7 Basic Etiquette Rules Most of Us Keep Breaking

Do you have good manners? They are as diverse as the people who show them. There are numerous etiquette rules, and many are only applicable in certain countries. Thus, Eskimo people rub noses when they greet each other, the Japanese always take their shoes off before entering a house, and Thai citizens will never show their shoe soles — it’s considered inappropriate.

Nevertheless, there are some etiquette rules that should be followed no matter which nationality you are or where you live. For example, you shouldn't bring your pets (mostly dogs) with you everywhere you go. Other people won't enjoy your big clumsy dog. A small barking dog won't make them happy either. The same goes for when you're invited to a house party. Always ask if you can take your dog with you. Unfortunately, some of these important rules are frequently disregarded nowadays, so if you wanna learn more about them, watch the video!

TIMESTAMPS:
Carrying bags 1:05
Showing respect at the gym 2:22
Behaving in public places 3:42
Dealing with invitations 5:09
Table manners 6:28
Dressing up for an occasion 7:50
Being a people person 8:59

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SUMMARY:
- Don't place your bag on the table or the floor next to you in a restaurant. Either hang it on your chair or a hook. You can sometimes find the latter on the side of or directly underneath the table.
- If you're late to a group exercise class, don't barge your way through everyone toward your favorite spot. It's your fault that you’re late, so just take whatever space is available, and don't block the equipment.
- After you’ve finished with weight machines, reset them to the minimum weight. This way, the next person who uses them won't injure themselves if they start doing exercises without looking.
- There are 3 types of people in this world: those who arrive early, those who arrive on time, and those who arrive late. If you aren't the first type, you'll inevitably have to pass in front of people at the theatre, at the movies, in a concert hall, or in any other place that is equipped with seats. The only right way to do it is by facing the other people and not turning your back toward them.
- If an invitation says “Regrets only,” you should only respond if you’re sure that you will NOT attend. Otherwise, the host will count on you being there.
- “RSVP” (“respondez s'il vous plait,” which is French for “please respond”) means that you must write or call the host to confirm your presence at their event. You should do this within the requested period of time.
- If you aren't sure which fork you should use for each dish, start with the one farthest from your plate. Then work your way toward your plate.
- If you're in a small group of up to 4 people in a restaurant, wait until everyone has been served before you start to eat. If it's a business or formal meal, you can begin when the host asks you to do so.
- Casual Attire — This can be anything from a T-shirt and jeans to a pair of shorts and a blouse. It's a good idea to find out if you're going to be inside or outside. You can also ask others what they’re going to wear.
- In most companies, Casual Friday means that you can swap your pants or skirt for a pair of jeans and leave your tie at home.
- Business Casual — Being neat is the answer here. Ditch clothing that is too tight or oversized. Just be stylish!
- Formal Business — This is perfect for professionals who want to always look dashing and are aiming to climb the career ladder. A suit and dark dress shoes for men, and pumps, a skirt, and a blazer for women.
- When standing in line at a coffee shop, don't talk on the phone. Especially when the barista has already started asking you questions. It's impolite to make everyone wait and listen to your conversation.

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[BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL]

Hey guys! What bad manners annoy you the most in public places?

[rocketmom]

If you are with someone in a restaurant, talk to that person. Don't play games on the phone or text someone who is not there.  Also, if you are getting on an elevator, wait until the people getting off actually get off so they don't have to push past you to exit. And when you go through a doorway, actually go through it. Don't stop in the doorway to speak to someone or to look around to determine which direction to go.

[barbarastepien-foad]

A handbag left dangling from the back of your chair is easily stolen....

[robyn]

People should not send siblings to other kids birthday parties when only one was invited. Especially if it's an all girl party and they send the brother also.

[bitsynamy]

The Golden Rule = Treat others the way you want to be treated.

[elainemcginn]

Whenever going to someone's dwelling..I always bring 'something', flowers, wine, dessert, etc. Thank you..xo

[deannaholcomb]

When your in a public place, Walmart, grocery store, pharmacy, etc.., don't block the whole isle with friends/family you see in the store and talk on and on while blocking the isle way.

[rainingstars]

My biggest “Pet Peeve” when it comes to inviting people to parties (Dinner or otherwise) is when someone you’ve invited brings along other people, who you don’t even know, without asking if it’s alright to bring these people to the event. 😡

When my Ex and I were still married, and he owned his Hotel Furniture Liqudating business, we’d have a Company/Family Christmas Party, (usually, at least 50 people) every year, out at our home. It never failed, the wife of one of my Ex’s Employees would always bring someone to these parties that neither my Ex, nor I knew, without calling to ask if it was alright, before she just showed up, with them! How rude! 😡. I kept asking her to call if she wanted to bring a stranger, into my home. After the second time, of her still not calling, I simply stopped inviting her and her husband, to these parties. 😔

[lovesongsexypie]

Clean up after your dog & dont leave their poop on the grass for someone to step in

[sermbaable]

I find it rude when someone watches a show on their phone in public without using a pair of headphones or earbuds 🙄

[sherriab-]

When a person open a door for you, please respond "thank you".

[janl]

Thank you so much for your comment on bringing your dog. I could never understand why people must bring their dogs to fine dining restaurants. They are meant for people not dogs...

[maroulio]

Give up a bus seat to an elderly person or pregnant woman if there is no seat available. This if you are able-bodied and younger.

[Rinza]

Carrying your lady’s bag for a while if she needs you to, is NOT weird.
Everyone knows you are doing it for her, even if she is not right next to you.
Why would you not help her if she needs it? For example, when she goes to a public toilet?
If people judge me for that, they are the weird ones for me.

[shyfillie]

A simple "please & thank you" goes a long way.
Smile it will make someone's day.
Genuine commplements & kindness.

[cdadam]

When driving, and somebody allows you to get in front of them, thank them with the wave sign!!!

[ginagonzalez]

Even though we are in the 21 St century, it's nice to give yo your seat to a disable, elderly or pregnant woman in public places no matter how tired a person may be. I'm an elderly person with health issues, but it aggravates me to no end when I see young and even any age men sitting down looking or pretending to be asleep and not give up their seats. Most of the time, I had to get up and give up my seat. They look at me as though it was my duty and not theirs. By the way, I'm a woman.

[gailarneman]

Just taking other people into consideration is the best rule of thumb. Always works for me!

[MM-jnom]

People talking loudly on the phone. No one wants to know your business and will NOT think you are cool or hip.

[lauramillard]

Drives me nuts when someone who is incessantly texting has not turned off their phone keyboard sound.