How To Completely Change Your Dating Life in 30 Days (My Gameplan)

Most people think it takes a long time to make significant life changes. But what if I told you that you could be in a completely different place in your dating life in just 30 days? If done right, that's true for almost everyone...

[DRFNL]

The photo shutter effect is hella annoying because it's overdone in these video's. Content is second to none as usual though, great stuff Todd.

[Squibb.Phibble]

It's a shame how many people out there don't listen to Todd..
I'm 26, but Todd's game is just classy and really fits any situation, he never does something over the top to grab a girl's attention.
In fact, Todd looks like a super Boring dude.
Which is why I rather listen to him than other dating coaches.

He really proves how it's a verbal/emotional game.

Change her mood, not her mind 🙌

[TioMagic]

conditions for the challenge:
1 put it in the calendar: start and end time and day for 30 days
2 compromise urself to do it no matther what
3 set up a minimum per day. 1 is not bad but at least 3 is recommended
4 pick different places where ur going to approach
5 find a wingman or an accountability partner that ll give u shit if u dont act.
6 dont be too hard on urself, try to have fun so you have fun and dont get discouraged mentally

he didnt specified much but i guess its about approaching only girls but i guess it works too if you talk to everyone.

[___rare___]

New year goal!! The 30 day challenge!!

[kmarci]

I have done this challenge in the last few weeks.
Since I’ve had strong approach anxiety and other psychological/practical problems in difference life areas, my focus was not getting hookups or relationship by all means in that period but widening my social freedom, getting out of comfort zone.
The results:
- much more approaches than ever before
- first very direct approach in my life (without wing, not in party but on the street)
- improving my focus and self discipline (e. g. 10 approaches in one hour…earlier I was tend to spend hours with looking for excuses and not doing any approach)
- a few contacts (flakes but I am not disappointed since I was not focusing on good technique).

Now I have more freedom and it is easier for me to notice opportunities and initiate. 😎

[divineonyeaghana]

I have to agree with Todd on the subconscious game part. I have had days where I would be half asleep and I’m having a smooth game and yes constant practice reduces anxiety both in cold approach and text game

[AlexSaheli]

I did a 30 day challenge last summer.

118 aproaches.

Slept with 2 girls.

Half the girls sadly didn't speak the language.

Still proud of that to this day.

[ceccodangiolieri]

"have fun, this is why it's called the game, not the work!" f×ck yeah! love it.

[jialian]

I was approaching girls for much more than 30 days everyday but it didnt work much. Got compliments, got a few dates, but it was too much effort for very little successs and so many instant rejections.

[karmaschen]

Please everyone, do yourself a favour and additionaly use positive affirmations if you do the challenge. You can find good ones in John Alexander‘s book „How to become an alphamale“ or learn how to make some positive ones for yourself and use them daily (with no pressure and a good feeling. They must be believable…) . A positive attitude makes all the difference … But it‘s true: I will never forget these 30 days. It‘s crazy, but definitely worth it… 😂❤

[dylanruskin]

I mean this with the utmost repect, how is someone supposed to do this when they work 40+ hours a week and have over 2hrs a day of commute time leaving only the weekends to be able to talk to any women at all?

[jojoey]

Well her we go...
I don't have an accountability partner so I guess I'll use this comment section.
I'm 22 years old and I must have started watching Todd 5 maybe even 6 years ago now. However I must have done 3 daytime/sober approaches in my life time and am still a virgin. Which is honestly just embarrassing at this point.
I'll start on the first of July 2024 and document my progress here. For the first week I'll give updates everyday to make sure I stick to it and after that I'll give weekly updates t'ill the end. Which me luck boys!

Day 1: Didn't go out. Having worked until 3 am the night before and 5 am the night before that I slept in until 4 pm. As an ambitious person who is trying to better many different aspects of his life I chose to stay in and focus on career stuff. There's nether a right time I suppose but this week doesn't look good.

[RedMau_]

Okay but who has 30 days free and the money to be going out every single day?... or am i missing something

[kdog]

I enjoy all of your videos Todd! However, I think you need some sleep man.

[GCOUNDOU]

where do you suggest you do the 30 day challenge? venues?

[allmines]

Where can i find this 30 day challenge?

[RedRumble]

What’s makes game next to impossible to me is genetic eye bags under the eyes. I’m just 20 but they add up so much tiredness to my look. How am I supposed to keep a solid eye contact? It’s basically excess fat that have to be removed via plastic surgery, however I’m at best will be able to do in in 6-8 months. In the meantime I’m in uni and have so many opportunities to meet new people but can’t beat this insecurity. And yeah, it looks really bad. Only good in low light setting/evenings.
I’m slim, having a clean af diet for years, but this issue is with me since I was a kid, just the way my ( otherwise a pretty good looking) face is stractured

[Anonymityfan]

Never been a part of the 'game' world but how does one practically do this? Do you walk around the streets for hours or coffee shops or what?

[AlekNik]

Where can i find about this challenge ? Never heard before

[kingslavd]

I'm struggling with freezing. I want to approach but something is stopping me from doing it and or saying anything. It's so frustrating that I can't figure out a way to break this.