How Do I Evict My Son?

How Do I Evict My Son?

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[id_st]

Am I the only one who sympathises with the son? Dude is probably going through some really tough stuff.

[kathydesigner]

Men are not adjusted to getting everything right at 24 they need your support…

[bel]

This is terrible.
In my culture helping our children is done with joy and even more when expecting a grandchild.

[MsCarmel]

Other cultures live together we might need to do the same given the economy.

[raquelvillanueva]

Help you son, they need you in this moment, don't see it like that..i wish one of my boys moving back to my house, enjoy any moment with you family...

[Lucky]

I am English but I feel we are very different to America in England it is normal for people in their 20s to live with their parents even expected

[x-mess]

Just remember you are free to sew.. but you will reap what you sew..

[rachelsvlog-cookinggardeni]

I havn't watched the full video but just this short clip sounds so wrong to me. How can parents "evict" their son and pregnanr wife? In my culture we don't Evict a family member. This paint a picture of 80 years old parent staying in the nursing home and the kids and grandkids never come in to visit.

[jasonhurt]

When your adult son runs into his first life crisis, how he reacts to it will tell you if you raised a man or not

[mannys]

That's your child!!! How do these other parents think like that? "You're moving back in for 9 months maximum, and after that the 3 of you are out on the street for all I care!" You're a monster. That living being is 50% your flesh and blood. You made it out of love, and it has come to love another living being so much that they made their own child which is your grandchild. Why wouldn't you do whatever is necessary to help him thrive??? Do these people plan on going to a nursing home and hospital-based hospice when they're old? Because after my mom kicked me out twice purely for manipulative reasons, I promise all of you she will not be moving in with me when she's old and unable to care for herself. She'll use her retirement money to hire a stranger to help her with daily bodily functions, and she'll hire a stranger to help her die in a cold, unfamiliar hospice center surrounded by nobody from her life because she has pushed everyone away with her Dark Triad manipulation and psychological abuse. 🤷🏼‍♂️ Kicked me out on my 18th birthday, and then kicked me out after I had to move back in after a guy crashed into me on my motorcycle and almost killed me. Shattered my leg and I couldn't even get up to my 3rd floor apartment anymore. I was grateful for not being homeless but I was devastated moving back in with that person. I hated it. I guarantee that the caller's son and his wife would do anything to prevent them from moving back in with his mommy and daddy, so they are likely at rock bottom and they just need help. On the other hand, they may be financially strategizing in this poor economy and housing crisis to allow them to finish a college degree, or allow them to save up for a house down payment and then they'd be set up for life but they need a year to do it. I'm super jealous of my friends who had loving, normal parents and were able to stay living at home until they were in their mid 20s. They got college degrees and/or saved up a TON of money living with no bills for several years and they have a nice home with which nobody can tell them what to do. I'll have that some day, it'll just take me longer to do so and my mom will never step foot on that property, ever. I won't even take her ashes into that house once she's finally gone. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[gypwinkler]

Man oh man. I wear those same kind of shoes. It's hard. Your mind, your heart. It's not enabling. It's love, fear, but I have to live with my decision. It's not a quick fix for sure.

[arleneaugustahair]

He can join the military. If not, he can take up a trade. Trades are desperately needed right now.

[kittiemarie]

Here’s my story: my husband and I found ourselves in a situation where we were unable to find any available affordable housing and just found out the place we were renting at the time wasn’t safe so we needed to move asap. My step dad invited us to live with him. For the first six months my husband struggled to hold down a stable job (many reasons that weren’t even his fault, ) and my step dad didn’t say a word other than “stay as long as you need.” My mother on the otherhand complained no matter how well we kept the house clean, or how much we contributed to getting food and groceries and gas into the house. She told her parents (my grandparents, ) that I was mean and cruel and harsh with her and disrespectful. None of that was true of course, she just didn’t want us there. My grandparents called my husband and I over to talk with them one day and we went, and they told us we had three months to move out of my mothers house and they would report me to social services for abusing her if I didn’t leave by then. I lost it and yelled at them that they had no right to tell my husband and I this when my step dad was the property owner and not my mother, and that no abuse was happening! It was insanity! We stayed and about two weeks later we got good news that my husband had secured a permanent position at a job. We planned and moved out almost immediately, but my step dad said we could stay and save for a bit if we needed. We moved anyway because it was less stress all around.

A few years down the road my mother and step dad divorced for various reasons but part of that was her parents always accusing him of abuse that wasn’t even happening. Now he lives in another state and we rent from him. I don’t speak to any of my biological family but my step dad and I are still close and I couldn’t be more grateful for that. While it sucks that my family of origin couldn’t be human enough to support us in our struggles, I am so blessed to have a dad who does. If my children are ever in this position I want to show them this same kindness and understanding that he represented and showed to us at the time.

It’s not that people (most, anyway) WANT to be losers in their mothers basements. It’s that they have no choice sometimes but to seek shelter with a loved one while they ride through a storm. I was pregnant at the time all of this happened and midway had a baby so having the support from my dad was just so important through such a scary time.

[itsonlyatail]

I had 4 girls so you have to let them back in!

[maggiemusicandEnglish]

I don't understand the dad. I would help my son

[juniorgod]

Quite simple: When they’re out of the house, change all the locks, block their numbers and on all social media accounts and get a restraining order:)