3 Tricks to Regain a Woman's Respect & Attraction After Showing Neediness

In this I explain how to get a woman to respect you again and feel attraction toward you again, even if you acted needy, weak, or low value.

[00:38] The first tip to regain control is rationing time and attention. Bobby Rio explains how the person with higher status tends to undervalue the other person's time, leading to them being taken for granted.

[01:23] Bobby Rio provides an example of a friend who constantly accommodated his girlfriend's schedule, indicating that she had more control over their time. He emphasizes the importance of applying scarcity to one's time and highlights the fear of not being able to see the other person for an extended period of time if they are unavailable.

[02:42] Introducing time constraints is suggested as a way to ration time and create scarcity. Bobby Rio discusses the common scenario of canceling plans to spend time with someone we're interested in, leading to the other person taking our flexibility for granted.

[03:11] Bobby Rio recommends setting limits on plans and phone conversations, giving brief reasons for the time constraint. He explains the importance of having activities that make the constraints plausible and making the other person value your time.

[03:48] The speaker discusses the importance of time constraint in dating, emphasizing the value of one's time and the need to create a sense of competition. He suggests waiting to respond to calls or texts from a girl to show that you have other priorities and are not readily available.

[04:28] Bobby Rio shares a strategy for controlling the timing of communication with someone you're interested in. The strategy involves waiting until right before bed to text them, mentioning that you saw their call and will contact them the next day.

[04:58] Delaying your response to a girl's calls and texts is discussed as a tactic to make her think about you more and potentially fall for you. Bobby Rio also suggests asking the girl for a favor, which is considered counterintuitive but powerful.

[05:29] Asking a girl for a favor instead of doing favors for her is explained as a subtle but powerful tip for attracting her. Bobby Rio discusses the psychology behind it, stating that while doing favors for her may repel her, getting her to do a favor for you will attract her due to the principle of effort justification.

[06:02] The principle of effort justification is explained, stating that the more effort we put into something, the more invested we become. Bobby Rio recommends reversing the dynamic by asking the woman to do favors for the man instead.

[06:37] Reversing traditional gender roles in relationships is suggested as a way to show dominance and make the woman feel more invested. Bobby Rio discusses the concept of asking a woman for favors.

[07:02] Asking a girl to do a favor when she's pulling away can make her feel more invested in the relationship and justify her actions. Bobby Rio mentions that people feel good when they help others, and asking her to do a favor gives her the opportunity to take care of you.

[07:41] Tips on how to ask someone for a favor are provided, emphasizing the importance of making it something that requires effort and time. Bobby Rio advises mirroring the other person's behavior and not confronting or breaking up with them.

[08:16] Bobby Rio advises not to confront or break up with someone who is pulling away, but instead suggests pulling back a little bit to make it seem like a genuine loss of interest. He emphasizes the importance of not appearing upset or reacting to the behavior, and not rewarding bad behavior.

[08:38] Not rewarding bad behavior when a girl goes cold is advised, as it makes her lose respect. Bobby Rio suggests making slight changes to make her feel like her charm is wearing off, which compels her to try harder to impress you again.

[09:20] To maintain a woman's attraction, it is important to appear less enchanted with her and to create a sense of mystery. Bobby Rio suggests subtle actions such as being less enthusiastic, less certain, changing the subject, and occasionally disagreeing with her.

[10:10] Not explaining oneself and maintaining a calm and positive demeanor is emphasized. Bobby Rio advises against revealing negative feelings to a partner and leaving them to wonder about the reasons behind any change in behavior.

[10:32] Subtle gestures are recommended to regain power in a relationship, rather than relying on grand gestures. Bobby Rio mentions a video about common mistakes men make when a girl pulls away.

[11:06] Applying dating techniques early on in a relationship is advised. Bobby Rio suggests using techniques such as getting the person to do something for you and controlling the timing of dates.

If you want to read a full article on regaining the upper hand and reigniting a girl's attraction read this:

[rrwa]

With 183, 000 views, it seems very evident that we as men have to do a lot of the calculating, planning and work to enjoy the these creatures called women.

[mrreddington]

If a woman is pulling away then be a gentleman and open the door for her to leave.

[paaruxd]

The only way to make her respect you is be willing to walk away at moment of the time

Raise up kings 👑

[carpe]

I walked away from a woman yesterday who I gently confronted about her lack of effort in the relationship a week ago ( had been going on for about 6 weeks where she virtually stopped initiating in communications, stopped asking me questions and generally taking me for granted ) When I confronted her she wasnt upset per se but blew it off, never sought to talk about the situation nor apologize for any of her behavior, so I walked away.

[johnsadventures]

IF she can't see the value you have she's not worth having. If she won't put some effort Into the relationship she's not worth having.If she won't compromise on things with you and always wants her way she's not worth having .Don't Waste your time on girls like this. Don't play games with her.

[SHINOBHS]

Pay much attention to a woman and watch her leave. It doesn't matter even if you are the most handsome man, she'll walk after she sees you have a weak mentality.

[TumusiimeAmon]

You taught me No contact rule...Bobby your real lecturer.

[raymondfranklin]

Oh my God, this explains a lot…my ex never respected my time, always took my time for granted…

[lookfeelbehealthy]

I feel like I'm losing my girl, so I'll do these things!

[tibormezey]

Really appreciateiate the advice- the timing could not have been more perfect

[dv]

Man your videos are like gold. I’ve got a friends with benefits girl I’m dealing with now that I’m wanting to take it to the next step into a relationship. An I’m fixing to flip the power right out of her hands. Thanks for the video.

[gmcg]

Good timing bc I needed this rn, wish I had known to do this back in April n may w this other girl I was really into

[sbification]

Should have given your friend a fourth opinion. Toss the undeserving, negative woman out with the trash when she tells you she isn’t attracted to you anymore. Stop adapting to a women’s nonsense when it’s clearly nonsense, stand confident in your masculinity, and start letting modern woman know when they cross your boundaries and that you are just as well off alone than with her negativity lingering around.

[francois-xaviermenage]

Thks! My issue is a bit more complicated .. because that woman was not the only one to lose respect ; alot of people misunderstood my behavior ; I was said to be a jerk by some people, a kid by some others ; I took the time to be an adult by asking for a talk with all the people involved in that mess.. and my offer was rejected..! I tried a lot of other things and it was still my fault .. or too late for discussing about the issue who made anyone uncomfortable.. ! I had to cut the bridge with some of my family members for leaving toxicity and brain washing away from me!

[MrPaapz]

Where was this when it wouldve helped me 1-2 months ago haha but love it! She got a head start but now I am coming back ;)

[talldave]

Definitely valuable advice Bobby. You nailed it again

[troooooper]

you can do everything right, be everything right... but when it's not meant to be it wont happen

[bbeeez]

“If he had time to text why didn’t he just call?” Well MY mind doesn’t spin bc I know that sometimes I just don’t wanna call and I take it for what it is and go to bed or work on my own stuff and if I think of the guy I focus on the stuff I like NOT wondering and letting my mind spin. Not everyone is insecure.

[BlancGivre]

If sheconsistently doesnt have time for you, dump her.

[musicismysuicide]

Could the next video perhaps be continuation for this one giving advice what to do when you have been wayyy too needy/nice and already gotten "the speech"? I think that could be quite a popular one 😅