NLP Techniques: How to Stop Seeking Validation From Others

NLP Techniques: How to stop Seeking Validation From Others // How to avoid seeking validation from others? Are you seeking validation in relationships or suffer from external validation addiction? In this video I teach some NLP techniques that will help you overcome seeking external validation self esteem so that you can learn how to stop seeking validation from others. NLP techniques or neuro linguistic programming techniques are powerful tools that help you create the life that you want.

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Damon Cart
Coach and Teacher
Santa Cruz, CA

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NLP Techniques: How to stop Seeking Validation From Others

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[DamonCart]

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[PaulOuzounov]

Love the video, I am reminded of what I tell my guitar students, that they shouldn't consider music hard to learn, that they should always consider it a new challenge and to look upon it with fresh, curious eyes. Works really well and my turnover is great but I am still having a lot of trouble getting more students. Thanks for the reminders Damon.

[Sirach-pvxv]

Nice nature shot Damon. Love the content. you really give someone everything they need to get started in NLP. Loving the vids, well done 👍

[coupecruiser]

Thank you so much for this. I have issues with validation even though I’m a coach and I found this extremely useful. Once again thank you.

[ivelinavelikova]

I can't stop watching your videos! Thank you for all the info. I'm inspired!

[akikohigashi]

1. An awesome background!
2. So many great nuggets in the video! I had some ah-ha moments while listening to you. One of them was re-realization of how important Value Elicitation is. I’ve been trying to figure out why one of the transformations wasn’t sticking. So this morning I decided to do a Value Elicitation around this quality/word. I didn’t think to do this before cuz it’s such a simple word, so the definition of this quality seemed obvious. But oh man, once I finished V.E. and got clear about what “I” needed to see, be, do to be this quality for “me”, the transformation work from before totally and instantly sank in and I felt so Q! I didn’t realize without this clarity, my locus of control was still outside, hence transformation didn’t really feel solid. Mind blown how a simple thing like this can trip up the whole thing!!🤯🤩✨ More examples flooded in too as the locus of control shifted to internal!


A similar thing happened during Nate’s call week6 last night while tuning up my sure quality as well. As soon as I transformed my biggest CE with newly added resources, a huge realization hit me that I can decide when to be Q and when not to be using those new resources. And me not being this Q 24/7 has nothing to do if I'm Q or not. It is logically obvious but to actually feel this realization in my body was really empowering (Speaking of locus of control, this was an awesome personal win moment)! Ok, my comment got long, but wanted to say, Self-Concept is pretty amazing!!

[annemariepyke]

Hi thankyou so much. So many lightbulb moments. I struggle with the constant need to please others

[annep]

Yet another valuable video. Thanks so much Damon for all the insightful moments.

[papakmotivations]

Very valuable concept. Well explained too. Two thumbs for you, Coach!

[dzihanahajdarpasicmisirlic]

great video...it is so natural to feel down when rejected for job, fired etc.... at least the first reaction is hurt... but then through work on the matter, we will move the locus of control back to us... :)

[belovebeyou]

Thank you for sharing this excellent knowledge.

[mr.truththerealdeal]

"It's Better To Have GOD Approve, Than The World Applaud...."

[adrianagNeuroFit]

By the way... What are the steps to get certified in the self concept model...😃😃

[HansSchmidtUnfoldingStone]

Splitting wood is such good exercise! I miss it.

[moun_man]

Finnally a guy's video on the topic

[dannicolescu]

Great content! P. S. Listening în România 💪

[lesliesurette]

what are the NLP techniques listed in the this video? I missed them somehow.

[timidjawa]

3:34 "It has nothing to do with being good enough or worthy enough".

I understand that, yet, to my psyche, not having a positive feedback (or validation) from someone that I fancy means that I am not good or worthy enough for that particular person.

I don't know wether it's a result of poor parenting job or just my ego, but it's killing me sometimes. I really wish I could handle the emotional turmoil. Consciously, I realize what I'm experiencing in real time, but it doesn't help, so I just succumb under it. Damn.

[chart]

I may be interested in the self concept model certification.

[adrianagNeuroFit]

@Damon.. did you chopped all that wood??😉🤣🤪🤣🤣😁😁