ENFJ and ISTP as Roommates

#16PersonalityTypes #ENFJ #ISTP
An ENFJ and an ISTP as roommates...

[elvenaubade]

bro created a more emotionally investing character dynamic in 3 minutes than a lot of netflix shows in a whole season

[artemissrijan]

"Nobody else seems to care except you"
That hit hard

[pheasant]

ISTP here. I can assure you, 80% of the arguments I have with my mom are over things just like this...this is on another level of "relatableness"

[yesachung]

As an ENFJ I can attest to this😂nothing more ENFJ than the “I just want you to understand” and the uncalled for therapy session😂😂😂😂

[johnnyscocktaeil]

Hey! I'm an ISTP with an ENFJ best friend. This is it. This is how we always end our arguments. We've been best friends for 9 years, we've fought allot but in the end we always end up considering each other's perspective that I guess made our friendship strong. We both learned to adjust, we have massive differences but I think it's our connection that matters.

[mezmerizze]

As a 25 years old ISTP i can relate with everything rly gj. I only miss that part where ISTP went to repark his car at the end :)

[classikai]

That was so dramatic

... and yet so accurate

[stevester]

The lesson here: When a T type gives in to a F type's wishes, it's not out of kindness, it's so they'll shut up about it.

[itsjie]

INFJ here with an ISTP father. Growing up, my father has always been a man of few words and always tinker around, figuring out how to get work done around the house. Arguably, I notice the only emotion he truly knows is anger, because everytime he tries to express himself, it always comes out that way. But truly, he's a kind person, it's just that inferior Fe is his main struggle.

[VTdarkangel]

Well done! I feel little attacked at an ISTP, which means you nailed this interaction.

[aisarfatiha]

As an enfj, im freaking hate this situation..it can make me cry easily and make me worried oftenly when im with istp😂

[WerdFTW]

As an ISTP, I can say this is perfect

[SewerRat]

As an INTP, I totally relate to the ISTP getting angry and defensive whenever ENFJ kept questioning him. Inferior Fe sucks. :(
Also, I just love these videos! :)

[ecaterinaungureanu]

ISTP female (20)
You got this one. It really felt like me. Boy, I hate it so much when someone comes to me with that kind of speech wich will do touch my Fe in the end.

[NoName-zhjz]

What I find interesting and accurate are the different uses of Fe between the two. Both were calm during this conflict but eventually ISTP lost his cool when ENFJ questioned his Fe. Types do have that insecure feeling when it comes to their inferior function which makes them defensive and more sensitive than usual.

That is usually why ISTPs have these explosive moments when it comes to situations relating to sentiments. Not only does this happen to ISTPs but often thinkers in general. As much as they don't want to admit it, they do have a poorer control of their emotions and having confusing moments with them which leads them to having some form of an emotional meltdown.

[wingcheung]

ya, I think the ENFJ was more concerned about how other people will see the ISTP and misunderstand him than wanting him to "do the right thing"

[jethrolagon]

ENFJ me trying to enlighten my ISTP dad but constantly getting shut down... it's occasional when we both actually hear each other out and it's feels great when it does

[ashleyching]

When you try to make everybody happy,
you take more from yourself than you can ever hope to give.

[fleetingfootnotes]

Making an ISTP talk like that is border on the abusive :( ... Poor ISTP.

[Coneman]

ISTP are the best ST type imo. They just get on with stuff with no drama and try and see things for what they are, and they have an interest in deeper understanding.