5 Things A Woman Shouldn’t Tell A Man Upfront!

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Tony Gaskins

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I really wish I knew about your videos prior to being married. I made every single one of these mistakes with my ex-husband, and he sure used every single one of them against me. Isolated me from friends, family, and thought I'd never be able to leave him with three children, BUT GOD!! Ladies, listen to Tony! I thought I was being transparent in the name of Christianity. That man pulled me so far away from God with every year I stayed in that marriage and we were "church leaders", picture-perfect on the outside. Love yourself, be assertive, and lead with the story of you, not your trauma. I am 5 years divorced, and through these videos, therapy, and self work, I have done some major introspection and HEALING without dating until being ready. And even then, I have to gut check with these videos every now and again when I feel my trauma wanting to respond instead of me. Thank You, Tony!

thereeljanedoe

"Do not turn your lover into your therapist." "Go get a therapist."
That is so true.👏🏼

d.l.

Over time, if you listen to a man long enough, he'll tell you who he really is, so listen...listen...listen.

lindawilliams

1) Never tell a man about your trauma, go to a Therapist and/or coach.

2) Never tell a man how many men you've slept with.

3) Never tell a man your complete vision of what you want in a man.

4) Never tell a man about your last relationship

5) Never tell a man too much of your family business

majesty

Tonys 5 thing:
1. Past trauma
2. Body count
3. What you want in your partner
4. Conditions under which previous relationships ended (see #1)
5. Family business

My one addition (imo)
6. Finances, career goals
🤞🏻

Edit at 1.2k likes: ma look, I’m famous.

Emptytopfloor

Let a man show you who he is instead of telling him who you want him to be...💯I love it!!!

t.west

Damn that's deep! "Let a man show who he is, instead of telling him who you want him to be." PERIOD 💯💯💯

spoileddiva

Here is one Tony. Don’t talk bad about yourself, calling yourself fat, butt to big, small, complaining about what you don’t like about yourself your feet etc. He must see that you love and accept yourself. Let him see you working on you taking care of you. Own your power with a man.

ramonaphillipsteach

“Let a man show you who he is instead of telling him who you want him to be”

barbarapaz

Ladies he just gave you a $100, 000 worth of information for free! This is the truth! Older woman here, if I may piggyback and add-- apply the same guidelines for women friends as well. If she is a friend that you made after adulthood, keep the same principles. Unless you grew up with her and she already knows your history don't tell her everything either.

Victory-eq

I had to men will use your vulnerabilities against you....😮

beefaye

Can we add "don't tell a new man about your money"?

jehannedufresne

As a 61yr old woman. I am single and childless, by choice and I learned that we tell too much too early. I like having good conversation, but some men don't like talking and don't want you asking them questions because they are gathering information on how to trick or treat you in the future. The information pops when a disagreement or argument occurs. As you know men and women can put on Oscar winning performances until the mask falls off. In my opinion many men don't believe in seeing a therapist.

amalyah

1) Never tell a man your pain, brokenness.
2) Never tell a man how many men you've slept with. I'll rather get to know you for you and not judge you by your past.
3) Never tell a man what you want in a man, he will act it out and drop you for another
4) Never tell a man about your last relationship. Never talk about your ex with your next.The person who talks least has the greatest power. He is not my therapist.
5) Never talk to a man about your family. It will inform his decision about you.

blessingbassey

Discretion is critical. Learn to listen, observe body language, and be selective about what you share on dates. Take your time to get to know someone. Avoid over sharing!

kyrabarr

Basically, don't share anything negative about yourself. Avoid mentioning any negative experiences or mistreatment from others, as man may use that against you. Those who engage in such behavior are often narcissistic, and there are many of them. I learned this the hard way. I was already aware of the points you mentioned, and you're right about the part where they might try to inquire about your trauma to exploit you. I have mentors I follow, so I don't need emotional support from a man unless it's related to money and growth. Remember, don't share your history with anyone unless they have earned it. 💕

secureboundaries

A man asked about my past and I told him about my trauma and 20 min later, he used it against me. This was a man I knew and thought I could trust. Women, listen to Tony. Don’t make the same mistake I did. Men will use it to make you feel weak and turn your trauma against you. Listen to this video until all of it is ENGRAINED in your BRAIN!! Thank you Tony. Bless you all.

genevas

Agree 💯 dating is NOT therapy. Unless he is your husband it’s none of his business.

Sugarlips

I was conversing with a guy who jumped in my DM. We eventually exchanged numbers and of course he asked when was my last relationship, I told him it had been five years. Long story short two weeks in we had a disagreement, he told me that’s why I’ve been single for so long because I don’t know how to treat a man and another five is going to go by and I’m still going to be single 🤣🤣.
He was mad because he said I suppose to text and call him every day, I told him dude you never give me a chance to text you first because you’re always texting me at 5am and when I told him we should talk on the phone he said he don’t have time for phone conversations. I told him I’m no longer interested and he can cancel our date because he’s showing signs of a diva and a psycho 🙄.

shakritafields

Brother Tony is absolutely right! I made this mistake with my last relationship. Thought he was my “best friend”. He used everything I told him against me and as ammunition in arguments. He even told others my business and tried to turn my family and friends against me with certain information. Be wise and have discernment ladies. Many of these men don’t have your best interest at heart.

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