How To Dress Well In Your 40s and Beyond | Men's Style Over 40

News flash: as you get older, you do not automatically become more stylish. Like anything, dressing well takes some effort. And if you're in you're 30s, 40s, 50s, or 60s and you haven't started putting that effort in, it's about time you do! In today's video I'm addressing the following topics:

- How to dress well in your 40s (50s and 60s)
- Style mistakes older guys make
- How to dress appropriately for your age
- Style tips for men over 40

Some of you know that I'm over 40 myself. And although age isn't something I've addressed specifically on the channel before, it's something I definitely think is worth talking about to help those of you out there who are looking for advice.
—
Join the community as an insider:

Shop essential menswear:

Browse the essential men’s style library:

---

NEW VIEWER? START HERE

---

WHO AM I? GET TO KNOW ME BETTER:
5 Things I Regret Buying The Most

Reacting To Your Assumptions About Me

5 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20s

---

CONNECT WITH ME

Contains affiliate links // Stay tailored!

#older #man #style

[mandk]

I'm a 57 yearold grandfather. I find joggers to be comfortable and a reasonable price. With the proper fitting clothes and the right colors and footwear even an older guy like me can look good. My wife says I look hot too.... so really who cares what other people think. Joggers and a tee shirt are good for me and comfortable too. Great video.

[michaelwhite]

I hit 51 this week. I think I’m pretty lucky to have my own sense of style. When I hit 40, there was a shift that automatically told me what I couldn’t wear . It just came naturally to me, but one thing I knew is that I didn’t want to become an old stale piece of toast. You can look awesome at any age, but you have to wear something age appropriate. Nothing is worse than seeing someone my age wearing something geared towards college aged kids. You end up looking older ironically by trying to wear something younger. I like designer shoes. I buy one or two pairs a year. I go for basic black or gray sneakers . I just bought a blue pair of Blue suede Prada sneakers . You don’t have to spend a lot on shoes, but those are what adds a punch to my basic classic American wardrobe. Just throw in European shoes ! I love Camper too depending on what they have each season. Those are affordable and comfortable and not boring. I enjoyed this video! Thank you! My imperative too is a sport coat like a navy or black one. I like to travel in those because planes can be cold and it serves as an extra pillow. Ha ha! It looks better than a regular jacket and flight attendants respect me more for putting in the effort. I know they do.

[GMack]

Good advice. I’m 67 and I’m trying to find everyday wear. I’m retired yet when I go out I must be GQ. I’ve started getting high end haircuts, manicures and pedicures just to look fresh. I’m also looking into the minimalist approach for everyday clothing: chinos, tees, and casual walking shoes. Gotten rid of all my old suits. Now I have 3 classic suites for Sunday wear and special occasions.

I’m trying to look like the “Man of Leisure” without looking like a pimp...lol

[theproject]

As a lifelong introvert, I dress for myself and nobody else. I like to look nice so that I feel confident and good about myself. I know a lot of guys whose fashion sense changes like the weather based on what they think will attract women. Another poster said it already, but who the hell cares what a woman thinks about your clothes? Your style and personal appearance should be a very selfish aspect in that you wear whatever you want because YOU want to wear it. If your clothes are what is specifically attracting a certain woman, then you can best believe her materialistic nature will soon come out and you will wish to God you never met her. There are a lot of nice, simple women out there who don’t have the tastes of some trashy Kardashian.

My rambling overall point is to dress however it is that does it for you. Maybe it’s just my introversion coming out, but who the hell cares what someone else thinks of you? People are flawed all over the place and are in position to judge you for anything. Don’t overthink your clothing, gents. There’s much more to worry about in life besides that.

[russellgranruth]

Great advice ; dressing age appropriate and stylish actually makes you feel younger because it demonstrates you pay attention to detail and people notice. Something I didn't pay attention to until my fifties. Always feels good when someone compliments your style. Keep up the great videos. Subscribed.

[pensebete]

I just purchased a high waist pair of training users. It changed my life. I no longer have to choose between directing it left, right, up, down 🤣 Everything is in place and the package is well kept

[gatorcellman]

Great advice and I'd like to add that choosing less items that are of higher quality is better than many items that are subpar. Example, cashmere and silk sweater, high quality wools, etc. While more expensive, if you go toward more classic, they look great, last longer, and will keep you in style. Also, put the time into a fitness routine. Not only will it make you look better, but it will keep you healthier and feel better.

[morganolfursson]

I think what matters is not to give a damn what people think and how they perceive you. Wear whatever you like and if you like how you look, then screw everybody else !
It is all about confidence, not clothes. Confidence doesn't come from what you put on your back, but from what you put in your brain. When you have that confidence, you could be a man and dress like Marie Antoinette and still be the most charismatic male in the room or on the street. NOTHING is sexier and more attractive than confidence, ask any woman or any gay man.
Whether you are dressed in tailored clothes, shoes and accessories from head to toe, or dressed in GAP, the only thing that people around you will notice and that will matter to them, is your confidence or lack of it.


Now all this being said, if you naturally look like a supermodel, you can wear a sack of potato and people will still find you attractive. And vice versa, if you are the doppelganger of Joseph Merrick, you can wear a Bespoke from Kiton or Desmond Merrion, and that won't change a thing. And that's the glitch in the machine.


So work on your self confidence using your brain not your wallet !

[captjosemanuel]

Been there, done that...at the end of the day, it all comes down to personal preference ie. what makes YOU feel good, comfortable, and confident.

[jasons]

I'm 46, 5" 9" tall and weight 185 lbs. I just spent from March 2019 - July 2019 dropping from 30% to 20% body fat. My goal is to get down to 8-10% and then from there never go above 12-13%. As I'm doing this, I can't help but to want to update my clothing style. The last 10 years I dressed for comfort and became more of a homebody. I can dress nice for a date, but I don't have enough stylish clothing options to wear if the date becomes many dates (a.k.a. relationship), so I'm seeking help. This is the first video I watch and I think it's a good start. But if there are any other videos that can give me more specific clothing ideas, I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks in advance!

[steampunkvampyre]

Brian as usual great advice, it may shock you to know I am 74, have always dressed well and everything I own fits !! its not easy xx

[cassierabe]

I'm a woman, but I can't stop watching your videos! I love menswear and actually into learning how to sew now and I would want to sew a siut. Great content Mr! From The Philippines.

[MirandaEspinosa]

Easy for you to say, I live in Key west. Locals wear t-shirts, shorts and sandals. If your wearing anything else, you get treated like a tourist. Trust me, you follow those tips here, you stand out, and not in a good way 😂

[MichaelWVagg]

Thanks for acknowledging we don't all where suits everyday. It's one of the things that had me give up on seeking styling advice.

[jvillalaz]

Good information. 2 years ago when I turned 40. I decided to upgrade my look and clothes was the first investment I made in myself. I decided to head to Nordstrom and find the best of what's out there. Fitted clothing. Wow what a difference it made.

[c.w.]

Tee-shirts, shorts and flip flops are worn by a good majority of men of all ages in Portland, OR for most of the year, even in cold weather. I want to say "please! too much information!" and "why are you content to look like a 16 year old." Dressing is all about comfort, and not caring too much about style. My opinions are frowned upon and I wonder if I should move somewhere else. I started dressing better at 39 and I'm 41 now. I'm new to all of this. I sometimes get the feeling I'm hurting my social standing because I want to dress better. Anyway, I love your content - one of my favorite dudes on the youtube!

[thetrota]

There are also kids in their 20s who follow you brian.... You are a great inspiration!!! ;)

[MacTechG]

I was forced to wear a blazer and tie in high school (bloody stupid dress code!), it made me utterly loathe ties and blazers/suits/tuxes, all that crap.

I promised myself I’d never voluntarily wear a hangman’s noose...err tie ever again, I bagged up them all, put them in my outdoor fireplace, liberally hosed them down with lighter fluid and set them ablaze!

I’m 50 now and I’ve never worn another hangman’s noose since, and I never will, formal/business wear can die in a fire for all I care

If I could “Thanos-Snap” 100% of ties I’d do it in a heartbeat

Simple casual for me, thanks :)

[TeddyBaldassarre]

What the hell, you’re 41? You hold it together well Brian! Btw - great tips and congrats on 60k!

[dcjimr]

I think most men dress for comfort but it's SO much easier these days to dress comfortably and look nice. You can get nice-looking jeans, pants and shirts with spandex now. I have some pants I wear to work that have spandex that I'd rather wear than sweatpants on the weekend because they're like a second skin. You're also spot on that the details and grooming make all the difference. A darker wash on your jeans...comfy sneakers that aren't running shoes...no hair sticking out of your nose...instead of wearing a sweatshirt put on a really comfy sweater over a basic t-shirt. These are all little things that together can greatly improve your appearance. Great video, Brian!