The 3 Major Differences Between Bad Boys & Nice Guys

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In today's "Ask SSM" Video I go over an email sent from a subscriber who wanted me to explain the differences between bad boys and nice guys. I give him what are in my opinion the 3 main differences.

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[rajakghosh]

Nice guys finish in divorce court while bad guys finishes on her face.

[imwhou]

1. Bad boys get laid.
2. Nice guys get used.

[PhantomFilmAustralia]

The first time I waited at a restaurant for a woman to turn up, she was 25 minutes late without a call or text, and with no reasonable excuse. After being seated and given our menus, I told her to order anything she wanted. She did, then I went and cancelled my main course and only paid for my entrée. After eating that, I excused myself to go to men's room, but I took off and just left her there.
Soon after, while shooting some pool with the guys at a pub, I decided to answer my constantly ringing phone. It was her. I told her I had to leave early, and I apologized that I left her without a call, or text, and with no reasonable excuse.
After seeing what she ordered at the restaurant, I knew I made the right decision. She DID order anything she wanted, and her bill came to $234. Since I was the best dressed at that bar, it was easy for me to snag a hot, fun girl. She was out with some family. She introduced me to her brother, I told him about what happened earlier, and he shook my hand and called me a god.
All in all, at least one of us great night.

[ozzyolof]

As a 68 year old I wish I knew this 50 years ago.
One consolation is I have 3 grandsons I can impart this knowledge to

[xiongher]

That's why it's just nice being by urself....no bs, no headache, freedom and you don't waste money on anyone but urself. Let them chase you when ur doing good later on.

[capcomfan]

Dude this video proved you know what your talking about. Everything you said is accurate especially how it takes time and experience to develop into this type of man.

[reaverofjillsandwiches]

I was a former nice guy. I made the change and it hasn't helped my luck with the ladies. But what it has helped me with is that I no longer care so I'm a lot happier.

[franciscojuarez]

Nice guys buy flowers way too much. That's one of many differences.
It's better to buy chocolates. Hopefully, the girl will avoid eating it due to weight concerns.
Then you can eat it. That's a win-win.

[ddahaka]

You don’t have to be a bad boy. Be yourself - whatever that is. Have some self respect, don’t simp for anyone, stand your ground and be a man. Don’t let your life revolve around woman. They either add to your life in a positive way or you send them to the curb. Going bad because of some ‘woman’ makes you no better.

[LEDPENNY]

Yep I've had ones get mad at me because I put band practice and shows before them. They threaten to leave me but those threats proved to be empty. I was a former nice guy myself but as soon as I started putting myself first, oh they stuck around!

[tyronethomas]

My experience: I tried the nice/good route(not a doormat). When I showed my ex that I care n considerate. Do nice things for her(tried comforting her during monthly sickness, among others) sometime after she said "you're a nice guy, I don't deserve it", few months after she broke it off. I said ok, I dropped off the map in ghost mode, got colder/and shift the focus on improving. Now I don't give a phuck about any chick. I phuck 'em n ghost. Some chase, trying to get more I cut them off n ghost. Hearts have been broken but hey life is unfair.

[zvvcydn]

Haha ain’t gonna lie. All these “bad boys behavior” is similar to how I treat my sister. I love the girl but I NEVER, since childhood, put up with any of her crap.

[brocklanders]

It comes down to confidence, balls, and taking control. Looks play a factor, but it's not everything. The biggest cheat code, speak your mind with no F's given. Women may pretend to be disgusted by your offensive behavior, but if you can reach into her pants she will be dripping.

[kenmasters]

also, even the really good, feminine, traditional girls should NOT be spoiled unconditionally. even the best of them will take you for granted. it's just their nature. so ration out your attention and gifts and what not. they will treat you FAR better when they have to work for it.

[SUPAassassin]

I’m 23 and here and there I go for casual things for women as I don’t waste a lot of time with them. I’m not looking for anything particularly serious right now as I can’t afford that.

In my mind I see a woman as just another bill with the mortgage/rent, phone bill etc. Until that woman bill is non-material financially I’ll just do me.

I totally agree on the women being late to a date. I wait a max of 5 minutes and just leave. I don’t text or call them, I leave.

[setoredan]

Awesome video and explanation. I was sitting here wishing I had someone teach me this stuff when I was a teenager.

[Outlier]

Google “Why do women like bad boys?” and it actually gives positive reasons and makes bad boys sound good. Even Google seems afraid to criticize women in any way.

[jasoncarter]

Men who want truly to be happy in life put themselves first. Financial wellbeing, physical wellbeing, and mental wellbeing, first, first, and first. This doesn't mean you have to act like an a-hole or treat a woman poorly. Rather, you become the man she desires, and she becomes the nurturer and caretaker of the relationship.

[jamesdotson]

The bad boy waiting at the Cheesecake factory gives her a short grace period to get there or let him know what's up, then he picks up another chick and still has a good time.