This makes women 'wifey' material; a lot of women don't get it

Hey Guys! This is a follow video to my video about women losing "wifey" statues. I wanted to share with you what makes men see women as "wifey" material. This is a very real thing that alot of women don't realize. I share 2 examples, one is a video of a single woman and one is a video of a wife with her family. Let me know in the comments if you've experienced this realization in your own life and what caused it/ what did you do about it??

[aaronburdon]

"Integrity is doing what is right, even when no one is looking."

[lioninwinter]

Many women want to be married but don't want to be a wife.

[TheOriginalBrent]

The Queen is the most powerful piece on the chess board of life. She can move any direction, the full length of the board and capture any piece. But if she doesn’t guard her King she loses the game.

[robertrobinson-bq]

I was the 5th wheel in my marriage. I put her first, she put the kids, her parents, her job, and her friends first. Now I'm a part-time father. I told her from the beginning all I wanted was honesty and loyalty. That was too much to ask for.

[atcaleb]

Emily, Today I went to court for a temporary custody and support trial vs my wife. 16 years of marriage and today in court I saw her as she behaves when I'm not around. I saw thew real "her". I heard the things she says behind my back to others as she gave her testimony. It was painful and it was enlightening. Today, for the first time since I filed for divorce, I felt like I'm doing the right thing leaving her. You put a heart on a comment of mine several months ago and I hope you know how positively powerful that is and was to me at the time. Please keep doing that for other men. And thanks-

[neilduran]

The lady who puts her boyfriend first and would not respond to DMs gets my vote!

[thomasquigley]

8:15 You nailed it. It’s not about making time for him. It’s about making time for you and him. You’re not putting the man first, or ahead of you. You’re putting the RELATIONSHIP first.

[jeffbapst]

Too many women say, "My kids will always come first." Those kids are going to grow up and leave home. As a man, I never expect my needs to be met before the kids, but the attitude is the problem. The spouse or significant other should be the high priority. Then, you both can work together to provide for the needs of the children while still maintaining a relationship.

[stevejorgensen]

The young lady I married had become my best friend before we married. We respected each other. We would do things for each other. When we married we both want it to work and we were going to do whatever it took to make it work. And we did for 43 years until I lost her to cancer

[earnestrobinson]

You hit on the major problem. Most women either are unwilling to or simply don't care about putting themselves in their husband's position. They lack empathy for their husband. They are simply too selfish, thinking only about how things effect them.

[martrich]

I am the father of three teenage boys. Your channel is essential watching for them as they grow up - thank you

[anamericanman]

Loyalty is not just not talking to other men, loyalty is putting 'us' first, being on the same team, working together, working with me as a man, not against me, cooperating every day and appreciating what I do for you, the relationship and the home. Women today have been trained to not cooperate with men, and the reality is it is a decision to cooperate, and it is as easy a decision to take as crossing the street. You wake up every day, look yourself in the mirror and say, "I am thankful for all that I have and I appreciate the man in my life, and today I am going to make his life easier, not harder."

[thewaywardgrape]

I asked a woman out several months ago - she's 29 - her responce was 'I don't really have time to spare cause of my video games'. I said ok, have a good one. Now I started dating a different woman I met whilst out hiking, the first woman threw a tantrum at me because and I'll paraphrase: 'You were supposed to keep asking me out, not give up'. I told her: 'You prioritised playing video games over going on a date, why would I want to invest time in you???'. She didn't know what to reply with....

[RikuofManyPaths]

"I think a lot of women fail to realize that their husband needs some attention." It's true, Emily. We're raising two boys, and my wife doesn't put me on the back burner. It's important for my sons to see my wife and I interact like this because they need to see what a good woman's love for her husband looks like. Equally, it is important to see how they should treat women, and that is my responsibility to demonstrate to them by how I treat her.

A commonly held belief is that both men and women are taught how a woman should be treated, and neither are taught how a man should be treated. This is ultimately what leads to a number of genuinely good men getting taken advantage of (intentionally or unintentionally), which then leads to a number of resentful men that are less kind, which then leads to upset women. The first woman that Emily showed has empathy, and that informs her loyalty, which is fantastic. That same empathy informing reciprocity, appreciation, and respect is a powerfully attractive force to men, in case any ladies wanted to know.

[SlimJim]

I overheard a couple of unmarried female co-workers in their early 30s talking about their ideal husband and all I can say is that they just want a rich, tall, good looking and obedient servant.

[SouthernWisdom]

It was a mistake I made in my first marriage. We didn’t have the hard talks, and eventually we grew apart because of it. I’m not making that same mistake with my new wife. We’ve had the hard conversations, even before we said our vows, and instead of driving a wedge between us, it brought us even closer together. I love her more than anything, and I always feel safe expressing how I feel, and that’s the most amazing feeling I’ve ever felt.

[MaverickCadaverick]

My ex wanted to get married and I wanted to propose… but she refused to cut ties with exes who were “just friends”, was always on her phone talking with guy friends, refused to stop hanging out with other men without me, refused to post couples photos on her social media- yet posted photos with other people, constantly cancelled plans with me to hang out with other people and her father who she worked with and saw every day. She was too tired to go on dog walks with me when she got off of work but then later joined a gym and found the strength to go work out after work. The entire time of our several year relationship she kept saying she wanted to marry me, yet she didn’t act anything how I felt a wife should act. It was very disappointing and heartbreaking not to propose to her because I loved her, but she entirely lacked in loyalty and honesty.

[dixonhutchinson]

I am male 84 years old married for 62 years everything you say is correct not rocket science respect is the key you should want to help each other take care xx

[johnbarton]

Honestly, accountability, understanding and respect

[darylwilliams]

Kids are a huge thing. Once we had kids I basically became invisible, and even now that the kids are grown and gone I feel less like a husband and more like a platonic roommate. I feel very little affection for my wife, and it's far too late now to fix it. Instead, I find my own hobbies, pastimes and pleasures that have nothing to do with her.

And SO many men my age I talk to have gone through exactly the same thing. It's like women only want men to make babies, and once we've done it, we're disposable.

Except for paying of course. I was always expected to pay.