How to be less socially awkward #shorts

[gracie_mae_]

"what's the worst thing that could happen?"
*Me going up to a stranger to say hi
* Also me getting kidnapped

[zakh]

Umm...I don't think the issue is always to go and talk to a person. The issue is what to even say and how to prevent the interaction form being stilted and awkward. Well at least for me...

[olliemartinelli]

Well this is a guide for extroverts and people who don’t have any social anxiety in the first place. The issue doesn’t necessarily lie with the approach. The first interactions you have with a stranger are mostly always the same meaning there’s already a level of certainty in your mind that you won’t ‘make it awkward’. But then continuing is harder. I think that’s what most people find hard, or at least continuing the conversation without feeling awkward or making the other person feel awkward

[kaylapoon]

“what’s the worst thing that could happen if you say hi to someone?”
my true crime brain: *anything is possible honey*

[liviekate]

here's another tip i love using: compliment someone everyday, u don't have to know them, but just do it. Itll make them smile, and who knows maybe they were having a bad day and u made them feel 10 times better:)💕 love ur videos spencer

[tharika]

spencer: what’s the worse that could happen
my mind: overthinking with millions of possible stuff that could happen
(but that you spencer! hopefully i make a few new friends!)

[zoya.j]

Spencer: *What’s the worst that could happen?*
Me: *they would reject being friends with me 🤔*

[betskeptsecret]

Wow...this is actually so so helpful. I actually started trying to make friends this year (online) but even putting myself out there on social media was hard. But it was 100% worth it. I met my absolute best friend over social media because we're both awkward introverts. We now tell each other literally everything and she will be my future bridesmaid.

[physics]

“Not letting fear control my life” is the most eye opening thing I’ve heard 🙌

[zaineba]

That's the most expressive face I've seen, it's so adorable !!

[Happyvibes]

I’m so shy and idk how to over come that. It’s not really that I’m scared of being judged etc, it’s just that I can’t get the words out of my dang mouth. Like if someone’s comes and talks to me or want to be y friend I barely talk. I’m in high school now and I’v known some people for a year and still am a quiet or shy to them. Everyday I say to my e self things like “ I’m gonna say hi to them” and never do. PLS HELP 😭

[eastside]

You never had it too begin with, your personality is just normal and full of confidence and I dont believe you ever suffered the same as I have for years.

[bobbyavitia]

One thing that I think helps me is trying to give a random compliment to a stranger.

[anonymous_quasar]

Here’s the thing: I don’t know why I have extremely crippling social anxiety. Everyone I know tries to help me, and every time, I literally break down in tears. I’m not emotional, I am definitely not a coward. But I feel like the world is about to collapse in any given social situation. I don’t get a little bit scarred, I get a full on mental breakdown.

I love your videos though! I think it all starts with self love and I definitely abhor my self a little less thanks to always seeing your encouragement!

[redham]

I feel like when I try to put myself out there, I leave feeling more hurt and worthless 🙃

[yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl]

This woman’s energy is actually lit af, I need this is my life 🔥

[alyReidGoober]

me with social anxiety: " so uhm, none of these tuts work so I'm never talking to others again!"

[WiseOne.]

Dang you rlly kind cured my introvertness, social awkwardness, social anxiety with this video wow. 😏

[zvrana]

I need a video on how to stop embarrassing yourself so much in public. I do it everyday and get embarrassed easily.

[kenrice]

This girl speaks so much truth and wisdom every time 💯