9 Things Men Should NEVER Wear to a Funeral

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00:00 Men Should NEVER Wear to a Funeral Introduction

Funerals are sedate, somber occasions. But did you know that many people often get their funeral attire wrong? We focused on some of the things you really shouldn’t wear when at a funeral.

00:14 1. Anything Contrary to the Wishes of the Host
01:05 2. Overly Casual Clothing
01:59 3. Distracting Attire
02:34 4. Rarely-Worn, Ill-Fitting, Excessively Funeral Attire
03:55 5. Boldly Bright and Vibrant Colors
05:18 6. High-Contrast Combinations
06:37 7. Branded or Logoed Clothing
07:32 8. Uncomfortable Clothes
08:38 9. Anything Precious, like Fragile or Stainable Fabrics

Funerals are special opportunities to remember those who have passed. And we hope that by warning you about what you should not wear to one, you will have one less thing to worry about during this time of grief.

10:10 Outfit Rundown

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[viennapalace]

I recently attended the funeral of the father of a very close friend of proud Scottish heritage.
I wore a dark grey suit, black shirt & tie in the design of my clan's tartan.
I was complimented for my attire by several people & was also praised by the funeral director for respecting the deceased's heritage by wearing the tie.
I went home feeling both good & bad.

[pohjanmies]

In Northern Europe it is a norm to wear dark or black suit, black tie, white shirt, black shoes and minimal (if any) jewelry. Same goes with overcoats and gloves: all black. There are almost no exceptions and black suit is appropriate in every funeral

[garrettlundy]

My father was a funeral director for 40+ years and my brother has taken over the family business. You would be HORRIFIED to know what people actually wear to funerals, as opposed to Hollywood funerals ☠️

[eyeheartsushi]

Your etiquette videos are always informative.

[TheCatAteMyShoe]

I love this channel. All the men here are maintained and clean, handsome and well spoken. Watching this channel is like a breath of fresh air.

[russellziske]

Black suit. Black tie. Black shoes. Done.

[jimbeam]

I disagree with this one. For a funeral, a dark suit, black shoes and tie, and no jewellery or decoration.

[thelegendofdarius]

Recently 2 of my aunts has passed away. specifically, I’m gonna talk about the 1st aunt that passed away. this was at a summer. sure I was prepared what to wear at the funeral in Nogales, Mexico. I wore my black sports jacket, with a white dress shirt, black necktie with black chinos. & black penny loafers. not to mention, I wear my white pocket square. almost everyone at the funeral the majority of them was wearing too casual clothing & none of them were wearing suits. I was pretty much the only one very well dress to say the least. I mean sure you can wear whatever you want in these days, but you had to keep the funeral dress code in mine.

[deafbear]

Your information is good BUT if anyone makes plan of his own funeral or memorial service, he make requests out of black or mourning colors, the people would wear what he requests to celebrate a life instead of grieving. I alway respect what decision he make before what happens to him.

[jasonwilkie]

Hello.
I think at 2:39 one of the few people who could make that whole outfit look good would be Hugo Weaving, but even he, remembering rule #3, “No Distracting Attire” would probably take off the sunglasses at the funeral itself. 🙂😎😇

[SonnyCorleone-tgik]

Gentlemens Gazette, interesting topic. Recently I went to a funeral of a niece's, Fiancée's sister. And the deceased persons family was wearing baseball attire of her favorite team. Since she was a big fan. My family wore suits and dresses though. The deceased brother wore a suit too. Nobody told us how to dress so guests came how they wished. Most were in hoodies and blue jeans. There was not even a priest since the family was not religious. The deceased husband was in front speaking for a few minutes. All ok with me. Thanks for the upload.

[laurajackson]

This is a very timely presentation, as it seems social norms are shifting with regard to funerals and appropriate attire. Thank you!

[acftmxman]

GG, I appreciate you making a video about this subject. But on the other hand, I’m shocked that enough people really don’t know these things that you felt you had to do it. Unfortunately in my life, I’ve gone to more funerals than I can count starting at 5 years old.

[robbentotta]

Maybe it is only for me, but i have taken notice of the crew's video editing becoming more and more satisfactory or nicer. That's about it. I hope you keep on going, and have a very enjoyable, restful and most importantly...a day which satisfies you!

[beornkhan]

A Black suit with a black tie and black shoes are appropiate

[Prentiss.Yeates]

I only have a navy blazer and charcoal trousers. Is this appropriate

[j.s.]

This video couldn’t have come in a better timing. So my first cousin was assassinated in lebanon and we’re doing a mass this sunday for his soul in the us. I will be wearing a charcoal suit and a black tie but it’s super cold so i will be wearing a gray scarf. Also Should i wear a navy peacoat or a tan overcoat ?

[billyo]

If the deceased relatives wear casual clothing that's OK by me. However, I will always wear a dark siut, dark shoes and muted tie on such occasions out of self respect as much as the deceased. If the family wants me to dress in costume or inappropriate clothing I will not go to the funeral. If the family wants to make a circus out of the event that would be unfortunate, but I would have to excuse myself from partaking in such a spectacle.

[Markipedia]

I´m afraid you missed to tell us what to wear at our own funeral. However i think i´m going with a nice walnut coffin with dark metal grips and maybe a bunch of flowers.

[EcstaticTemporality]

I prefer Raphael's video about funeral etiquette he made 9 years ago. At least he wore what you are actually should wear to a funeral as he narrated the video.