TNC228 Healing from narcissists through words. the words you use can help you heal from a narcissist

IN episode 228 of THE NARCISSISTS' CODE I talk about HEALING FROM NARCISSISTS THROUGH WORDS. HOW THE WORDS YOU USE CAN HELP YOU HEAL FROM A NARCISSIST

TRANSFORMATIVE VOCABULARY is one of the best things that I have learned on my personal development journey. Basically it's the principle about how the words you say to yourself or speak out loud can either help you or hinder you when you are healing from a relationship with a narcissist. Your brain will try to make truth out of the words that you use so be careful about the things that you say.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware #narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( #NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the #Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together

[mimiville]

You’re so right. Words carry more power than most of us realize & our own thoughts/self-talk can be our worst enemy holding us back from happiness.

[ZP]

“Words are things. You must be careful, careful about calling people out of their names, using racial pejoratives and sexual pejoratives and all that ignorance. Don’t do that. Some day we’ll be able to measure the power of words. I think they are things. They get on the walls. They get in your wallpaper. They get in your rugs, in your upholstery, and your clothes, and finally in to you.”
- Maya Angelou

[hopedealer]

Narcissist can try coming across as Empaths; Empaths want to fix them. We all need to find ourselves and heal our own souls. Empath or Narcissist..we're all human and all need healing 🙏🏽☮✝️😘

[BojanGersak]

Self-love is very important when we decide to live the narcissistic relationship. Self-love give us power to live a better life.

[Karen]

You are so right about our words. Our words are building blocks of our future. Blessings.⭐️

[qmysugs]

You were on 🔥 today! Thanks for posting on Xmas- words make a huge difference!

[anquinettemosley]

I truly believe words are spirits and they live on long after people are gone. Proverbs 18:21 says that death and life are in the power of the tongue; and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof...what you say can preserve life or destroy it. This means basically what you say can have power over your life and at the end of the day you must accept the consequences of your own words. REAL DEEP🤔🙌🏾

[sbongile]

I like the way narcs tell on themselves without anyone even asking. He goes “I’m in the basement, I’m not hiding she knows “….. 🤯😂😂😂😂

[cara]

Gold mine of perspectives here. Yes!✨🙌

[deejamesst]

Thank you for explaining how words are powerful and that victim mentality never gets anyone anywhere.

[peacearise]

OK, you are actually helping people you have turned your cross into a blessing.

[margaritales]

Invaluable advice, bookmarked! What a great xmas gift, thank you Lee. You are certainly a great motivational speaker.

[aisharahaman]

God bless you all....I am soo thankful 🙏 that I found your channel.

[mariaandrews]

Not only saying, "I can", but, "How can I?". How can I break the trauma bond, get out of this toxic situation, and better my life. Your brain will work on the answer to that question, a solution to the problem. Ask, and you shall receive.

[julianfogel]

I really needed to hear this message. Thank you so much.

[aisharahaman]

Love your work and your way of thinking...work for you and your family is worth it

[DowellPa]

You are so funny and charismatic. Thank you for your content.

[lozannevanniekerk]

Transformative vocabulary. We can do anything if we put our minds to it.

[kimsmith]

We just have to make a plan to get out. Don't just run. Plan your future first please unless you're facing physical abuse. I'm gonna reach out for a 1 on 1 before my final time of walking away. After 19 years of this crap, I'm going to be 50 in February. I need to settle down and quit leaving and coming back. I have an apartment 1800 miles away from my narcissist husband but have came back to home once again. We own a home in Florida. My apartment is in Michigan. It's so cold 8n Michigan, but I can't afford to live on my own in Florida. UGH!!!

[lozannevanniekerk]

This video really touched my heart would be wonderful if we could have a one on one . I never tried talking on zoom before . This touches my heart and soul you are a wonderful person inside and out . Words are important and you motivate and I can see the care in your eyes( you are not evil😉). Your past does not equal your future either. This really touched my heart . I believe in you Lee. Words can be blessings never let negative words settle inside the heart. It's true what is better being the best version of yourself. Soul maturity inside. Oh my heart this really touched my heart so deeply . Motivational and touches my heart and soul🤗 . I have 2 facebooks account both under my maiden name Theron . 🤗 I know during covid some of my friends that are teachers talked over zoom I should get it 🤗