Make Sure

Young Western men are almost universally lulled into a false and dangerous belief that women are sweet, selfless, good, and loving, and that they have no personal desires that would ever conflict with a stable relationship. And that's stupid. Women are humans with their own needs. No one exists to be what someone else wants.

When these men realize how badly they've been fooled, sometimes they get really upset and can turn pretty dark. Instead, they should put that energy into adapting themselves to reality, and to changing the system they live in.

Here's a short explanation of a central feature of female relationship choice dynamics. THE PAST MATTERS.

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[notayoutuber]

If I found out my soon to be wife called her ex just to make sure, shes getting dumped on the spot. This is a disgrace of a human being. Why get married? People are insane.

[silentnight]

That's so insane. Two days before marriage hang up on a guy 13 years ago. Yeah ain't no way she isn't going to cheat with him.

[Golden_Ghoul]

Women want to be married but don't want to be wives.

[JediTiga]

Rose from the Titanic thought about some random dude named Jack for 50+ years all while marrying some other man and having his kids. You know for a fact if she could have Jack back she would dump her husband and leave her kids. Women love the Titanic for a reason.

[marlom]

“All you have to do is listen to women talk; they tell on themselves constantly ”
This is one of the only lessons TikTok has taught me

[ReaperofValhalla]

“My past doesn’t matter”

Then it shouldn’t be a problem to do my own background check.

[drtm]

If you're the guy she's calling before she's getting married, lead her on. Pretend you want her back in your life so she breaks off the engagement. Once you're sure the wedding is off, ghost her and tell the guy she was going to marry what you did when you take him out for a beer. Congratulations on stopping your new friend from ruining his life by marrying a dumpster fire of a woman.

[krisley]

In my experience, women care WAY more about the wedding than the marriage.

[mdhazeldine]

You'd think being rejected twice for a proposal would be enough to get the message to move on.

[geody]

I don't know why they don't teach boys this in school, but if she declines your proposal you are broken up. That's built in.

[Sylvine]

"Become this guy" is good advice for an individual, but not a solution to the problem. If every guy becomes an 8, women will start seeing 8s as 4s.

[LT-opkg]

As soon as someone says they’re past doesn’t matter I’m gone, it’s definitely somebody running from accountability.

[alberttang]

There's that Chris Rock comedy bit about why your wife is always angry with you. Why? It's because you were never her first choice, so she's pissed off she had to settle.

[James-vdbh]

You never EVER want to be the guy she "settles for." This is why past matters.

[TheSangredegrado]

Back in the old days, if a Chad broke her, he bought her. He bought her because Chad disgraced her family’s reputation and honor. The girl’s angry father had the right to bury Chad in a shallow grave and he had the law and society behind him. Being a reckless Chad back in the day was dangerous business. You could get shot or stabbed to death by an enraged brother, father, uncle or cousin.

[daveshore]

This doesn’t end in her cheating. It ends in misery and slowly annoying and terrible marriage. Maybe even a terrible divorce. I’d say 7 years from now.

[anonymissed]

Leave at the first rejected proposal. Read the fucking room.

[hamidousy]

Wait wait wait. The guy proposed 2 times, the lady refuses. He wants to break up and her family gets in the way. That's an excellent reason to leave. They don't like the guy enough. Wtf is this insanity?

[smokingcrab]

My wife got cheated on by every boyfriend she's ever had (4 of them). I am the most loyal and best looking man she has ever been with. I ignore the red flags of this fact about her past. I'm a solid 7 out of 10. She's a Solid 5 out of 10 that is overweight. There is absolutely nothing I can do to earn her love or respect. It's literally the worst relationship I've ever been in. It didn't start off this way but she changed, therefore I changed, and now she blames me for all of it. We have a son together. Wish me luck everyone. Here I stand, God help me

[fakshen]

A woman that wouldn't date me turned 50. Now I get texts of how everything reminds her of me. I'm not scraping her off the wall.