The Non-Stop Questions After A Loss

Was there something you could have done? Why didn't they say something sooner? Why won't they give you another chance?

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[morpheus]

So true. She said that we would be together forever. No reason, no answers, no closure. She never told me there was an issue, she always acted extremely happy. Then boom, she dumped me with no notice or reason and refused to even discuss. After a year of NC I am at peace. My closure is that there was no closure.

[forthebigwin]

Wherever you are, Clay, I hope you're okay...

[CynthiaTomlin-ub]

Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

[MIMIDSH]

You're correct. My husband died in my arms and I had so many "what ifs". I read this and it helped me. Take care everyone.
"What happens is the only thing that could have happened. Nothing, but nothing, absolutely nothing that happens to us in our lives could have been otherwise. Not even the most insignificant detail. There is no such thing as: 'if I had done such a thing, such another would have happened…' No. What happened was the only thing that could have happened, and it had to have happened for us to learn that lesson and move forward. Each and every one of the situations that happen to us in our lives is perfect, even if our mind and our ego resist and do not want to accept it."

[Dayz_Ex]

I love you clay, I hate to see these new videos without your smile but I understand. Keep your spirits high

[humphreybogart]

Clay another absolutely excellent video. Thank you so much!

[jennifermchugh]

You are looking and seem to be feeling better clay❤thank you for always giving us amazing videos and advice. God bless you and your family😊🙏

[norrona]

I love the nature format. It makes your sincerity a lot brighter.

[bronzemv]

I was her soulmate, now she is with her monkey branched guy who has her when her life is easy. I hope her summer soldier doesn't have to be there for any storms. I was there when the chips were down, oh well.

[vandenkombs]

Great video. The right person for you will stick by and love you even when you mess things up 💖 Sometimes we are not the right person for them is what we have to accept.

[anothercat]

Very good video and courses. Hope you will have more energy soon.

[matthewmcdermott]

This really just helped a lot. Ive been struggling. Thank you.

[akosfellner]

Hi Clay. I understand you had double narratives now. You talk about 2 types of losses. Loss by break up and loss by death. I think you heal yourself through this video as well. Just like a video diary. I think it's great that you show your vulnerability in these hard times. It's better than playing some roles. I think you give an example of how we accept our vulnerability.

[akosfellner]

I hope you will get better in the future and come back with your energy. Peace.

[lagler]

Hey Clay,

Just wanted to say, I did get back with my partner after much research online and with family and friends.

I just wanted to express that your videos helped a lot, and would appreciate content about what to do after getting back, I know your content is mainly oriented towards proactively getting back with your ex but I would love your takes on post-rekindling stages.

Thank you for your time and effort.

[jeffreypaszko]

One of your best videos Bravo, Maria Callas the great opera singer. said it best, The best I can do more than that I can not do, period

[ayedatsnemo-]

Can u do a video on why your ex revisits activities or places you took them/showed them

[luanas.]

Hey Clay, wherever you are I hope you're ok and I send you the best wishes. You're a good person and your advice has helped me a lot when I needed most. I'm in a good relationship right now and because of that I think about you often.

[kylieburton]

Clay if you are still active can you please help me out

My ex watch my Snapchat story replied to it and I responded but he has not read my reply in 19hrs what does that mean?

[lLuke.c]

its very weird i have currently lost the girl i love and am hopeful to get her back despite the whole entire deck of cards because stacked against me. But i was just chilling in my bed and watching these videos and all the sudden for the 1st time since the break up i had this weird feeling that she missed me idk why I don't know what caused it i haven't messaged her because I'm honestly more worried about messing up my chances also Shes in a rebound so idk she might just block me.