How To Ask a Girl Out (At Work)

If you want to ask a girl out at work, there's a few things you can do to start dating her fast and avoid any awkward situations. Here are my 3 tips for asking her out while you are both at work and how to get her to go with you on a first real date. QUESTION: Do you like anyone at your job? Leave a comment below and we'll talk about it.

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[GeonusKaikun]

What if the girl is in a different department and your only interactions with her are is chance passings out in the hall?

[TheJoshSpeaks]

Have you ever been too scared to ask out a girl at your job?

[obiwongaming]

Need some advice. A co-worker I have a crush on seems very chill and funny when you get to know her based on small conversations we've had. She is beautiful. However, when we go on breaks she always goes into a corner and sits down going on her phone or, calls someone maybe family. I don't know if she is seeing anyone or not. She seems possibly like she wants to keep to herself during the break and I don't wanna break her space if she does. When me or other co-workers talk it seems as if she is listening and she chimes in when she hears something she may think is interesting or wants to know more about. We've talked, made jokes, I have made her laugh a few times and she has done the same for me. However, so far I haven't seen a window yet to even get to know her the way I want to. Maybe it'll pop up but for now it seems as if she wants to keep to herself at times but when a group of us are conversating she is present. Right when her shift ends she is gone like vamoose. I'm outta here, peace, yall ain't gonna see me. I just wanna get to know her more but can't see when where to ask questions. Durung breaks maybe but she seems conservative, when we work I am gonna work. I make jokes as we work and people laugh and stuff but still I don't know what to do. She doesn't really wear makeup and seriously doesn't need it. I've tried seeing how she dresses and for a little bit she wore the same clotges but recently started adjusting it just little bit. Keep in mind I have been working here two months so maybe I just don't know her clothes set and noticed when she had a cool jacket on. Her adjusting ourfits most likely has nothing to do with me. Any suggestions?

[titoperez]

How can i ask a teacher out? Im a night time school janitor and i have a crush on her.

[segitariousM]

Thanks Josh! Keep up the good work, your videos are so helpful!

[tucko]

cool now I won't get fired or sued for sexual harassment.... lol for real great video

[TheJoshSpeaks]

Have a crush on someone at your job? Here's what you should know BEFORE you ask them out.

[monicaapt]

I work in admin in a law firm and I like a solicitor, our paths don't normally cross because we work in different groups. I don't want to make a fool of myself by flirting with someone way out of my league.

[brycew]

Hey Josh I kind of messed up today (and by messed up like completely burned OUT, my car is on fire and about to explode) . I legit just found ur channel today and I was wondering like if u could make a video on how to escape like "everything" bc I told my crush how I felt and and everything u said not to do so like am I completely screwed or what idk WHT to do from now bc I'm like in the middle of the friend zone and not the friend zone so yea idk what to do now can u plse make a video to help me out. IT WOULD BE MUCH APPRECIATED

[stephenprice]

My situation is a bit different, I like this girl who works at my college but Ive never seen her in person because she works from home due pandemic and we’ve talked for a couple of hours on the phone while she’s working. How do I ask her out since we’ve never met? I’ve only met her 2 weeks ago

[omar]

I just started working on a restaurant about 2 months ago and I saw a girl that works there I kinda like her. All I do with her is just talk and flirt whenever we can. When I see her as I come in I tell her hi or she tells me hi and when she leaves I tell her bye or she tells me bye that's all we do at work. How can I get her on a date with me I'm shy and scared she might reject my offer or might tell me that she has a boyfriend already.

[MysteryBounty]

I work with a girl I am starting to really like, she talks to me quite a bit and we make each other laugh but I can't tell if it's flirting or just joking around. My side is flirting haha, but the problem is we work weird hours where she comes in towards the end of my shift so I can't exactly catch her on lunch or when she leaves as I'm gone already. I want to ask her to do something outside of work but I don't know what

[jamesrottger]

Hi my name is James and there is a girl at my work place and I think she is flerting with me but how can I know for sure.

[Iam_jdubs]

Hey Josh...I work with this girl and she's new we have talked and had just a simple conversation. I make her laugh all the time I want to ask her but I got fired before I could I don't want to just show up and ask her out but I do like her. I think she is talking to somebody but I don't think she's in a relationship. What do I do?

[waddles]

Hi Josh! So, I have an issue... A girl I really like, is only just shorter then me. (I am a very short dude) And I feel like I should make a move, but then I have an understanding she likes taller guys. What should I do?
Thanks.

[MrErblife]

There was one at my work in a GROCERY STORE and she works at Starbucks. But my only question is, my work ethics is very strong, and I haven't been bothering her. Many times I been stocking shelves or whatever, she would pass by, but doesn't say hello. ONE DAY she was shopping with her mother and in my turf. Later, I was throwing away cardboard in bailer, and she appeared. So kind of makes me wonder she likes me, but I don't want to come strong. I just kind of leave it as it is, and figured it's a fluke, but I might of taken it for granted and lost her. MY POINT IS, how am I gonna know she's interested UNLESS she tells me. I can't read minds nor Blue Clues with people. AT LEAST that's what MY COMMUNITY expects people to be psychics with a crystal ball.

[nickdrury]

I liked how you said to put the work relationship before any other kind of relationship 👍

[jimlombardo]

Hey Josh I got a question: how would you ask your crush for their phone number because when we talk I just don't know how to do it. It just seems that it's really hard like out of no where u just ask her for her phone number. How do you get into a conversation and ending it with her phone number?

[NZ]

Do you have a video on how to politely refuse a date at work? Would a good response be, "We have a good working relationship and I'm happy with that." What's being implied here is the relationship won't go beyond work.

[tsuki_hellbunny]

I feel so bad for looking up these videos makes me feel less of a human