7 Mistakes Pastors Wives Should Not Make | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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[janineakaliche]

7 mistakes pastors wives should not make
1. Don't fight the church ( God's wife)
2. Don't confuse hospitality to access. Isaiah 39: don't allow everyone access into your home. Have clear boundaries
3. Don't assume you belong to the church. Don't be entitled be grateful whenever your members do something for you.
4. Never take prayer as optional.... YOU CAN NOT FO LIFE WITHOUT PRAYER.
5. Forgetting that you live in a glass house. Don't throw stones be careful.
6. Forget to live for an audience of one. Live to please God.
7. Never forget that you husband he's 1st a man then a man of God. He has weaknesses too.

Wow thank you Pastor M. Receive much love ❤️ from a pastor's wife here in 🇰🇪🇰🇪

[Jennykuri]

About a year ago this message Pop on my timeline and I refused to listen to it because I'm not a pastor's wife or praying to marry a Pastor... Well I'm engaged to be married to a pastor in less than 2 months from now and here I am listening to this message 🥺

[edenphilemon]

I want to applaud every pastor's wife who saw this video and clicked on it. I'm a pastors daughter so I have some knowledge from my own experience and also being around a lot of pastors' wives. So, I think I'm not the only one who's first reaction seeing this video was "Here we go again" like she said, the expectations and rules on how to be can be overwhelming. This is why I know that it must have taken courage, discipline, a determination to get it right and HUMILITY for many of us to click on this video. And to my pleasant surprise, it wasn't a bashing or shaming but a space where we could feel safe, put down our walls and listen to someone who understands and isn't speaking from a "high pedestal" I should've expected nothing less from Pastor M. I just felt the need to acknowledge and appreciate the pastors wives who watched, and tell you that God is happy and proud of you. You are mothers of nations so keep equipping yourselves for your role, His grace is sufficient. God bless you🙏❤❤❤

[tory]

Am not a pastors wife and am not married but I just love listening to her 😩😃

[PROSPERTEDDY]

I am one of those who never planned to marry a pastor but it was a plan of GOD. I am glad God is teaching me how to embrace the call.Thank you so much mum for this great insight

[ChatsWithFlo]

“your home is not your church.” 🔥🔥

It took me years as a pastor’s wife to realize that. We have to be careful about who we allow in our personal space. If I would have learned this when I became a pastor’s wife years ago, it would have saved me a lot of heartaches.

[A_living_Stone]

As a single lady, I felt chills just listening to you speak 🔥

[telormeli]

❤❤ Wow, I was so blessed by watching this video. There is so much I want to say because I’m a young Pastor’s wife and a very new one too. My husband was already a Pastor when I married him and we’ve been married for a year and some months. God bless you so much for sharing this. I was “wowed” from the introduction to the very end. It kept getting better and better at every point and I didn’t even want it to end. I really love the way you backed everything with scriptures. It really kept me going and wanting more.
I don’t know when this video was made but the message is so fresh, practical and real for me.
Obviously, I can say more 😂 but I’ll just end here.
I really like you already even though it’s my first time seeing you or hearing about you. I even want to meet physically 🙈. I pray God grants me that privilege and opportunity.
I’m so excited that’s why I can’t stop bubbling 😂. Ok I’ve stopped 😅. God bless you so much Pastor M❤. Thank you 😊🙏🏽

[thaduchess]

I'm a Pastor's daughter. This helped me tremendously to even cover my own Father.

[shamelesskay]

This has really blessed me as a Pastor's wife💖Thank you Pastor Mildred💖

[jacquelinemaliwa]

My first question is where were you 14 years ago when I got married 😊😊 but I know God's time is always the right time, my sister I just want to thank you for this wonderful teaching, all these mistakes you are teaching I have made them and I just pray that there is still time for me to rectify them. Please continue teaching is cause when I got married I was never taught about prayer or how to pray for my marriage, my husband, myself, my children . All what I knew to pray for was to pray for the ministry, pray for the church pray for the pastor, we got so good at praying for all these things but never did someone teach me to pray for my own things. i just wanted to say thank you women of God

[eleanornkwenti]

As a pastor's wife, this has changed me. It's my first listening to you ma, but you have inspired me ans blessed me.

[bloozomafrique]

Phenomenal, the tongues got me 😂😂thank you Momma 💞 Am a Pastors wife and I really appreciate this. More unction

[blisshouse]

1-Ne pas combattre l'église parce que le mari n'a pas assez de temps pour toi ou la maison.
2-Limiter les visites à la maison(mari, maison, famille)ne pas abuser de l'hospitalité
3-Ne pas croire que vous (femme) appartenez à l'église, ne rien attendre des membres
4-Penser que la prière est facultative
5-Se réserver, se taire, être éveillée car vous êtes un standard.
6-Oublier ce que disent les gens et vivre selon le standard de Dieu
7-Ne jamais oublier que votre époux Pasteur est un être humain, ne pas l'élever au point de Dieu.

[sophiachrist]

These are valuable tips for anyone in any position of influence. Thanks so much Pastor Mildred for such commitment to excellence.

[somie]

If u are d only reason tube n insta was invented its so worth it.i thank God 4 ur life.thanks for blessing us with ur msges

[Nana-obxv]

Clear distinction between hospitality and acess. 🙏🙏🙏👏👏madam God bless you, am not a pastors wife but I find it very useful 👏👏👏👏👏watching from🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

[nakijjobarashidah]

Am a Uganda in Jordan am grateful for teaching me.

[learnwithsteph]

Thanks for sharing this mom, I’m engaged to a pastor now and I’m trying to learn as much as I can to be a support to him and good with people although we can’t please everyone

[MaryChuchu-mu]

As a pastor' s wife I am really blessed and I have learnt most of the things I didn't know. Be blessed