Don't Waste Another Second In Pain (You NEED To Hear This...) (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

Directed by JAMESON JORDAN

Starring
MATTHEW HUSSEY
& IONE BUTLER

Music
"Longing Waltz" by Felipe Adorno Vassao
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This might be the most important video I’ve released this year.

I can’t tell you how many people I’ve coached who can’t let go of the past.

Women who are still hating themselves for dating the wrong guy for so many years.

Women who feel they’ve wasted their career so far.

Women who still let an old family trauma affect their mood every... single... day.

I know these things are hard. Believe me, I’m not pretending these are small problems.

But if you want to know how to break free, let go of your baggage, and feel 100% more empowered, please, please make sure you watch this week’s video.

I’m going to share a mind-blowing story that will show how you can turn even the worst tragedies into a beautiful future...

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[jasonsilveryt]

One of my favorite quotes is: “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present.”

[LilyEvansP]

I'm going through a terrible heart break right now, so I really needed this.

[melii]

"If you take away the trauma, you take away the treasure" that phrase is stuck in my head now

[laurenk]

Recently got out of a wonderful relationship. Of course I'm sad because it's over, but yet I'm so grateful and happy with the experience. It was a good relationship, just couldn't work around certain circumstances. There was heartbreak and tears, but I do not regret it, and am thankful because it gave me something I never had experienced.

[emilyholton]

"instead of wishing that you did something different . Learn to love who you are today, mistakes and all". Wow, that is so powerful .

[SRKanai]

Im a guy. I came here because I felt like if I could understand the difficulties women experience, I could better understand the difficulties I have. I've watched Matthew for a few months now. This video came at exactly the moment I needed it to. Thanks for that, mate. Cheers.

[Diosadelguac]

"Show me a person who never made a mistake, and I will show you a person who never did anything". - William Rosenberg. TeamMatthew: this video is one of my favorites so far. I can only imagine the process of thought so you could get to this reflection, thank you so much for these deep insights.

[ginger_autry]

These reminders are needed, "If you go back and fix all our your mistakes, you erase yourself". I will have to post that somewhere in my home :-)

[Shane]

April 6, 2021
Accepting and forgiving myself for:

- The mistake of attracting negative relationships, emotionally unavailable people, lowering my standards, tolerating mistreatment from other people and allowing myself to be taken for granted. For letting people use me, manipulate me, control me and silence me.
- Wasting my time, putting in so much continuous effort and giving my all for someone who couldn’t be bothered to do the same for me and who settled for crumbs and thought that it was the best I could get.
- Making the decision to walk away when I realized that I deserve so much better and I shouldn’t have to tolerate in being the receiving end of someone else’s pain, emotional unavailability, incapability to love, care and appreciate someone else other than themselves. For holding on for someone’s potential for growth when they showed me multiple times that they didn’t even want to change for themselves let alone becoming a better partner.

Thankful for:

I don’t think I deserved the treatment I got by my ex but then again he and what we had taught me a lot.
I learned what I want/don’t want in a relationship, what I’m not willing to tolerate, that I shouldn’t have to beg for love or effort, how I want/should be treated, what I want in a partner and the type of relationship that I want, what type of people/ partner I won’t let in my life and better discernment about negative relationships.
I also learned that what I am asking for in a partner is not too much and is actually reasonable, I actually have a lot to offer in a relationship, I can add on to someone’s life positively and I am someone who can acknowledge her issues then working on fixing them.
I realized my worth, that I deserve better and should efforts/feelings reciprocity.
I realized that I had the power to walk away from someone and something that was not good for or was serving me, things that were making me very unhappy, miserable and depleted. I realized that I deserve to have a loving, faithful, loyal, supportive, hardworking and genuine partner who can give themselves to me and be my companion. I deserve to be in a loving, caring, happy and healthy relationship.
I realized that I am enough, I am worthy, I am lovable. I deserve to be happy. I deserve to be loved by someone who has good intentions for me and who genuinely loves all of me no matter what and to love someone freely and fully without any fear of my heart being taken advantage of but instead be appreciated for.

I realized that I can actually attract and be with a partner that I desire and who can give me what I want because I am also working on becoming a better person myself. That I can offer and give the same energy that I ask for. The ability and right actually build and be in a happy, loving, devoted and long lasting healthy relationship.

[Theunspoiledprincess]

This video couldn't have come at a better time for me. I've been hating myself for decisions I've made in the past. It is hard to move forward when you chain yourself to the past.

[JulesyRS]

Thank you Matthew, It's nearly 3 months in since my husband left. I dont want him back but i dont want to move on yet aswell. I'm 45 and starting my life over is hard, I really needed this. Hello from Australia 🙂

[KathRob]

Preach! (: Without all the time I "wasted", not going to college, not getting a job, not having many friends or romantic relationships, I DID get to work on self improvement/reflection and preparation for those things! Not gonna give myself a hard time anymore.

[thatssocharlie]

My ex ended things over a month ago now, and I'm still here in so much pain regretting all the mistakes I made in the relationship, how maybe if I didn't act a certain way or say certain things, we may still be together. I hate the mistakes I made. But what hurts more is that my ex also made mistakes too but he doesn't seem to care. He's already out seeing someone new, how is it fair that I can't get over my mistakes but he can go on and live his life so easily and happily a month later, as if our two and a half years together meant nothing to him? It's not fair. I can't move on, I'm just stuck living in pain over the past.

[thebesttvcomedy]

i just wanna let go forget about today someone mentioned his name and i felt my heart beating fast why bcz I wanna let go

[v]

perfect timing, I was actually starting to waste my time on regretting past mistakes.. thank you for your wise words Matthew!

[ATrueLoveOfficial]

Leave your past mistakes behind but learn from it. Move on and use it to become a better version of yourself.

[florvilla]

This is insane l will begin a relationship with myself thank you for this amazing message !

[Natalie]

I can't stop crying watching this. I've dealt w/depression my whole life, and over the last few yrs insecurities and anxiety. My wonderful amazing boyfriend of 2 yrs, I treated him SO BAD because of this. He begged & pleaded with me to get help. I never cared. I never listened. Until he told me "we're done. I can't stand the way u treat me anymore" He agreed to give me yet another chance, but I HAD to commit myself 100% to getting help. I've never in my LIFE been more determined to make myself happy and healthy again. I told my therapist "This whole thing could have been prevented" She said "no it couldn't have. It didn't matter when or how many times he or any one told u to get help. You needed to wake up and realize it ON YOUR OWN" I just hope she's right because I would do anything not to loose him, he is the best thing that's ever happened to me

[donnaocasio]

Turnall those negatives into positives, make them make you stronger and wiser .

[janicebaldi]

Wow. the angels are working 2night. Up middle of night frm severe pain n tears Again alone, wanting it 2 ALL end & I see THIS! just t.y. Matt🙏