8 Psychology Tricks That Make People Obsessed With You

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In today’s video you’ll learn 8 habits that make people love being around you.

With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Pedro Pascal.

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0:00 - Intro
0:07 - #1: Endearing embarrassment
0:59 - #2: Play laugh tag
1:54 - #3: Speak in hyperbole
2:40 - #4: The fake narcissist joke
3:47 - #5: Say this out loud
4:10 - #6: Pass the conversational spotlight
5:01 - #7: Use a hook that builds curiousity
5:54 - #8: Use go to stories

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[megagigachad]

I think it just comes down to "everyone loves being around happy people" and happiness comes from not taking yourself too seriously

[heyjustj]

Years ago I realized how often I thought positive things about people but NEVER spoke them. I later made the New Year’s resolution to “never withhold a compliment”. If I thought something positive about anyone be it a stranger or someone I knew I would approach them, text them, whatever and tell them the compliment. It made a HUGE difference in my own life and hope in the lives of others.

[sweetcarlina]

This video should be named “Why everyone loves and is obsessed with Pedro Pascal” 😂❤

[farrahrasburn]

I feel like there’s a subtle line between laughing at yourself and humiliating yourself in terms of comedy. A lot of humor has gone into joking “how fragile my mental health is”, which can be coping, but long-term can actually be self-berating. Pedro laughing at himself is still a self-recognition & acknowledgement that he’s funny (which he naturally is!) He hasn’t put himself down, which might also contribute to him being such a happy person.

[Heironeous]

I've got PTSD and one of the big reasons I watch this channel is to help with that interpersonal issue. Sometimes I watch a video like this and go "Huh. I've been doing something right" and it perks up my day. Thanks again!

[vasilikidimitrakopoulos]

I feel like people are drawn to an individual who's genuinely charming, not the superficial kind. Someome who has a wicked sense of humour/wit, empathy, and treats others really well. Just an all round positive, interesting kind of vibe. People love that. Confidence is huge too.

[gumonthepants]

I always laugh at myself first, when somebody’s teasing me in public. It’s an interesting phenomenon that happens to me. I feel like I split from the personality that they’re making fun of, and I join their group and laugh together with them about that aspect of me as a separate entity. It really does work in making people like you a LOT.

[nope]

One of my mottos is, "if you have something nice to say, say it!"
It's amazing how many people who you think are incredibly cool don't believe that about themselves. Everytime I tell someone something nice that I think is obvious and wouldn't mean anything from me, they're very flattered and touched.

[arthurpendragonsyt]

Watching this reminds me of the last time I tried a narcissist joke but it fell apart in the dumbest way possible. I was with a group of friends and were discussing about sorting out something. I gave a pretty good suggestion and everyone was like "whoa" and one was like damn that's clever. I wanted to go like something like "Yes, of course, I'm smart" along that line. But what came out instead was..."Ha! ...*mind went blank and couldn't form the words I wanted to say* Me...smarts!" I caught myself after saying it so my face was like WTF. Everyone's reaction was like wot before laughing their asses off. A friend remarked "Man...I was looking at you in a moment of awe then you turned into a bloody caveman."

[MajorasMaskMailman]

This is one of the best charisma breakdowns in a long time

[smiley-]

The man also has the brightest smile which is so contagious. Love him! Excited to see more of his career.

[raj]

This guy spend so much time to read people actions. I really like all his videos.

[hodeneofficial]

Endearing embarrassment- laugh at myself first

Play laugh tag - touch people when laughing together; calibrate it

Speak in hyperbole - exaggerate

Fake narcissist joke - go over the top after I establish myself as someone that lifts other up

Pass the conversational spot - bounce back the question after I answer

Use a huck that bring in curiosity - surprise positive turn; i dont know if I should share this

[nathanherren]

The main reason people love Pedro is that he’s wildly successful and famous at the moment. The same thing happened to Robert Downy Junior a few years back. Sure they have social skills, but the success puts everything they say/do on an amazing pedestal that’s hard to replicate if you’re not at that point.

[Tespri]

This whole channel can be summarized:
Have sense of humor, be interested in other people and be kind toward others. Simply put... be a good person without ego issues.

[betterchapter]

Confidence is like Show up in every single moment like you’re meant to be there.

[cutzymccall]

Humor is the great healer and people-connector. Smiling a lot works, too. Smiles are welcoming. When you see people you know, light up and that will light them up, too. When I see my friends I immediately want to let them know I’m thrilled to see them.

[dwoisbrown]

I love the impact you've had with people who struggle with the ever shifting nuanced( be it setting, personal dynamic or merely timing) of sociological interaction! I subconsciously abide by a whole lot of these techniques and I still have aspects I can learn. Seeing how others utilize similar communication tactics as well as what they are called makes me aware that I as skilled as I am I still can benefits and progress. Inarguably, if you practice what this channel is informing you of without being overbearing, you will be just grand!
Post Script, A piece of my own advice would be to never try too hard. It can come off as desperate or try-hard(whether it be romantically or to a random person/friend. Do your best to enjoy these interaction in order to HAVE FUN!! That's the end result and objective. If you read my whole diatribe, thanks sooo much and you got this ❤🎉
Practice, learn, repeat.
Post Post script people are complicated and bizarre but not nearly as much as people think. ❤
Good luck, you got this!

[catenystrom]

He laughs a lot, but there's a complexity to him...and also he's just so damn nice to look at.

[naturalsapphire]

I fall in love with Pedro Pascal for his personality (from what i saw from tiktok edits and vids from youtube) then i watch almost everything he's in it now just to see him speaking or simply breathing.