unapproachable (to men) makeup🚫🧔🏻‍♂️🚩

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[kennyBee]

As a woman, when I see someone with really bold make up I assume they have an event to go to, thats a normal assumption to make. What I don't do is make a weird or snide comment, I always compliment them on their cool make up and go on with my day.

[mishka_rowa]

My husband asks me, what’s that for? all the time… but in the most earnest & curious way. I think he just wants to talk about it. And if it’s not what, it’s how or why. Snd then he listens like he really wants to know.

[starryyed]

Whenever I see other women wearing something bold, I'm always complimenting them. I know as a woman, getting complimented by another woman makes me so incredibly happy, so I always want to pay it forward

[samrajneebhattacharya]

Maam your hand control is off the charts

[rainiedayze]

My husband always tells me when someone has cool makeup so I can go compliment them for him because he’s scared to come off as a creep 😢

[wettowelggh]

I don't think it's toxic to ask that. Most girls don't wear makeup like that every day. It's okay to be curious if they aren't being rude about it.

[DiceLegendaryWarrior]

There's also the secret dialogue option

*Looks once, doesn't give af and goes back to buying my chicken*

[RedOrNothingloool]

I'm a girl, and even I sometimes wonder if people with a lot of makeup are dressing for something (theater, party, etc). I think it's the tone that matters, not particularly the words in this case

[jenk]

Your hand is steadier than my seasonal depression. LOVE this look.

[alexandermonta]

I feel like asking if you're going to a party or play is a valid reaction to this. That's a lot of effort to put into cosmetics just to go to the store. I don't feel that it's a negative reaction at all. I also don't feel that it makes you less approachable, if anything it provides something to talk about, a conversation starter. It's cool and unique.

[WoShiJiaDawei]

If being confused when someone wears bizarre makeup makes me a "red flag man, " I guess I'm okay with that.

[MacyFitch]

I am MAD jealous of that colorful makup kit yr using

[bugorchard]

I went to an art school and there was this one person who made their own clothes and wore them with incredible hair and makeup every day, and I will never forget them. They were walking art, existing for themself and their creations, and I strive to bring that level of creativity and confidence to my life. I hope each and every one of you realizes your own way to proudly be who you are ❤

[dayceecaughill]

How does it make a guy a Red Flag if he asks you if you're going somewhere specific with crazy ass makeup??

[Someone]

As a woman- I sometimes want to ask that. I’m not toxic, it’s just I usually don’t see people wearing such beautiful and bold makeup, most of the time it’s natural or none. Either way- it’s beautiful.

[blackrosejinx]

It’s not a matter of the question itself but the tone. Asking if you’re going somewhere important or to an event by itself isn’t bad, but the tone at which is asked can sometimes come off as condescending, ie “what’s all that makeup for?” Rather than “Oh wow are you going somewhere? That makeup looks so complex!” One of these phrases is asking a genuine question whilst remarking the vibrant manner of the makeup, the other implies that the makeup-wearer is “doing too much” and can create a tone of judgement rather than curiosity

[sashap.]

I don't think people being genuinely curious about your look is an inherent red flag. But man, as an alternative person, the amount of times that question has been used to interrogate me to see if I had a good enough reason to look the way I do has left a bad taste in my mouth. A lot of people who ask this are just curious and that's fine. But also, a lot of them want you to prove yourself because you're too weird and over-the-top and they don't like that. Those types of people are a red flag imho.

[Beh-zehr]

As a girl, asking is not toxic. If you have crazy makeup on, ofc someone will say something. It's not toxic. You're seeking that attention, so don't be mad when you get it

[ashleywray]

The blending IN the pan made my heart cry. But stunning makeup!

[Amelia-etj]

STOP HOW IS THE LINER ALWAYS SO PERFECT