Self Defense - Expectation vs Reality

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Self-defense can be a critical skill, but it's important to have realistic expectations. Here's a comparison between common expectations and the reality of self-defense:

Expectation: Learning a Few Moves is Enough
Reality: Self-defense requires continuous practice. Simply learning a few techniques is not sufficient. Regular training helps to develop muscle memory, improve reaction times, and build confidence.
Expectation: Size and Strength Always Win
Reality: Technique, speed, and strategy can often overcome size and strength. Self-defense training often includes learning how to use an attacker's strength against them.
Expectation: Self-Defense is Mainly Physical
Reality: A significant part of self-defense is mental. It involves being aware of your surroundings, avoiding dangerous situations, and de-escalating conflicts.
Expectation: All Martial Arts are Effective for Self-Defense
Reality: Not all martial arts are equally effective in real-life self-defense scenarios. Some are more focused on sport, while others are designed for street defense. Research and choose a style that aligns with self-defense needs.
Expectation: You Can Always Stand and Fight
Reality: The best self-defense strategy is often to escape. Avoiding a physical confrontation is usually safer than engaging in a fight.
Expectation: Self-Defense Weapons are Always Useful
Reality: While weapons like pepper spray or a taser can be effective, they require practice and can be turned against you. Understanding their proper use and limitations is crucial.
Expectation: You Won't Freeze in a Real Situation
Reality: Freezing or panicking is a common reaction. Training helps, but real-life situations can be unpredictable and overwhelming.
Tips for Realistic Self-Defense
Continuous Training: Keep practicing regularly.
Situational Awareness: Stay alert to your environment.
Conflict Avoidance: Try to avoid or de-escalate situations.
Learn Effective Techniques: Choose a self-defense style that is practical for real-life situations.
Understand Legal Implications: Know the laws regarding self-defense in your area.
Mental Preparedness: Train not just physically, but also mentally for potential scenarios.
Physical Fitness: Maintain a level of physical fitness that supports your ability to defend yourself.
Escape First: Remember that escaping is often the best self-defense strategy.
Understanding these aspects can significantly improve the effectiveness of your self-defense strategies and keep you safer in potentially dangerous situations.

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[aminariffin]

Give this man a medal for telling the truth to the world about self defence.

[leetester]

Never fuck with anyone rocking double denim.

[TheWhiskeyCowboyLife]

Sadly most "self defense" classes sell confidence that will get you hurt in real life. It's good to see this here.

[nomad_philosophy]

Best self defence tip is be sober, other guy most probably isn't

[jamesmiller]

This guy is so right, what works in the dojo not necessarily works in the real world

[bigbeef]

Rule number 1. Never underestimate anyone.

[funfilm]

The bullet holes in the background tells the real story on what to do.

[mjk]

My 1st martial art was Aikido, I quit shortly after being taught to defend a right hand, I became a pro kickboxer later, this video is so accurate

[SB-leqo]

very authentic clothing for a street fight demo :)

[matthewwinn]

Finally, somebody talking truth. Fights never ever go the way that you are shown in a similar. You have to be prepared to use everything that you have been taught over years of practice. If you take a weekend seminar and try to use it on the street without any other fighting experience, you're going to get your ass handed to you.

[MtnBadger]

Finally, someone willing to speak truth.
I'm ex-military, a trained martial artist, wrestler and (former) national league rugby player... I guess I'm a "tough guy, " according to the internet standards... I also happen to be 6'5"/250 lbs. and I can tell you from experience...
If a littler person thinks they are going to have the time/opportunity to use all of their fancy-schmancy techniques and moves to "stop and overpower" a larger opponent and start beating up on him, like the "McDojos" and movies convince you will happen... You're dreaming.
Your best defense against a (significantly) larger, *capable* opponent (other than to not under estimate them) is to create space, perhaps momentarily stun/confuse/disorient your attacker and
*haul ass.*
Staying around to try to "whoop up" on a much bigger guy (unless he's a schlub and you're a rarity, like "Chuck" or someone) is only going to teach you one thing... The bigger they are, the *harder they kick your ass.* 😊
Unless you're cornered and in a definite, life threatening situation with no choice (I trained in a Norris organization studio in the 70s, it's exactly what they taught us), use all of your skill and might to find the best path "away" from the situation. No matter how "good" you think you are, it only takes one slip, one piece of luck on his part and you're done. So, definitely work on techniques against larger opponents, learn weak spots and pressure points and leverage and everything else you can because...
You'll need it. Then, don't get into fights with big guys, in the first place. 😉

[ODBB]

Dude looks like every under cover cop from the 70’s and 80’s.

[BenArcher-cm]

It works in every action movie ive seen

[tsunami]

40 years veteran in martial arts here. The man is right! Most people have no clue as to what it is like to deal with the chaos of an actual fast and brutal clash. It's like two cars colliding and everything is coming all at once.

[johngavin]

Thank you Sir …. The most valuable part of any instruction is accuracy and Truth.

[danbelh]

All absolutely correct. So many dojos teach fantasy situations

[mikec]

I sent away for a 99 cent "learn karate" manual when I was a kid.

It had drawings showing how to do the maneuvers step by step.

It was funny because the assailant would just stand still while the karate guy would perform a series of maneuvers.

I said "this would never work".

[bottomsupbass]

I’m new to your feed but I appreciate you lowering expectations about real fights and giving people actual answers.
Because as a wise man once said: Everybody’s got a plan until they get punched in the mouth.

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[NDRN]

My dad used wrestling to take 100% of his fights to the ground on one punch into a pancacke. You CAN do it. You have to be the aggressor as soon as you realize you are against and aggressor.