Women lose 'wifey' potential when she casually mentions any of these 5 things; women don't get it

Hey Guys! This video is inspired by so many of you guys reaching out after one of my shorts videos speaking about how men can no longer see a woman as "wifey" material after she casually mentions something that goes against his "image of his wife". This is a very real thing that alot of women don't realize. I share 5 of the most impactful stories from men that I've received. Let me know in the comments if you've experienced this realization in your own life and what caused it/ what did you do about it??

[TeddHonng]

My (now ex) wife got off the plane and I was so excited to see her. She 's quiet until we get in the car and I say "I missed you". She responds with "I didn't you as much as I thought I would". That was the last time I told her anything feeling wise. We were separated within a month, divorced a year later.

[rub-a-dub]

My wife "casually" mentioned she'd been with over a hundred guys while on our honeymoon. A couple weeks later, she "casually" mentioned she slept with her ex 3 weeks before our marriage. So I casually served her divorce papers and moved on.

[MKristensen]

My wife had no body count when I meet her and never into partying. She doesn’t have a lot of friends and is picky about who she is around. She never seek male attention, doesn’t post pictures on social media other than the kids and has a closed group. My wife is also low maintenance and no BS, just a pleasant person to be around. We have been together for 19 years. My parents have been together for more than 50 years, my mother has the same traits as my wife.

[UnknownUser-btgk]

I went on a date once with a girl who said "I've been with a load of guys over the past couple of years but nothing serious". instant no

[neilbradley]

I just realized that women reminiscing about their partying days are like guys who peaked in high school.

[YonatanBornstein]

Men have feelings, they just don't matter.

[Thephonkgod]

Here's a quick summary:

1. I used to be a party girl. 2:00
1b. You're the only guy that has treated me right. 4:44
2. We can just divorce after, it's not that big of a deal. 5:30
3. Your girlfriend justifying cheating of her girlfriend. 7:25
4. When men open up but their girlfriend not supporting them. 8:07
5. When you girlfriend reveals after weeks of dating that she is poly. 9:10

[prant]

How about her having an anger tantrum for no reason in a public place? I was going to ask her that evening, had the ring in my pocket, and she went off on me without provocation while out to dinner in NYC at a fancy restaurant. I had been divorced before, and I was thinking, “What am I doing, do I want to go back into that hell hole?” I brought the ring back the next day and they gave me a full refund!

[allen_p]

A "used to be a party girl" will have friends wanting to drag her back into the party girl excitement.

[Treadstone]

Honestly, "You're the only guy that treated me right" tells me that as soon as she gets slightly upset, she will see me as one of those guys 🤷‍♂

[stevec]

Another thing is if your girlfriend or wife is lying to cover one of her friends cheating.

[jerrynovak]

"What I do on my girls trips is none of your business"

[StevenLovejoy-zm]

Supporting a cheater is a complete lack of morals.

[deathcyth]

I met her in college. Body count of 1. She had been emotionally abused by her parents, Constantly beaten down and told to be quiet and to behave. Consequently she dated an emotionally abusive boyfriend who frequently demagogued at her, She was always very very quiet and very nervous. I taught her that what was happening to her was abuse and when she broke up with her boyfriend she confessed to me that she had fallen for me. We have been together 10 years married for 6 months. She enjoys this kind of content, she didn't ever post pictures of herself on social media, gets upset when i do any housework (she has a full time job and I'm an actor writer and gig worker) and is the kindest most attentive soul towards me i could imagine. I helped her out of her dark place and she's been devoted to me ever since (i try to insist she helped me as much and she flat out refuses to believe it). She loves consuming redpill content with me both to laugh and to "learn further ideas to protect our relationship". She just helped me through kidney cancer (im all good) not sure why I'm telling you all this other than to brag that i found a turbo wifey. It's friggin great.

[williamosgood]

Women will always tell on themselves. You just have to listen.

[rickkyle]

“I used to be a party girl” is code for I used to sleep around a lot.

[alexo]

I was dating a woman who casually said went we got married my money was our money and her money was hers only. Yeah I noped out of that relationship pretty quickly after that.

[lukedrillbrain]

"When a man gets sick, everything stops" (said with contempt). Many women look down on you if you get sick, and still expect you to be on your feet doing chores, fixing things, etc., when you're ill. In other words, you're expected to somehow be superhuman. Everyone gets sick sometimes. Only men get blamed for it.

[npenick]

I've had 3 serious, long term relationships in my life. The first was in my early 20's with a 'reformed' party girl with a large body count who pushed hard for marriage at 29 years old. I was too young and naive to understand that she was hitting that 'can't turn 30 without a husband'. Once the ring was on she turned into a different person, very mean and disrespectful. She didn't really want the married life. It came to a head when we had our son. She couldn't deal with being a mom, I offered to stay at home and be Mr Mom but that just made it worse. She 'had to get out of the house' so she started volunteering with a youth group at church. She quickly started an affair with another youth counselor so I divorced her. 5 years wasted but at least I got custody of our son. Last I heard, she's on husband #5.

Second was a single mom with two young daughters. Again, a 'reformed' party girl with a large body count. I should have been tipped off by the fact that she only had alternate weekend visitation with her kids. Again, she couldn't deal with a stable home life and had a pretty big drinking problem to boot. I couldn't have the drunkenness around my son so she had to get her own place and only come over when my son visited his mom. 3 more years wasted. At least I never married this one or had a kid with her, although she did propose to me near the end.

Third was a nice divorced woman with no kids. She had been raised in a traditional family and only had a high school bf and the ex-husband that she met her first year of college. She didn't go partying, she didn't drink much, she was very homey and into cooking/crafts, loved animals and kids, etc. It's true what they say that wives aren't made, they are found. The wife material concept is very true, it has to be there from birth. We had 20 very good years and another son before she died of the flu last January.

Given what I see of 'modern' women in the current dating pool I feel so sorry for the young guys out there. If they've been a 'party' girl, if they have the high body count, if they are very into herbs/chemical entertainment and materialism then avoid no matter how much you like them. It isn't just my history, I've seen it over and over with friends and coworkers.

I don't really morally care about the body count/party girl stuff but I can't deny the evidence of my own experience and those that I've observed. That lifestyle does change them and they will revert. I've never seen one reform for more than a short time, they've always gone back to the lifestyle.

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