Safety Guide for FemBoys

I created this safety guide for femboys. Instead of making a makeup guide, or a fashion guide. I wanted to make tips for femboys such as how to be safe for femboys. I go over tips such as how to be a femboy in public.

I know femboys like fishing. I have a femboy discord about aesthetics such as skirts and thigh-high combos. y'all like femboy tiktok? I was thinking of making a femboy makeup guide in the future.

Anyways, besides making these stuff for the algorithm. I really hope you all enjoy the advice I give. I know this video isn't really the greatest for entertainment wise, but I really didn't like hearing toxic situations that femboys go through. I wanted to create this guide to make sure everyone is safe for both online and in person. Thank you for watching.

[palntyboi]

NEVER trust anybody who says your mature for your age.

[onemirrionyen]

The idea of "copy-cat" behavior and someone following you with the intent to harm just because of your clothes or way you present yourself is a very scary reality.

[OrangeandGreenSoda]

Most femboy discord servers I've been in are either oversexualized or under moderated, but your server is legit the safest place I've ever seen.

[Muhluri]

I’m not a femboy but this is very informative.

Also, I totally agree on not posting yourself online. I’ve only posted 2 photos of myself on social media before I turned 18. Being anonymous made my life so much better

[nicholastorres]

Thanks you Zen! This means alot. Being an older femboy. I worry about my fellow younger femboys and you doing this makes me feel more comfortable and I hope this leads to a safer world for us femboys. Let's all work together towards that goal

[Darkseptor]

Couldn't agree more!
Even as an adult, I've run into some scary situations with random people online, So I can't even imagine what it's like for younger femboys
For anyone who does femboy related stuff, please listen to Zen in this video, it will genuinely help you.

The internet is a very dark and scary place. Trust me

[kingdomofmacedonia]

I'm not femboy and still find this video useful

[the_weezman]

This is the first time I've seen this since I've been busy with tech training, and I am both humbled and was shocked hearing my screen name. I appreciate you spreading awareness of the dangers of being openly queer. While it's much more accepted now there are still garbage people. Just remember to always be safe which includes: having a plan, going with someone, going somewhere safe, and never breaking the four rules of stupid. When you think about it you plan stuff without realizing. You're out and suddenly you think, "I want to go to the gas station.", but a way of expanding on that to be safer is, "I'm going to go to the gas station on the nicer side of town that's more public, and I'm getting two things and leaving as quick as I can." While it's best to not live in paranoia that everyone's out to get you, 99% of people don't care, it's always good to keep your surroundings in the front of your mind rather than the back.

[nick]

HI ZEN
Edit: after watching, i gotta thank you for covering this, probably a lot of people needed it
Ps: thanks for the heart

[ZenBooda]

I wanted to make this video since I'm pretty tired of hearing a bunch of nasty stuff from different kinds of communities. I'm aware of how large the NSFW scene is for femboys, and I really wanted to create a safe space for femboys. I can't do this by myself, I hope the information from both me and our community has provided will help you all out in some way. I cannot do this alone, I hope you spread this information you learned to your friends, or even to different folks in the femboy community. All I wanted is a safe space for femboys to interact, and this is just the start. I need everyone's help on doing this. Thank you all for watching and reading this comment. It means a lot to me. Also, here's a link to text format if that's easier to go through.

Another thing I forgot to say. Don't forget to have fun while doing femboy stuff. What's the point of doing femboy stuff if you're not having fun. I wanted this information for you all to be aware of, and once you recognize the signs, you can do respond properly.

[KiritoSlayer]

This is solid advice, honestly for any younger people on the internet this is useful for safety not just femboys. People don't realize how much risk is around online even in what people consider safe environments, while its easy for most of us to write them off because, well, "it's never happened to me before" but that just doesn't mean its not going to eventually.

[gorkipork]

This isn't just for Femboys. Same goes for every individual (edited due to not thinking when writing)

[Jaixaa]

its scary how these are prominent issues in a community that was always supposed to be about being who you are

[GreenBoyMusicOfficial]

Incredible guide as always, I really appreciate all that you do to keep us informed and safe!

[Skibedidi]

This guide really explains how to be safe in general so eeven if you are not a femboy I would still follow this guide, Ty zen for keeping us safe ❤

[AnEnigmaOnYoutube]

Ah, what a nice day to not have an image of me online. While there are a few videos of me on Facebook, not only do I not live in that house anymore, but I don't live in that city anymore either. I also don't look like that nowadays, those videos are from years ago. And my environment is definitely safe, pretty much the entire state outside of maybe a few places in the capital is LGBTQ+ friendly. And I don't live in the capital.

[luis]

It's a shame that the supreme court is actively trying to regress lgbt rights we spent so many decades trying to achieve. Will it take another 50 years for being anything but straight to normalize? I hope not.

[lli_wlf]

As someone who’s quite knowledgeable in the self defense, I wanna add a few things to that. Self defense is quite the slippery topic especially after you harm or kill someone in the act of, especially while using a firearm.


Be Cautious:
The best rule of thumb is again what was said in the video to pay attention to you surroundings, try your best to avoid putting yourself where you can be vulnerable. This could be going away from more public places and going out at night alone. Stay with people, stay in groups, numbers are powerful.


The Attack:

Hand to hand: If someone does attack you the best places to hit someone would be neck, eyes, and of course balls.

Sharp weapons: Hit the same places with a knife or any sharp object, and go for any part of the body that’s soft as well.

Blunt weapons: With a blunt object such as a brick, rock, stick, etc. aim for the temple which is an indent in the front of the skull around the sides of the eyes.

Mace and flashlights: Pepper spray, aim for the face. Same for a flashlight, if you do use a flashlight get a one with a strobe mode to disorient the attacker. Also don’t go too cheap on your mace, get any that police use or are well known for being effective.

Tasers: Direct contact or deployable tasers are used by most police and security personnel. With a direct contact, make sure to hit anywhere that has exposed skin or least amount of clothing, so it can be the most effective. Same for a deplorable of, but make sure you practice shooting with it before hand. If not possible, here’s a quick tutorial. Make sure safety is off, two hands hold the grip firmly, aim center mass (the torso), squeeze the trigger to fire. Don’t go cheap with your taser, get ones that are we’ll known for being effective, like ones that again are used by most police and security.


Guns:
Firearms are the a double edged sword. They can protect you, depending on how you use it, it can land you in prison. Know your laws, get insurance, get a GOOD lawyer.

Before Using a Firearm:
Depending on where you live will depend on how a self defense situation is handled, study up on those laws and learn your rights. Most importantly get training with you firearm, you must be proficient at shooting and know your gun inside and out. If you don’t have the time, here’s a quick overview of how to take someone down with a gun. I won’t go over the manual of arms because of how many that exist, but I do advise you to do your research and get familiar with the many different types of firearms.

Identify the Threat:
Now for the important part, once you’ve pulled out a firearm you must be sure the attacker is actively trying to harm you, in court they will try and use everything against you to put you in jail, so if someone is just following you, just saying violent/weird things, or just generally acting suspiciously, but are not actively threatening you or putting in danger don’t pull out your firearm. If the attacker charges at you, gets really close, get more violent and aggressive with their words and movements, or you got in a corner/feel as if you can’t escape that’s when you can pull it out.

Warning:
Scream as loud as you can to tell them to get back and that you will fire on them if they don’t do so, in court this will help you because you gave a clear warning to stay away and that you felt threatened, but you gave them the chance to back off. If the attacker begins to run away, a court could decide that you shootings him counts as assault, but if the attacker pushes on despite you pulling out a gun you have the right to shoot.

20 Foot Rule:
Try to keep a 20 foot distance from your attacker, this rule is used by most police officers to keep their officers safe, because a suspect can easily run up to you and stab or hurt you in any other way once they close that distance, 20 feet allows you enough time to decide what to do, pull out your weapon, and use it effectively.

Handling your Firearm:
Keep two hands on the gun and hold the grip firmly, squeeze the trigger and aim for the head, torso, crotch, and thighs.
-If they are close enough or your confident in your aim, headshots are the most lethal and will take your target down almost immediately.
-Torso is the place where I recommend most beginners and even professional shooters to aim for since that’s where the most vitals are and it’s a very easy area to hit, whatever you do keep shooting at the torso, they won’t go down immediately especially if adrenaline or a drug is going through their veins.
-If you aim for where the bladder is around the attacker will go down almost immediately if you hit the right spot, if you wanna know why this is I suggest you do more research because I don’t exactly remember why, but I know I’ve seen enough body cam footage to say it works, they will fold.
-Thighs I say to shoot because there the bullet can either immobilize or limit the attacker’s ability to run at you and will cause them to bleed out in a matter of minutes since the thighs are where many critical arteries are located. So if you shoot the thighs and the attacker does get to you they’ll eventually pass out from the blood loss to keep attacking you, but make sure you don’t ever give up fighting until the attacker or attackers are all down. I don’t suggest that you focus on the thighs tho since you have a less likely chance to actually stop them from attacking you right away, so focus your shots on torso and head for the most part


Aftermath:
After you take down the attacker or get away to a safe place immediately call the police and report the incident, tell them where you are and wait till they arrive. If they do take you into custody, DONT TELL THEM ANYTHING. I repeat, DONT TELL THEM ANYTHING, POLICE ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS AND THEY WILL TRY TO ARREST YOU AND GET YOU IN PRISON, ask for a lawyer, ask for your phone call because that is your right to get one. Only speak once you have a lawyer present because if you don’t you might say something that they will use against you to incriminate you! Self defense isn’t just about the attack, it’s also the aftermath that you need to face. Stay safe out there, stay armed, get training, and most importantly do your research, knowledge is half the battle.

Edit: made the wall more readable and added some other forms of self defense such as tasers

[DuckTheWhat]

I really appreciate you for doing this. Living in a homophobic town has made me feel alone and unsafe to be in. It's nice knowing there are people out there who care about our safety. Thank you.

Edit: I am trans now, but I still appreciate what you do :>. People like you have helped me come to terms with myself and learn about who I am.

[Merulanon]

I wish I had seen this when I was 15, I was groomed at around that age because of my feminine appearance.