How To Be Extremely Seductive

Ever wondered how to be extremely seductive and truly stand out in the dating world? You’re not alone! In this video, let’s talk about how to be extremely seductive and how to show your rizz!

We keep hearing about concepts like sigma male, alpha male, sigma female, and so on. But in today’s video, we’ll be discussing something bigger and more universal that could apply to anyone. We’ll break down these ideas and show you how to apply them to boost your charm and attract the people you’re interested in.

Click the play button to learn the real secrets behind seduction, discover effective dating tips, and explore how you can enhance your allure. Share your thoughts and questions in the comments—we’d love to hear from you!

#attractive #dating #love

Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator : Georgia Whitbread
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

REFERENCES
Hughes, Susan & Farley, Sally & Rhodes, Bradley. (2010). Vocal and Physiological Changes in Response to the Physical Attractiveness of Conversational Partners. Journal of Nonverbal Behavior. 34. 155-167. 10.1007/s10919-010-0087-9.
Brak-Lamy, G. (2015). Heterosexual seduction in the urban night context: Behaviors and meanings. The Journal of Sex Research, 52(6), 690-699.
BERTOLÍN-GUILLÉN, J. M. (2023). Seduction: Psychology and Psychopathology.
Anolli, L., & Ciceri, R. (2002). Analysis of the vocal profiles of male seduction: from exhibition to self-disclosure. The Journal of general psychology, 129(2), 149-169.

[elysianfields]

Don’t fake, don’t pretend, be authentic, and take care of yourself. That’s a great start.

[anathesunshine]

Quick sum up:

1. Do you feel sexy? (Confidence + self esteem)
2. Don't be afraid (authentic + natural)
3. Get to know them (curious + adapt)
Women - use visual seduction
Men - use verbal seduction
4. Make it clear!
5. Use your voice (voice intonation)
6. Be physical (*if you can*)

Be okay with it not working out~

[Down.D.Staris]

It's embarrassing how fast I clicked

[JoyBoy]

The lowering voice thing, I actually do that a lot when talking to a girl i like. I never realized it was seduction until you pointed it out

[Complex]

Step 1:Start talking to girls (Impossible)

Step 2:Watch this video and follow the step (and Subscribe)

Step 3:Get confident

Step 4:Chicken out

I don't think I can even get past my own step one thats why I'm here

[nightcoreperson]

What a coincidence, I am currently reading a book about the art of seduction.

[kayskreed]

What is seductive to one is creepy to another. It's very subjective.

[Ros_a]

Needed this after being single forever

[davids]

It's way more complicated and perplexing than one can imagine! That's because we humans are so unpredictable and fickle! We don't even understand ourselves sometimes! We need all the help we can get! Good luck and take care!

[MichaelScott-dp]

thanks for this; there's this girl i want to have a life-long (and eternal, because we're both LDS) relationship with. and I'm not physically attractive. Or smart. But I am trying to improve. I didn't know that your mental health can affect your physical health. I'm a healthy person, just very skinny, no muscles (and trust me, I've very earnestly tried to gain some), and various mental diseases; it takes me a loooong time to process things, or i might even process things that don't exist. I love listening to your voice, it reminds me of hers. I love your videos because they make me feel better about myself which is a massive problem for me since (because of getting beat up 16 TIMES) i have struggled with such low self-esteem that I have 4/10 depression.

I found your videos and I started watching them. My doctor said a few months later that I have improved greatly with my depression, and have had no suicidal thoughts since the last visit to him, which was something i didn't really notice.

Overall, I need to watch more video like this. I love your voice, I love your videos and they way that you speak (As it reminds me of her). thanks. thank you so much you don't even know.



Also, could you make a video on how to quit addictions? I'm going to be straight-up honest. I can't see a universe where I admit (or she finds out) that I watch porn. I have been praying, and God has been helping, but ultimately, I need mortal help too. Please can you uh... maybe make video about helping me fill this void of loneliness in myself?

[markmuller]

Rule N.1: Be a high masking neurodivergent with all sort of anxieties and always fail at the second phase of seduction

[Itellpeopleyouareloved]

Guys idk why i even clicked on here..
for anyone who needs this <3


I love your hair
I love your eyes
I love your strength
I love your voice
I love your style
I love your eye lashes
I love your nose
I love your confidence
I love your forehead
I love your hands
I love your shoulders
I love your ears
I love your cheeks
I love your mouth
I love your personality
I love that you are brave
I love that you are kind
I love that you are strong
I love that you are you
I love that you are smart
I love that you are creative
You are beautiful
You are nice
You are confident
You are smart
You are unstoppable
You are perfect
You are unique
You are amazing
You are pretty
I love you when you’re mad
I love you when you’re sad
I love you when you’re happy
I love you when you’re anxious
I love you when you’re embarrassed
I love you when you’re cheerful
I love you when you’re disappointed
I love you when you’re at your lowest
I love you when you’re at your highest
I’m proud of you for eating
I’m proud of you for setting goals
I’m proud of you for getting up
I’m proud of you for learning
I’m proud of you for trying
I’m proud of you for smiling
I’m proud of you for going outside
I’m proud of you for spreading kindness
I’m proud of you for being you
I’m proud of you no matter what
I know you’re insecure but everyone is
I know you’re not happy but your not alone
I know you’re getting bullied but don’t listen to them
I know you’re sad but try to be happy
I know you’re miserable but your still standing
I know you feel hated but you are loved
I know you feel sad but deep down you’re happy
I know you feel disappointed but you are proud
I know you are depressed but smile!!

insecurities are only real because of society, so ask yourself.. “would you be who you are right now if it weren’t for them?” and what would you say? don’t hate yourself, because you are worth the world! everyone is different and that’s a good thing. don’t be insecure, just set goals! be yourself and learn to love who you are <3
Maybe check out my channel?

[Noname-]

Since I'm socially-awkward person, I find this very helpful, especially right now. ❤
Thank you for this Ma'am and to your team! 🙂

[vnomu]

*I DO NOT EXPECT ANYONE TO READ THIS WHOLE THING XD*
I started watching your videos yesterday to try and figure out more about myself. Your videos are amazing, but the more I watch them the more I start spiraling down into the deep dark depths of loneliness. I’m an introvert I think and I don’t want to do anything. I don’t talk to anyone and whenever I make “friends” I end up never talking to them, mostly because I don’t want to. But I want to want to talk to them and I don’t know what to do about that. I also have no extra curricular activities (I’m a sophomore male btw) and am always procrastinating as well. ADHD makes things so much more difficult as I am diagnosed as having an attention deficit and also being hyperactive and impulsive, making addictions super easy. Since Covid I think I developed a video game addiction as well as social anxiety. I’m super self conscious about how I will probably never get friends because I don’t ever feel like talking. I want friends but I don’t talk and I don’t spend time around the friends I already have it’s such a paradox. I have no passions either. I know that’s a good way to make friends is by finding someone that shares the same interests and passions as you, but I don’t wanna come out of my comfort zone to try new things, and being socially anxious makes it so difficult. It’s like I have dreams/goals with no realistic way to achieve them whilst being set back by all of my personality traits and disorders. It’s so frustrating. I also can’t find anyone I can be myself around, I’m always mirroring other people’s personalities to fit in, it’s like I don’t even know if I even have a personality. When I look at how I behave at home and with the people I am comfortable around, it is truly heartbreaking to me. I am always doing things behind other’s backs, breaking trust is so common with me, I’m never helping people around the house unless I’m forced to, I always have people do things for me because I dont feel like doing it, and oh my god lying is the worst of habits I do it all the time. I even ask people to name three good things about me and it usually goes like: “you’re smart…” and that pause lasts for like 20 seconds and it just proves to me how bad of a person I actually am. I wonder if I have been given all of these social problems because I don’t deserve friends. When I look in the mirror I wonder why I exist. I’m always thinking about me before anyone else. Whenever I do something nice, 99% of the time it’s because I don’t want to look bad to others. Another thing is that people in my class I sit next to might use me because I might be smarter than them and understand the lessons and subjects better than they do, so the just ask me for the answers and I accept because I don’t want to be mean, but I don’t want to make them upset because that will make me dislike myself. I’m also seeking a romantic relationship (again, with no realistic way to find one) and have already read and watched things to have a good one. Every time I think about it it makes me feel so lonely. Another thing that I’m worried about is that my sense of humor SUCKS. I never laugh at what people say, so I fake laugh to fit in. Also when people are being sarcastic I usually don’t get it unless they use a sarcastic tone of voice or use some sort of obvious indicator that they are being sarcastic. It always makes feel stupid when people say I’m joking because it seems obvious afterwards that “of course they were joking I’m so stupid.” I’m also super sensitive and whenever people make some sort of negative remark about me that might even be obvious teasing or a joke I take it so personally and I can’t help it. It decreases my social status and I hate it. I also can’t talk to girls. I mean seriously can’t. Whenever I do, I try to be a funny guy, or try to be the sort of “I don’t care” kind of personality. It’s like I was specifically designed not to have friends or have a social life. After school I will go home and take a nap almost every day not because I’m tired but because I don’t fucking know what to do. I might just go masturbate or watch porn or videos and I feel like I’m wasting away. I don’t know what to do with my life anymore. I’m just so fucking lost.

[Notmrcyplayz]

So I clicked off geometry dash for seductive I lost my level right now and I forgot to save but this tip will help in the future

[andris]

Being seductive is so easy when they already like you and especially when you're already in relationships (even if it's long distance), but with friends or strangers it can be so hard and awkward...

[randomperson]

Uhhh what... I subbed for mental health.. Never expected this.

[neofulcrum]

I don’t know how people flirt so effortlessly and prevail

[nerducolney]

Been following your channel for 3 years... always found it helpful...thanks ❤

[Sharkcantpoop-]

Omg!! I love her voice it’s sooo charming ⭐️