4 Things That Destroy A Woman's Attraction To You

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[butternuts]

At the end of the day, if she likes you, it will be natural. If she's not into you, it will feel like work.

[dannorris]

That "chronically online" bit is pretty serious. I hate being nostalgic, but the days before the internet and social media were way easier on our minds. Now, we're overthinking and over-analyzing everything, because of some crap we heard online.

[koolandblue]

1) 0:28 Expecting her to lead
2) 2:52 Neglecting yourself
3:47 Sponsor Ad
3) 4:52 Chronically Online Behavior
4) 7:28 Overly Clingy or Seeking Validation

[DS-ewsp]

As I watch this video online I can't help but feel a deep sense of irony when watching the "Chronically Online" segment.

[brianthesnail]

I saw a young adult couple out at a nice high end restaurant the other day. Both sat looking at their phones at the table. My wife is age 59 and I am 60 and we have been together 40 years but we still can talk for hours without looking at our phones if we are out together.

[omreal]

Pay close attention to neglecting yourself. It doesn't only mess up the relationship, but when it ends due to that, you're going to be in a position where you have to get back into shape. I took it for granted when I got what I wanted and ended up worse than where I started.
But yeah that’s good advice

[jefferydebbink]

Another thing that can destroy attraction, rushing things! I’ve learned over time that women need time to get comfortable with a guy and know that he’s trustworthy.

[ChrisW]

2 things that I've had women say they appreciate about me is always having a positive attitude. I've also been told I'm very disciplined and dependable.

[blackswan]

Hi Courtney. I just wanted to say that one of the things that I love about your videos is that you're able to show that instead of some pick-up artist hack or hyper-masculine facade, 9 times out of 10 all it takes to understand what's attractive to good women comes from good old fashioned common sense. The chronically-online folk (have to put myself in that category unfortunately) often get to the point that they forget what common sense is, so it's very important to have someone like you giving us that reminder.

Objective for this week: roll in some grass🙂

[jabbaweezy]

1. breathing
2. existing
3. being an average man
4. satisfied with being an average man

[thecapone]

Courtney, I’ve recently gotten back into running and getting in shape and listening to your videos for some reason is much more helpful to me than listening to music. I feel like I gain confidence just listening to your videos and I stand a little taller and feel more confidence in me because I envision the person I want to develop into. Thanks for your videos and it’s great that you respect men and don’t trash talk. I have subscribed.

Now time to get back to this run. (:

[AJSchnell]

I don’t care if she’s attracted to me or not. I do the things I do because I like to do them. I don’t do the things I do to attract a woman, if she’s turned off by me and my actions, then “bye. Now I’m glad you know how I feel about a majority of the things you do. “

[Novaximus]

Life need not be so difficult. If she likes you, she's going to give you validation. That validation is going to make you feel chemistry. That chemistry is going to make the man want to put in effort.

[gumnaamaadmi]

I haven't watched your videos for a couple of weeks and was pleasantly surprised to see(and hear) you using a new opening line. Thanks for another great video. Staying in love is often more difficult than falling in love, and that begins with attraction.

[pjcvouz]

Love your opinion on validation. A mantra that I hold near and dear to my heart about that is. “ love is not something you look for love is something you become. “

[tomix]

You talked about the "chronically online" stuff in the most sensible, diplomatic way. I really appreciate it. I just took a long walk after watching this video :)

[deusexaethera]

My mother is a feminist who was raised by Communists, who believed (because they were legally required to) that men and women are explicitly equal in all respects; my father is an odd mix of take-charge Army officer and mama's boy, who expects men and women to be equal not only in principle but also in action; and I'm autistic and struggle to correctly interpret subtext and body language. Let me tell you, #1 "Expecting her to lead" is an incredibly hard habit to break under those conditions. I'm supposed to just do what I think is right and wait to see if she nonverbally signals that she appreciates it? Maybe you'd like me to walk across a minefield with bricks tied to my feet, too. I'm trying, but damn it's hard.

[majrdave]

Taking the lead is not as black and white as some may think. There are nuances to it. Your behavior sets the tone/example and leads the way if you are persistent with it and disciplined. But to imply that leading means having to always take the first step in every situation equates to trying to preemptively act upon what the girl is thinking about or possibly desiring at that specific moment. Also, having to always make the plans, set the time, choose a place for dates, gets really tiring after a while. It's alright for the girl to make the suggestion every so often because it looks like she is contributing as well, otherwise it's just one-sided and it feels as if you're dating a child or an uninspired bot. If the girl has something on her mind, she should also communicate it instead of trying to hint at it so subtly as to make it impossible to pick up on it and then you are told you didn't take initiative when you should have. Been there, done that. It's frustrating as well.

[Redsentinel]

I really like that. Chronically online behavior. You can always see that kind of behavior in people, both men and women. I tend to steer clear of these types of people for good reason. Sound advice regarding the topic to unplug from the online matrix!

[johngonzalez]

I love the green 💚 shirt on you, Courtney! Wishing you a wonderful relaxing weekend