#generationaltrauma #growingup #healyourtrauma #millennial #healyourself #genZ #genx

[Rynleekai]

If you’re going through the grieving process right now you will make it out on the other side.

It felt like it took forever and I felt angry for a really long time. But one day I woke up and started feeling better. And then it just got better from there.

I hope this helps.

Happy healing friends 🤗❤️✌🏻🌻

[maddisongoodman]

" some people get good parents and some get a therapy bill "
fr felt that

[asmr_goblin]

You also have to unlearn all the toxic crap your abusive family taught you, and it's literally like learning how to do life incorrectly while being expected to be a well adjusted adult.

[Eyeseeblue]

Thank you for beautifully articulating what so many of us have lived. I’ve known these but could not give myself the “excuse” of having to rebuild myself after being able to get away from my childhood home.

[kamazula]

This really hit me hard! I have a 28 yr old daughter who is incredibly successful in her field and is in a loving relationship. Just last year i looked at her, so incredibly proud, and thought "i wonder how i would have turned out had anybody given half a shot about me."

[hemlockLore]

THANK YOU! someone is finally saying something! Due to my ✨trauma™✨ i was very isolated as a kid and had no idea how the outside world worked. Now im 20 and im figuring out things most people do when they're teenagers and kids while trying to figure everything out that i didnt have the chance to and mourning what could have been if my parents hadnt traded me for a bag of the good stuff.

[KymJones-lu]

Im still learning about me and im 57, such an abusive childhood but made sure my daughters never knew this pain

[Ace-ace-baby]

All kids deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids

[adamtobin]

I’m
So proud of and inspired by you. Thank you so much. It takes something special to have the swig awareness you do and come out the other side. Thank you. ❤

[catie]

That's how I spent my thirties. In some ways, I feel grateful that it missed my twenties. I was older, had more life experience.

In other ways, it was just as hard. I spent my twenties just surviving instead of finding myself, so I had to do everything I hadn't done in my twenties, while also handling my thirties and trauma recovery.

I think people who deconstruct their abuse and family structure in their twenties are so brave and incredible. No hate to those of us who still had no idea, I just can't imagine being so young and carrying so much.

💜

[PaganBibi]

41 and I feel like I’ve only just got over my childhood with my mother, but even then I’m still figuring out why she couldn’t love me

[SweetlyDarkArt]

I'm even further behind in many ways. I was parentified and had to raise my 6 younger siblings, survive trauma THEN when I was finally on my own go through 10 years of cancer fighting. I survived it all and NOW in my 40s I'm finally getting to do a few of the things. 😅

[adamtobin]

Thank you. It means alot. Meeting people like you does help me grow and work on my own shit. I’ve been very isolated at times irl. ❤🎉🎉 your content is a positive thing for me.

[WitchHazel]

I definitely sometimes wonder who I could have been if someone believed in me and/or taught me how to believe in myself.

[chrisholzhauer]

Out of so many youtubers discussing trauma, thank you for sharing all the complex feelings that come from the healing process. I feel like that's glossed over a lot, I really appreciate it.

[mooneverfi]

It's especially hard when those parents still want to be in your life. My older sister is not only grieving, trying to move on, growing as an adult, trying to have a relationship with her siblings, focusing on work, maintaining a good marriage on her end, but she's also being bombarded by my mom who insists on being in her life while also telling her that she needs to get over it. My mom did her best but she isn't making it easier. And everyone else is dragged in the middle to validate when they also come to the point where they are also beginning to grieve. It's such a big mess, but I guess oil has to smear before it gets clean

[jreese]

Mourning the person I will never be. Oof. Looking back on all the missed years because I learned to "hide" never stops stinging.

[nonamesorry]

Sometimes you get something in between a therapy bill and loving parents and it feels like you are stuck in a purgatory forever

[mmisskriss]

Stoooop. All your videos really hit hard and it's wild feeling seen with every detail. It's a first, and it's really validating, which is painful because "I'm not allowed to feel human!" 😭💔

[soppelusa]

I'm 33 now and a few years into re-parenting myself. Being kind to myself when I mess up, being patient, respecting my own bounderies etc. It really sucks that my inner child still is scared and in flight/freeze mode, but I've come a long way these few years. Going no-contact 2 years ago was the best decision I've ever made for myself.
Thank you for all your content.