how things have REALLY been going... (from 3 to 4 kids)

how things have REALLY been going... (from 3 to 4 kids)
two weeks postpartum with baby #5... how we're REALLY doing!
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[thunderbats]

Yep, as someone else with pretty serious anxiety, I would 1000% rather do the difficult thing than be waiting to do it!

[melissahedgecoth]

Hey Rachell, I am 52 years old and I was a single mom of 2. I was 19 with my first son and 21 with my second. I had Noone to help me. It was really hard but I was able to do it. Then when my kids were 3 and 2 I took in my younger sister that was a challenge. She was a preteen. So I can imagine how hard it can be. If I had a chance and I was young again. I would do it all over. You may think you will need help, but realistically you have this. Emma being the oldest next to your angel. You can do this I have faith in you. The best part is Noone is jealous of each other. Wishing the best if luck MAMA of 4 and a puppy. Don't forget JUSTIN can be a big kid as well

[julietamelone]

Questions for the Q&A: 1) What's your favorite part of being a parent? 2) who do you like looks more like each of you? 3) who do you think got your personality or acts more like you? 4) What do you think each of the kids will be when they grow up? (just a guess for what they like now) 5) What's your favorite thing to do with your spouse?

[kaytiemyers]

I just wanted to put out there that if you were to do a casual day in the life vlogs with minimal editing I think all of us would still really love it. You don't have to impress us or anything we just love your genuine content.

[RF.]

Naps for the kids made huge difference ....mine napped until 5 years.... even if its quiet time in bedooms it helps! gave me time to get things done and have cup coffee:)

[debbiekotch]

Family is priority. will certainly look forward to watching when you can.

[lorenacruz]

It goes by so fast. We have 4 sons. 2 are in college and 2 in highschool. I really enjoy watching your channel. It brings back so many happy memories of when our boys were that age. We didn't rely on family or sitters. It was always just us. Laughter and spending quality time together is all that matters. Take time to enjoy the giggles. 💙💙❤️❤️

[sarahbenz.h]

I had 4 in 5 years, it was definitely harder adding #4, I think it was mostly because of his temperament he was very clingy and got sick often which caused me to need to constantly hold him through his first two years of life. My older kids were on a good routine and everything but when he turned 1 my oldest started first grade and I needed to do a lot of work with him to learn, and do well etc... It was a hard time that seemed to last forever but then it got easier and he was my easiest toddler he just followed along with the older kids, my daughter was also high maintenance and still kinda is, but because they're older now its not as overwhelming and we added baby #5 my second youngest is turning 5 next month and my oldest is 10 it feels like I am starting over and I definitely struggle the most with sleep deprivation I am so TIRED all the time because he doesn't sleep well and I get up early with my older kids then push through my day with them and sometimes get to nap and the days I don't are extra hard but I know its just a phase and it will pass.

[kelleyanne]

I have 4 kids and the transition to 4 was definitely the hardest. Their ages were 8, 6, almost 2, and newborn. Now that the 4th kid is 7 months it's getting easier or maybe I'm just used to it now. But the mental load of adding a 4th is what really got to me. So much to think about all of the time.

[rebeccaeastham]

Do what makes you happy 😃 we love & appreciate the hard work you put into your videos, your a fab mum and the kids are lucky 🍀 to have you. We are here always for you and love you 😘❤️🙌

[laineynewlands]

I had 4 children between 1977 to 1985 so the gap got smaller as I had each child (1 girl and 3 boys). My third child was born with a congenital heart defect & spent his first 3 months in hospital except for one week when he came home but then had to be re admitted and undergo more surgery. He was in & out of hospital for his first 7 years culminating with open heart surgery. When he was just under 2 I had my fourth child. He still wasn’t walking so it was like having two babies but my youngest son was an absolute dream & such a happy & easy baby, much like Faye seems.
It wasn’t easy but I can look back and there’s few things about my wonderful children I regret. More things about me I regret lol but that’s a different story lol.
I even managed to do childminding and we also had a dog…..a beautiful golden Labrador.
When my children were a bit older I did a teaching degree and fulfilled my lifelong ambition to teach.
Being a parent is not always easy but it’s the best job going. Being a grandparent is a bonus lol 👵
To me, you & Justin are awesome parents. You work together. Your calmness is an asset when dealing with three boisterous, fun loving kids & you have such a great rapport with all of them.
Boys are so loving and yes they do like to be cuddled & picked up so while Faye is sleeping I’m sure you’ll make time to share yourself out ☺️. I’m sure you’ll get into a great routine once Justin is back at work and we will miss you not vlogging as much but I’m sure as time goes on you’ll find the time to do more & if not, then we’ll just enjoy whatever time you can give.
Just keep doing what you’re doing cos you really are nailing this 🌷💚🌷 xxx

[amandanoelle]

Please don’t feel guilty having to cut down the filming!💗 you’re doing your best🥰

[hadleeshomevideos]

Q & A: Have you considered hiring a mother's helper or putting the boys in daycare/preschool part-time? A little bit of relief can help soo much!

[lorimaehl]

Your family is more important than stressing about keeping us happy with videos, I'm sure we would be happy with once a week, they don't have be long videos either. I love watching your family it reminds me of those days. I had 3 under 4 at the same time, it does get better, the boys will settle into the fact they have a baby sister and that they are loved just as much and are still getting attention without trying to get by competing and fighting, it will all work out, you are an amazing momma you got this. I would just cherish every moment helps make hard days a little more manageable, lower your expectations, that one was a hard one for me. I can relate to the anxiety and doing it alone. This time will fly by. The days are long but the weeks go by fast if that makes sense. Take care and keep up the great job.

[bathanytucker]

Rachelle, you and Justin are such an inspiration to me! Your love for each other and the kids is just so refreshing. I'm pregnant with baby #2 and you give me hope!!

[vickisainsbury]

Listen to your own needs and get to know what works. Lower your expectations and life will be more manageable. I don’t know if it is the number of children or the ages and the personalities that make it harder or easier. It all keeps changing which is the only thing to remember!

[brandiwainwright]

My boys (I have three) all had angel kisses at birth. My youngest (now 3) still has his! its a perfect triangle on his forehead and it becomes really pronounced when he's tired. I just call it my lie detector when he pretends he not ready for bed lol. Congrats on the new addition! She is beautiful!
As far as transitioning it was so hard when my youngest was born. My oldest was a big helper and that seemed to help him with the transition, my middle was only 2 and he had such a hard time not being the baby anymore. I just made sure to show him all the perks of being a big brother, whether it was an extra snack, skipping a nap, or watching movies with dad and I. I always reminded him that the baby didn't get to do these things cause he's a baby. Just wait it out momma, they will come around to the idea of being the big boys.

[jallen]

This is random but I just wanted to let you know that I appreciated when you shared soon about your birth journey. It means so much to us as followers . We follow for so long and are so excited!! Also it’s peace of mind that everything went well!! Thank you! Much love!! 🥰

[jodytigges]

This time is so precious and busy for you. Don’t feel pressured to post videos all the time. Even a monthly update video would be enough.

Of course I’d love as many videos as possible but you have to do what is realistic and manageable for you and your family.

I’ll be here.

[velmagreen]

While I’m not a mom…I am a toddler teacher. I’ve been teaching for almost 24 years. It’s a daily occurrence with the boys in my class where they’re fighting for attention, over toys…especially dinosaurs!! And other things. It’s totally age appropriate what they’re going through right now.