What I've Learned After Turning 30: Friendship Breakups, Dating, Confidence, and More!

After almost being 30 for so long, here's a video of things I've learned since i've turned 30. I hope you love this style video and just a girly chit chat! I love you guys so much! Hope you look forward to your 30's cause they're amazing!! xo -Alisha Marie

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[AlishaMarie]

comment any advice / questions you have about turning 30!!!!

[tehilara]

Im 32. Advice for the young 20s out there, there is no behind in life. I have friends with 7 kids, ... on their second marriages, .... Getting their doctorate. I agree that you just need to stay in your lane and do you ❤ life will work out. Your life doesn't end at 30 or even 40. Just be happy and do stuff that makes you happy🎉

[BuiltByLinds]

getting older is realizing 30 is YOUNG

[emilyelombardo]

Someone got their color analysis done and is IN HER CORRECT 👏🏻 HUES AND COLORS👏🏻 ERA!!!!

[Veroicone]

I’m 38. If I could talk to my younger self, I would tell her to never settle. Don’t settle for a boyfriend, a job, whatever. If you’re not happy then find something or someone that makes you happy. I thought in my 20s I had to have everything figured out, I’m almost 40 and I still don’t! My life is amazing and my 30s have seriously been incredible (got a dog, saving for a house, got an amazing job) and it’s making me excited for my 40s. Aging isn’t scary! Live your life how you want to live it, you’re never trying you’re just on your own path.

[lturner]

Over 30 here....Best advice... don't freak out, as long as you're growing/learning...it's fine.

[DH-uwus]

As a 33 year old, I wish I had taken better care of myself. Part of that is addressing my mental health earlier and being real with myself. In my 20s, I didn't realize how a lot of the things I was doing was contributing to my poor mental state. If I could go back, I would seek help earlier. I would listen to health advice more and take it more seriously. I would not make my career my whole life. I would do my best to get proper sleep, eat better, and exercise consistently. I would question things more and look for answers. I would also realize that everything happens on its own timeline. I would not envy people because you never know what they're really dealing with, or what they had to do to get what they have. I would save more money and budget better (rainy days will come).

[eveiveneg]

I'm straight up mid 30s. Be good with your money. Know where your money goes. Save and stick to a budget and make sure you work in treating yourself (responsibly). Being sure about your finances makes your 30s more manageable. It's one less thing to be scared about and one more thing to be secure about.

[melinafalzone]

23 right here, last year I went through a friendship breakup with my oldest friend and it felt like nothing made sense anymore. But after a year I realize that we grew apart, we evolved into really different people and didn't make sense together anymore. Navigating your 20s is realizing that friends don't last forever and thats fine! Its part of life. Everyone is constantly evolving and figuring their own path, and its normal if the paths make you loose contact. You'll find new friends along the way, the friends you need in that exact moment. Its part of growing, its hard to get used to but thats life. And everything will be fine!

[tasiacross]

You had no idea how much I needed this. I am actually 27 this year but so scared about turning 30. But seeing you thriving and how you makes me somewhat okay with it

[AlishaMarie]

ayooo another main channel?? who is she?

[karlabaquera]

I needed this right now. I’m 23 and I feel stuck because I just got out of a relationship with someone I planned my life with and it’s sucks but this is such a breathe of fresh air 😭❤️ I’m motivated now ily

[TheWinningTeam]

As a 27 year old I could watch 100 of these!! feeel free to do part 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 etc!! I think this is so much more relevant and needed than we all realise!

[elizabethjankauskas]

I think a cute name would be Alisha’s Advice or Brain Dump with Alisha. These episodes are so cute!

[furahahwang]

I’m turning 33 this year— I realized once I have accepted who I am and not the version of who my family wants me to be; I felt so free and a great burden came off of my shoulders.
PLUS, ever since I turned 30, I’ve been having THE BEST life ❤

[kmrzwci]

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

[Crysco_]

🎤🎤🎤 girl!! I turned 30 in February and I heard you loud and clear when you said stop caring what people think! It truly does not matter and you come to realize the opinions of others does not make you happy, so do what feels good to you! Also…take your vitamins. WHY DID MY KNEES STOP WORKING 😂 ily! 🫶🏽

[zintleb]

Fellow 31 year old here and my first year in my 30s has truly been the best in my life! I enjoy life more because I fill it with all the things I love, not caring what anyone else is doing

[amycross]

Baby girl. I'm getting ready to turn 59. 30 was AWESOME! To me... 60 is pretty young. Lol Seriously, my 30s were my prime! Seize the day! Youre old enough to do what you want, but young enough to have fun with it! I think the nugget of wisdom is... DON'T ANTICIPATE. Let your life happen. There are going to be good times and horrible times whether you worry or not. Im still trying to see what Im going to be when I grow up. Live fully, love greatly, and be kind to yourself. You are right where you are supposed to be right now. "For everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven."

[morganliz]

I've dreaded turning 30 all year, and tomorrow is the day. This helped calm my nerves some. You made SO MANY good points! Take me or leave me!!! Thank you, Alisha, I never comment on videos but I HAD to with this upload. ❤