4 Things a Woman Should NEVER Do with a Good Guy

How can a woman avoid losing a good guy? What pushes a godly man away from a woman? What advice is there for Christian women who get pursued by a good man who loves the Lord? Here are 4 things a woman should avoid doing if she wants to not lose him.

MY BOOKS AND BIBLE STUDIES

FREE EBOOKS

CONTACT INFORMATION AND SOCIAL MEDIA

Please note: Sadly, due to the large amount of emails I receive, I am unable to respond to everyone. I’m so sorry about that! I truly wish I could! The shorter your email is to me, the more likely I will be able to respond. Thank you so much for understanding!
In Christ and with love,
-Mark

“Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” -Ephesians 3:20-21

[john]

1) Never tell a good guy what to do. Just ask him.
2) Never rush a good guy to commit to you with your words. She him he should commit with your actions.
3) Never give a good guy an ultimatum.
4) Never try to improve a good guy. Let him improve himself through his relationship with you.

[lgarcia]

Ladies, make sure you give a good man a "clean slate" when start a relationship with him. Don't make him pay for what an ex did to hurt you. Don't compare what he's doing and the ex did. If you are still at that frame of mind best not to get in a relationship until you are healed. 🙏

[cytinachavis]

Mark, my guy was wanting to move forward with physical intimacy before marriage so I had to let him know that I can only be intimate with my husband.

[QueenIsabella]

As a woman you really have to respect a guy and I think the only way you’re gonna do that is if he is solid in who he is in Jesus. I was just engaged to who seemed like a good guy and he blew up and I guess resented me, said he was going along with me with religion. He called himself a Christian but I’m an observant Catholic. He liked the trendy idea of being Christian but didn’t like it once it required modesty and challenged his line of work. He was so “good” and “nice” but because he had no spiritual direction only knew that marriage and gender roles were good because of social media, I ultimately didn’t trust him and all the nice things he did didn’t make a difference because it was all superficial. A good guy is not enough, you need a man of God that knows Jesus. As a woman, wife, your virtues are above all humility, compassion, gentleness, grace, and forgiveness that should cover you with your behavior with men. And modesty.

I would tell women to remember that the only thing that matter is your salvation and your path to perfect your soul in Jesus, if a man isn’t leading you to this - even if he has everything you could want in the material world, it’s not worth it. A lot of women want to think they can convert a man, but his conversion has to come from him and it’s best to avoid that risk that could cost you once you already have children. A lot of women bear this cross. A good guy is not enough, Jesus is enough - and if Jesus sent him he will cover you like Jesus does. You won’t have to direct him because Gd is directing him all you have to do is be kind, obedient, and pray before you take it to him.

[danmc]

One big addition to the asking. Please add the word "please." It makes a huge difference. Please is a simple word, but it shows so much more respect. Respect is the most important thing men must be shown to feel loved. Loyalty is right up there with respect, but respect comes first, it is needed to have loyalty.

[kevindavis]

Ladies if you’re talking to a Godly man never call him brother. Cause that’s a friendzone sign I maybe wrong but it’s not everyday I hear a woman saying amen brother hey brother unless she’s my sisters.

[belovedbrother]

Mark is teaching the art of submission believe it or not

[britanne]

It’s beautiful witnessing someone living in their God given purpose. Mark, you have help me in a multitude of ways. I know Christ more as a result of watching your channel. I get in His Word. I value His Word in a way I couldn’t before because I didn’t understand that it is indeed living Truth. I have left relationships that were toxic because I finally had my eyes opened! The Lord showed me I was the woman at the well and I would never find love until I first formed a relationship with Him. I value myself because I understand how much Jesus values me now.

Thank you

[hulady]

I like the emphasis on a good man....not every man has good intentions.

[kilodeltawhisky]

Great to come across this new video. Today I'd four weeks into my marriage. It's an incredible feeling to have a husband, to be a wife, to know that our union is God's own work and that we both recognize it as such. Your advice, as always, is wise. Thankfully I learned these lessons awhile ago, because it makes a world of difference as a woman, dealing with a man.

God bless and keep up the righteous works!

[theodoreroberts]

A very big turn off is treating me like the guy who mistreated her. She took it from him and obviously said nothing. I wasn't there and knew nothing of her. More than likely I don't even know him.
I refuse to pay for some other guys bad behavior.
I don't bring what the last women did to me into her life.

[horschiday]

This video is the very opposite of what society teaches women today about men. A hard pill to swallow 😬 but the truth. GOD bless you Brother Mark.

[NoMoreTears]

I give up on men. The only ones I ever meet, are all about their sexuality and I can barely have a long enough conversation with them to find out if they are a fellow believer or not. To me, if a man starts telling me in the first 48 hours, how "lonely he is for physical affection ", then he is operating in the flesh and not in the Spirit. How can I possibly respect that?

[NicholeBump]

Thank you so much for this video!!!! I’m finally with a man that treats me right and I’ve found myself asserting my needs rather then just saying them…I’m saving this for future reference! He sounds exactly like the guy you reference in here about him wanting to make logical sense of things but also having a desire to make me happy…that’s my Ben..thank God that He has so much mercy and allows someone to look past your flaws into your heart…please pray I get better with this!

[cynthiamuthoninganga]

That makes a lot of sense, , thanks so much Mark for this great inputs, , especially no.3.

[GermanChoc]

These are all good facts. The proper implementation of these will change numerous lives for the better. God bless you for sharing!!!

[davidmaks]

Mark . Right on time again 🥺🥺. God is really using you to speak to me

[shayflowers]

I'm so glad you made a video on this. I guess these are the key points. Just as God has given us all the free will and He never forces in that, then who are we to force our will be exercised on others lives! Thank you for sharing

[larissabewick]

Thank you! How to respect and treat a man makes that much more sense now! 😇

[candacesmith]

This is right one I am learning a lot and this is much needed. Not sure what God has instore for me. But I am willing to receive whomever or whatever He has for me.