What to Wear on FIRST DATE (Divorced, Over 40, Style Tips and Outfits)

Sharing date night outfit ideas for those of you who have been out of the dating game for a while! Specifically what to wear on date #1, date #2 and date #3. But, these outfits work for ALL date nights! I plan to wear on date nights with my husband, Chris. Thank you so much for watching. Your support means the world to me! ~Erin xo

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Look #1 | 01:14
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Look #2 | 03:31

Look #3 | 04:57

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[conniebuchner]

I have been disabled since I was 50, wearing basically sweatpants for 10 years. I have been slowly building a wardrobe. I actually had something nice to wear out to a hockey game. Married 33 years. Thank you!🥰

[beautifulme]

Love this! Even for those of us who have been married awhile... we need ideas!

[Sashas-mom]

This was so fun! You could continue this as a series! Haha various date outfits 😃 or date with two besties, first time you meet the family, Etc 🤷🏼‍♀️☺️

[ekeshafrancois]

I love this date night look video so much! As someone who believes “Mama’s still got it” and is ready to get back out there, I need a little help with making sure I don’t look like I am trying too hard, but being classy & intentional with my wiser, sexier self! 😉 I’ll second a previous commenter with requesting this be a series. Thank you Erin!!!

[Hunnie_B]

Love this video have been married for 37 years, and it is still lovely to dress up for date night, thank you so much for sharing these looks with us, you have excellent taste in clothing, take care girl 💖

[pollydrew]

Excellent tip: you smile is the BEST accessory.

[catherineo]

Love your channel even more..faux leather.compassion for animals.
You revamped my style..went from frumpy to compliments!
Thank you!!.

[RCD]

Love the suggested date-night outfits. I think men love when women wear red or pink and I like the idea of wearing red or pink near the face (instead of black) since they are softer/brighter colors for your complexion.

[dmround]

Thank you for this great content! I’ll be 43 and re-entering the dating scene this summer! 💞💓💕

[vmontgomery]

That's what I'm talking about 🥰 Those were great outfits. Just because we're over 40, doesn't mean we start wearing moomoos.👵🏾👵🏿👵🏽

[manwellagrero]

Enjoyed it so much seriously 😘 can you continue the series please and do what to wear when meeting the parents and family ❤️

[LittlePoet]

Oh this is perfect! I am dating again and that first look is perfection! It's sexy but it's also smart...it just screams strength! Look #2 shows just how beautiful you are. OMG. Your figure is perfection and this outfit is so rock-n-roll....and even without the boots, it would be a knockout. The high-rise jeans with that belt just scream high fashion...you have it together. That is my favorite and what I want to wear. Look number #3 is the only one that missed the mark for me.The cut of the top for me in your sleeved arm was undefined and ruined the look for me. I think date night can have color also. I love your talent to create crisp lines and curves. Thank you so much for this Busbee xxoo Susan

[shirlynssleeve]

I was a single Mom for 30 yrs before I decided to date again at 55. I remember the outfit I wore to meet my now Mr for 2.5 yrs now. Skinny jeans, sandals great top that had some cut outs without being to sexy. I will say the best item one can sport that beats everything hands down is CONFIDENCE!

[michelleclark]

FABULOUS TOPIC!!! Please do more of this topic!!

[franceshowe]

It would be helpful if you would show looks with alternate shoes...high heels vs booties, etc.

[annainaspen]

For anyone interested WHBM is having a sale. The black coated skinny jeans were sold out but I ordered some very dark blue ones for $39.99. Loved the video Erin! I’ll be getting back in the dating world soon after having a very long term relationship. I loved all the looks and they are fantastic suggestions.

[janalieskovska]

I am married, but still found the video very inspirational. I will surely get an inspiration from your video when I next go for our date with my husband thank you🙏🌹♥️

[kiannad]

I love all the looks with some moderate changes in shoe wear I would wear them everyday and look amazing 💋

[daniathompson]

I LOVE this video idea! Such good options that we can all use - whether we’re dating or just going out with Hubby.

[hildatorres]

I just love all your videos. What advice can you offer to a 66year young woman back in the dating scene?