Why Do I Care What The Narcissist Thinks? | Stop Focusing On The Narcissist

No matter how emotionally abusive the narcissist is, do you find yourself caring what the narcissist thinks of you and seeking approval from the narcissist? Or, maybe seeking validation from the narcissist? Today, I will discuss why you need to stop caring what the narcissist thinks of you! The narcissist isn’t worth your time because they don’t care how you are impacted by their narcissistic abuse and only care how your actions affect them. Nothing is two sided with the narcissist and it is always about them. When you stop focusing on the narcissist then you can start focusing on yourself. The narcissistic abuse from the narcissist is emotional abuse and is toxic. Through their gaslighting and manipulation, you lose a sense of who you truly are and then you start to hate yourself, just like the narcissist wants you to. It is always about the narcissist and what they want in their life, with no consideration of others. So, why do I care what the narcissist thinks? Because you have empathy and care about others. The problem is, the narcissist lacks empathy and the caring between you and the narcissist is one-way. People with narcissism can’t consider others and they don’t care what other people think or feel. They only focus on what affects them. If you dont care what the narcissist thinks then you can stop being wrapped up in their game of control and manipulation. Take control from the narcissist and put it back into your hands. Emotional abuse from the narcissist doesn’t go away. They will continue to be abusive and that is the only constant with the narcissist.

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[DrEmilyMayfield]

Comment below why you continue to care what the narcissist thinks about you.

[garycordle]

Stop caring what they think about you period, heal yourself and care about yourself, at the end of the day they could careless about you observe don't absorb and don't let them know your thoughts or your dreams they will use everything against you 👍 Dr Emily and survivors and thrivers 🙏🦋

[petercofrancesco]

Totally True, Narcissists Cannot Function Without Narcissistic Supply . Energy Vampires They Are ! I Treat Them With A Boring, Calm And Quiet No Response Attitude ! Ingoring The Narcissists Is Fun, Because It Aggravates Them To The Max ! Thank You ! Pete . 👍 🙌

[firegirljen]

Going thru and binging your vids, so you may see a few comments from me! One nice mantra I’ve picked up along the way:

“Care less what they think about you, and care more what YOU think about YOU.”