aliyahrhodes]

I'm sorry but I couldn't get past the first few minutes, it's so heart breaking. I do really admire this woman's ability to talk about it with positivity though

[juniorjacksonjr]

this really hit home. need to watch again. thank you Carrie

[naomiveritas]

Carrie's realization that she wasn't alone in facing her hardship is powerful. It's true that bad things happen to good people every day, and I understand how focusing on that can leave us feeling hopeless. I guess knowing that others go through similar struggles can offer some solace and solidarity.

[martinrgarix]

I really like the approach to dealing with adversity that she's laying out here.

[therealdualippa]

Lol loved the story around the 5:17 mark, we've definitely all been that bleeping woman.

[robertahvieira]

I think lots of people want to stay in that space because sometimes it can make us feel guilty, like by choosing to get over it and continue living our lives is somehow disrespecting the person who is no longer here.

[RedRustyAdvertising]

The nurse's suggestion to make each day the best day for Elliot is truly inspiring. It's amazing how a simple shift in perspective and a decision to celebrate life can bring so much meaning and joy, even in the face of adversity

[fionatruscott]

While adopting this proactive mindset can be empowering, we must also recognize that certain situations may genuinely limit our available choices. In those situations all we can do is control our responses to it

[OO-OO-OO-OO-z]

I have so much admiration for the way this lady chose to honor her littles ones life. Every response we have to something is a choice.

[maddoxreynolds]

What a touching and powerful story! Choosing to celebrate Elliot's life and creating a bucket list for him was truly inspiring.

[katarinabloom]

I think it's essential to acknowledge that some choices may not lead to immediate and dramatic transformations. Sometimes it is a slow and arduous process

[jacquelinebrumbaugh]

"Adversity does not require suffering". Thanks Carrie for that take away. Unfortunately society conditions us to suffer when adversity enters out lives.

[briannestory]

The story of Elliot's battle with myotubular myopathy is heartbreaking. It reminds me that life can be so unpredictable, and even the tiniest shifts can have immense consequences. Such a stark reminder of the fragility of our hopes and dreams.