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There's a reason why you end up in the friendzone time and again.

While talking with women, most men start by building comfort instead of building attraction.

They have no idea how to flirt, how to spark attraction,

and start asking dull interview mode questions.

In this video, I talk about the importance of flirting,

And breakdown the inverse relation between

- Building Comfort
- Building Attraction

Start focusing on sparking attraction and learn how to flirt with women.

Love,
Kshitij 💖

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[starragon]

I got friendzoned. The best things to do for all those people in the same situation is to just ignore and don’t keep chasing them even after you get rejected, just live your life

[himanshunegi]

She friendzone you because you are not good-looking 😂

[dipesh]

I started with flirting but still got friendzone bacause she is confused what to do

[seedhibaat.nobakwaas]

She knows that I am in love with her, and I know that she looks me just as " FRIEND " she don't have feelings for me...and she also knows that I can't hurt her By My Feelings and words to her...
So, One Day I stopped texting, and Left away from her Life 😔🥀

[mugiwara]

First start with comfort building and later on when you get to know each other, you can start flirting little by little (she wont creep out) 😂

[Indianguy_]

The girl i liked i comforted her so much that i know she sees me as friend & if i'll tell her it'll ruin friendship.
So now as she went to different city for college, i have cutted off myself from her

[jparcasm]

If you leave me in the friends zone, you gon catch me in your friends phone.

[kishalaysarkar]

Well i know many couples who started by building a great friendship.. so maybe there's two sides? 😂😂

[saifshaikh_]

Guys, make money 🤣 every girl will be attracted !!!!

[VishalPrajapati]

Maine to flirting se hi start Kiya tha, ignore bhi kiya, apni feelings bhi nhi batayi fir bhi Aaj bol Rahi hai 'hum sirf frd hai '😂 bas wo mujhe 5 saal badi hai

[kaushikdas]

I started to care too much and got bro zoned or bestf zoned whatever you say

[shouryaadarsh]

I used to flirt ...usko ghanta kuch smjh nhi aaya ...! She's too naive 😺

[gyanryan]

Dekho bhai if u r not good looking then no matter u build comfort or be flirt you will be creep at all cost

[Nondiscomfort]

I like a girl from last 7 years she knows it
She’s friendzoned me completely she said we can just be friends she don’t want a relationship she’s not stable etc
I do everything for her
I just dont know what I should do
Please tell me

[TruthTriumphs]

itna mehnat kuch kaam mein lagayenge toh aise hi.ladki aa jayegi

[joey]

tinder swindler ke baad pickup ko ldkiya alag treeke se nai dekhengi

[marveltrident]

This man literally live in bollywood movies

[devagaming]

Q. HAM KYA HAI

ANS. KHATRO KE KHIDADI 😅😅😅

[ankitginnare]

Friendzone to bhi thik hai hamko to bhai he bana leti hai Yaar

[Marcus_MG]

I'd like to share a recent experience with a woman I met on Hinge and discuss how it went.

This girl (25) matched with me (M, 29) on Hinge back in the first week of April, and we've been texting and talking on the phone since then. Our conversations have mainly concerned our interests and moderate political views (incl. anti-wokeism, political spectrum, societal issues, and whatnot).

During the initial days, when I asked her if we could shift to WhatsApp conversation, she wasn't interested and wanted to continue on Instagram as she didn't like the UI of Hinge. So, I respected her boundaries, and we continued to chat on Instagram Messenger. It was pretty much one-sided, as I would be the one to text her, persuade her, and ask questions consistently for her to open up and become comfortable. And she eventually did to an extent.

After a while, I asked her why she was reluctant to share her contact number, and she kind of accused me and blamed me for coercing her to make hasty decisions. However, things eventually settled down over time, and we felt more comfortable sharing our thoughts on various different subjects. We connected over Instagram, WhatsApp, and LinkedIn during this period.

However, I noticed some red flags that made me think twice about continuing with her. One night she shared everything about herself and her mental status over a phone call and how she escaped the "hellhole" of her family's clutches. She had a toxic relationship with her family members and a toxic relationship with her now ex-boyfriend. Her father passed away before she joined college back in 2017, and she's the family's youngest and most neglected child (not a pampered princess). According to her, she has been verbally and mentally abused by her brother a lot of times. She also has an elder sister who is married and settled. Both her siblings are well-established.

As per her, her mother would always want to visit her, but she feels her mom only wants to keep an eye on her. She left her home about two years ago, in 2021, due to the abuse, and she's now working at a Big4 consultancy as a financial auditor. She has also said she doesn't like timetables, planning, etc., and anything that makes her think and plan. Also, I ensured that I gave her enough room for her mental peace and self-introspection, as her life and routine are more oriented toward education and career schedules than her personal and mental well-being. I'm also part of the corporate rat race and have a far better understanding of its pros and cons in terms of building relationships and family values for both male and female workers.

She made it very clear at her forefront that she had no plans of settling down and was focused on her career goals, including finishing her CA exams and pursuing an MBA in 2024. From her side, it was crystal clear that she wanted to keep things platonic and only see me as a friend. Although I intended to evolve this "friendship" into a relationship without rushing anything, I eventually got it wrong.

At times I felt that I shouldn't entertain her needs, as they seemed like a protection of solipsism, i.e., selfishness, self-centeredness, and one-sidedness, wanting to cut off the connection. But, regardless, I stayed to see where things would go. At certain points, she's slowly but steadily getting comfortable talking and conversing more. Yet, that little thorn under my feet was that she needed her peace, and she consistently insisted that we only remain platonic friends. I did insinuate the possibility the fact that this behavior of hers is due to her past traumatic experience with her family and her ex-boyfriend. I remained in this for her emotional and psychological support.

Fast forward to the evening of 6th May, she messaged me on Instagram Messenger and asked if I wanted to see her. I agreed, and we met for a short time at a park near her residence. She rushed me to get there quickly because she had other plans. She said later during the meeting that she had a movie night planned with a friend of 2 years (who showed her the current crib where she resides) and that he'd been insisting on a meetup in these two years. So, she finally agreed to a movie together. Throughout this short meeting, her pivotal point was that we're friends and that "I could become her best buddy." It was understandable.

Her overall demeanor, as it seemed, during this first and undoubtedly last meet showed a sign of my unimportance. That's because it's highly likely, there's a possibility that I wasn't the only person to be the emotional comforter of her psychological distress. Another important aspect of this meetup that I found a little weird and skeptical about her overall behavior is her quite exotic outfit for a movie night with a guy friend of two years.

After the meetup, I realized it would be foolish and unintelligent of me to continue this "whatever" further, knowing both the pros and cons of this (mainly cons). And after a few moments of thinking it through, I blocked her on all social media platforms, including LinkedIn, along with her contact and WhatsApp connection on the spot after she left for her movie night.

I'm now conflicted about whether blocking her was right and whether it would hurt her mentally. On the one hand, I want to move on, but on the other hand, it's also bothering me about the potential impact this may have on her mental health. Any advice on how to navigate this situation would be appreciated.

Thank you for reading