7 Things Women Believe Will Attract Men

In today's video, I'm going to be talking about the 7 things women believe will attract men.

Now, before you get all defensive and think that you're one of a kind, hear me out. There are a lot of women out there who believe these things, and unfortunately, they've been taught them by society and by the men in their lives. So if you're wondering why you're not getting dates or if you're not getting the men you want, it's likely because you're believing some of the wrong things about men.

While these behaviors may sometimes be true, they certainly aren't the only things that will attract a man. There are many other things that matter when it comes to finding the right person to spend your life with. So if you're looking to attract a man, focus on things that are truly important to you rather than things you think might make him interested. Thanks for watching!

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[sarahdawnmoore]

Comment below with the most impactful or controversial takeaway you heard.

[deanmccormick]

I especially agree with two of your points:
1. A light touch on makeup is best. And none is better than too much.
2. When my wife and we're first dating ( as mature adults, not youngsters), she didn't race into bed, but did clearly indicate that she was interested in me. And it worked for us. Our relationship deepened in a relatively relaxed manner and pace. Drama and hard-to-get would probably have led me to keep looking.

[PanamanianMan]

Too much makeup is a big no-no for us. Plastic surgery should only be used when absolutely necessary. Personality and body count both matter equally. We don't want any drama in our lives. If you want drama, go out with Chad or Tyrone, not with us.

[BullishBananaTrader]

The problem with women, we can tell them EXACTLY what is attractive to us and they still won't believe us

[Fishmorph]

A lot of these are based on the same impulse: we are looking for honest and communicative feedback. If she doesn’t look interested, we will take that as lack of interest. If she talks about how she doesn’t like men, we’ll take it that she doesn’t like us. If she always says yes, or always says no, it’s just game-playing.

Too much dating advice given to women resembles the advice that one pigeon might give another pigeon on how to get someone at the park bench to throw popcorn. It’s magical, manipulative thinking. It’s “if I pretend to do this, and then turn that way, and dance over here, I can *make* him throw the popcorn!” No, no, no. The goal isn’t to manipulate a man into acting the way *you* choose. The goal should be to offer the man the opportunity to act the way you *both* want him to.

[ericswanson]

I had an ex compare me to her exes on every date we went on. after the third date I told her I was done because she would not stop comparing me to her exes.

[impudentdomain]

As a man I found every thing you said rings true. As for the last one. Women should understand that we might like a girl who shares some of out preferences like for instance liking the same types of movies. But we don't necessarily want you involved in our hobbies. I do a lot of hobbies with other guys. My wife does not like to do those things. That is perfectly fine since I like to have some time away from the home and just hanging with my male friends. And she does things with her women friends that I would not like to do .

[BryJamie]

We do care about your appearance. The point is your face with make up isn’t your appearance. It’s a fake appearance and we like to appreciate natural beauty not fake beauty.

[RickC]

Love how you put the main things out there
The main one is seeing how someone handles themselves in pressure situations and make change of plans without too much drama❤

[johncooley]

This is my favorite of your videos! I have never been interested in a woman who tries too hard or doesn't try at all. I appreciate that a good chunk of this video was about finding a middle ground. I have also always been over games. Even in high school, I was already over them. Lastly... sweatpants, glasses, and bun... GORGEOUS!!!

[MrBlackjack]

"Navigating the Dating Maze: 7 Behaviors Women Should Avoid"

**Summary:**
In this insightful video, Sarah Dawn addresses common misconceptions and behaviors that women often adopt, mistakenly thinking they will attract men. She emphasizes the importance of avoiding certain actions and attitudes that may hinder genuine connections. The key points include:

1. **Acting Aloof:** Playing hard to get or sending mixed signals is counterproductive. Men appreciate straightforwardness and value ease in relationships.

2. **Overemphasis on Appearance:** Spending excessive time on appearance, including heavy makeup, can be a turnoff. Men often prefer a more natural look and value punctuality over elaborate grooming.

3. **Seeking Rescue:** Men appreciate emotional resilience. Instead of expecting to be saved, they prefer a partner who can handle ups and downs independently.

4. **Hinting at Other Suitors:** Broadcasting a plethora of admirers may create unnecessary competition. Men generally prefer to feel unique and valued.

5. **Blind Obedience:** Being excessively agreeable or disagreeable can be unattractive. Men value partners with opinions who can contribute to decisions.

6. **Constant Complaints about Men:** Repeatedly expressing negative views about men can be draining. Focusing on what one is looking for in a positive light is more attractive.

7. **False Persona:** Pretending to be someone one is not to win a partner is counterproductive. Authenticity is crucial for building trust and long-lasting connections.

Sarah encourages finding a balance between extremes and being true to oneself, as this approach is more likely to attract the right partner. She concludes by inviting viewers to share their thoughts and experiences in the comments section.

[robertleemeyer]

After 30+ years of marriage, one thing I would add is to understand that you can NOT change them. So pay attention to the 'advice' from the (possible future) in-laws when they (jokingly) say that you need to be get used to never being on time again. If any of her little built-in quirks cause you any anxiety or distress at all while dating because you are seriously OCD, you're better off looking around for someone who aligns better with your way of thinking. You might be able to work it out -- she might change her habits all on her own -- but you need to be prepared to accept her JUST THE WAY SHE IS. (Likewise for guys.) Be yourself, take your time during the dating process, and think long and hard about what you are willing to put up with. Like they used to say, "Marry in haste, repent in leisure."

[ForeverTogether]

Sarah.. I found your points today very
Important.. Men love women. God knows who needs who..
Appreciate… your
Thoughts today..
Be yourself n be confident in your
Looks n dress…🤗

[lokidarkbeard]

Your makeup looks amazing today. Your skin looks so healthy. I love these videos. As a man, I agree with all of these. A little makeup is ok, but sometimes it's too much. The one you missed is "don't breakup unless you mean it and will never get back together." Too many women break up as a kind of manipulation or punishment.

[jhnnK]

That "complaining about men" hit a bit closer to home than a few other things you've listed.
Basically, i went on a date a few years back that went exactly like that, i had put in quite some effort to make sure it would be a special evening for her by getting tickets to her favorite band, a dinner at a really nice restaurant, and a reservation at a pretty exclusive club for later that evening.

But the complaints started almost the very moment the date started, "all men are the same", "men do not put any effort into dating", "i do not trust men", "men never listen to what you tell them" all really nice things you want to hear on a first date that you planned carefully for 2 weeks.

After about an hour, i asked her "what am i even doing here if you dislike men so much", and guess what, she got angry and told me i was exactly the type of guy she was complaining about, just there to get some i got up, showed her the tickets to the concert she really wanted to go to (but was sold out), showed her the reservations for the restaurant and club, and told her "no effort right? men do never listen right? enjoy your evening" and walked out of there.

Ofc i didnt let the plans go to waste, called my best friend and we had a blast that evening, so it was not a total loss, but to this day i still do not get why she even agreed to the date in the first place.

[RickC]

So good Sarah you hit a lot of good main points to prevent facades that collapse later!

[Vicpoint]

Well said! Here are my thoughts:
1. Acting aloof as if you are not interested - Agreed (not attractive). As for the supposed spectrum between that and being super clingy/needy, it's a question of the quality vs. quantity of interactions. Most of the time, a "needy/clingy" person is just someone who wants more interactions than what both people find enjoyable. While letting someone know you like them does require *some* time spent, it doesn't usually require a whole lot.

2. Worrying too much about your appearance - Agreed. And I've heard women say "Yeah but I look really bad without makeup". If they really feel that way, some makeup is not a problem (she should be confident in herself on a date), but one can easily go overboard with it. Definitely agree with the attire though, the casual look is almost always better.

3. Having to be looked after or saved - I think most guys don't mind (and might even enjoy) looking after or "saving" a girl, so long as it's something they can in fact help her with. If it's a topic I can't do anything to help with (either because of the nature of the issue or that the woman herself wouldn't agree with the solution I'm seeing), then hearing about it doesn't help anything, attraction included. But yes, breakdowns and freaking out are going to be turnoffs unless it's, like, a death in the family or something.

4. Acting like you have a ton of men interested in you - Agree. It's very similar to the feminist slogan "I don't need a man". Well if you don't need me, then I'll just go, lol.

5. Saying yes and being obedient - Do we want a "housewife on the prairie" type to just say "Whatever you want, honey?" Well I don't care for that aesthetic, but agreeability for men is a lot like confidence for women. Women consider confidence in men to be a turn-on; but it has to be genuine, and it doesn't automatically make every instance of a man *lacking* confidence a turn-off. It's just a general rule. Same for agreeability for men.

6. Complaining about men - If it comes with a compliment about me personally, I'm good with it, lol. Again, same from women I'm sure. "Women are ____" is not going to win you favor with women. But "Most women are but not you", different story.

7. Don't pretend to be someone you're not - Definitely agree. You won't do either of you any favors that way. That's not to say people can't change but genuine change is usually gradual.

[angilif]

Your points are dead on! I think especially for older guys. We don't need drama, just someone we can be close with in an intellectual level and on a physical level. I strongly believe that a partner that can argue with me, while respecting each other is the best! It is easy to love when things go right, but not so much when they don't.

[davidbardes]

7 Things = Can we please be adults here? The very most desirable woman, is a self-aware and confident woman, who has started her self-work journey and is looking to connect, not impress or manipulate.

[grahamokeefe]

Re #3 - I don't know why, but helplessness doesn't just turn me off, it makes me actively angry. When my GF texts me with some irritating, but not super serious problem (flat tire, house thing, whatever) and she's all paralyzed with helplessness and the solution is obvious and relatively simple, I get seriously frustrated and angry. It's like, "You lived for years before you met me. How did you handle these things when I wasn't around and why can't you do that now?"

The other related thing that bugs me is if she comes to me with a problem, and I know the fix, but she won't do it.

I should mention that my current gf does this stuff sometimes but not often and less than she used to.