7 Reasons Why You're Still Single

If you are doing any of the things in this video, please let this be a wake-up-call!

[hank_poole_]

I'm not single, but I clicked because of Todd, because Todd is the main reason I'm not single.

[DonVal]

“Better than awful” that phrase is awesome. I feel like I’m not the best at setting up dates but this girl I’m seeing enjoys being with me.

[katrahqueymusic]

im 37 and im still single. always had really bad self-esteem around women i'm attracted to & scared to take risks. most of the time im just at home in front of a screen working on stuff. sometimes when i go out to events or public places i just wanna go back home & work.

im doing my best to not give up. when i was in my 20s, i was around more women because i was invited to various get togethers, and i was in college too. nowadays i have to brainstorm more ways to meet women constantly. the only place that i can meet and talk to women is my current job. i can cold approach but i have to socially warm up so much before i can do so. its tough but i will not give up.

[zzzzzzzzzzz]

Hey Todd just wanted to say THANK YOU! I'm autistic, and your (100% FREE) content gave me enough of an understanding of the dynamics of dating to get enough experience to meet an amazing woman I've been living with for almost 2 years now & plan to marry.

I liked how your approach was on UNDERSTANDING the dynamics, and simple ways to interact with women that didn't feel shitty or manipulative.

Turns out they're just like me in different circumstances. We met in person, but I also had much more success via OLD.

I never purchased a course or coaching, just studied carefully and took notes in a spreadsheet of key dynamics & ways to handle situations. Wish there was some way I could repay you.

Thank you for helping me meet the love of my life in my late 20s as I was giving up hope, it's wonderful to be able to start a family now.

[hellothere]

If a girl rejects me, I see it as a direct rejection of my being, the very core of who I am. I open myself to them, they see the depths of who I am, and say “no thanks”

This is why I am single.

[danielhall]

We need a lot more advice for people working from zero. Having trouble leaving the house, forming conversations and connections and getting the will to do anything. Maybe have discord or online forum for discussing these things.

[martinzen]

Todd, what about ho3flation? Relationships are super volatile these days, even if you have a ton to bring to the table

[fuzzypanda]

I leave the house all the time. I'm a pretty attractive guy who's in great shape, am outgoing, charismatic, and loves talking with people. I used to go to bars and clubs almost every weekend, and I've regularly gone to improv classes, meetup events, dance classes and more for years.

I can start and keep conversations going easily and get genuinely excited when meeting new people. Bringing a fun energy and making people smile and laugh is something I absolutely love to do.

But no matter what I do, I never get interest from ANY of the girls that I'm interested in. None. I'm in a better position and put in more energy than the majority of guys, but get the same results. What can I do to turn this around?

[ThatCasualZach]

Far from single. But as a former player, a small business owner, and a sculpture artist....creating attraction and staying attractive is super important. I was in a cafe yesterday and I asked the check out girl her name after months of saying hello...her name was Nyla...I said Lyla? She said Nyla with an N...so I said in a deep calm voice...well Nyla, I will see you later. As I walked away I saw in the window reflection she watched me walk all the way out of the store. I guarantee she told her co workers (also cute girls) and she is waiting for the next time I come in. Do I need her attention? No. But she is only 22 and I'm 38...it gets my heart pumping and raises my social value by creating sexual tension without being needy. I want there to be whispers of me. "Without promotion, something terrible P.T. Barnum

[happydays]

I'm single because I'm focused on getting my business off the ground and trying to acquire customers. I spoke to a very successful businessman and he told me if I really want to become ultra successful and ultra wealthy in my start up I have to be willing to sacrifice things and avoid distractions that have nothing to do with my business. At least at the beginning. But if I just want a regular job then work life balance is more feasible

[jo]

I joined a yoga class to be around women more often and get used to it, but still, I find myself sucking on talking to them generally. My social skills are just in complete atrophy for spending way too much time working, no matter how much I try to improve it. I end up just talking to the older 60yo women instead of the ones my age, (30ish). I'd love to see a video on a "first aid kit" to not being autistic and weird to women or people in general. Truth is I do believe in most cases, brainwashing yourself into being charismatic feels like the wrong way to go about it. I do believe deeply, that most women would be better of with a millionaire Chad instead of me, that I don't have all things in life figured out yet, because that's reality. If you are not a top-shelf guy why act like one. Seems contradictory, seems like a quick fix for a deeper problem, which is "it just takes years to build yourself up to something worthy of being with" as a man.

[positive_vibes_]

I'm 33 and never had a gf. I'm about to watch this

[sgazzz]

Great tips on asking/saying more interest inciting things...

[RevanKnight]

I am single because I completely lack the desire to interact romantically with anyone and I have serious trouble getting along with women. God has called me to a lifetime of singleness and I am finding singleness to be far more fulfilling and happy than trying to find a woman to date.

[iammyself]

#8 I feel like I am, while my life situation is objectively ok, still kind of behind other potential options for girls. I’m 29, haven’t had a real girlfriend, still live at home, drive away from the city. No consistent social group, either or real passions that I could be dedicated to (other than hot girls). I’m sure I could try for short-term wins and just get good at game in general before moving out. Could you address this?

[ricardok]

I'm temporarily single, and this video is a good motivation before a long weekend.

[justmadesomethingup]

I haven't yet found that eclipse of a woman I am attracted to also being attracted to me. I recently had a woman approach me and I gamed her because the confidence boost and conversation practice. She was unhealthily obese to the point she had trouble moving.

[PhsychoSomatic]

I get more support from some guy on the internet named Todd than I do from any of my family members on the matter

[YonatanZolti]

The main reason I'm single even after following todd for 8 years is I can't overcome my fear of rejection
I didn't give up but it is frustrating

[marioottaiano]

I'm single because I want to watch Todd's videos