#generationaltrauma #growingup #healyourtrauma #millennial #parenting #healyourself

[Rynleekai]

Several things can be true at once. Here’s why I think I do this…

1. People pleasing. I’ve worked really hard to not people please and I wonder if me being “agreeable” is the people pleasing resurfacing. 😅

2. Childhood trauma. I wonder if it’s mostly when I’m around people who subconsciously remind me of my parents and I’m trying to gain their approval and friendship to help heal the wound that never had my parents approval.

3. I do think I’m also tapping into an older identity of mine that I no longer identify with.

Those are my thoughts.

Happy healing friends 🤗❤️✌🏻🌻

[adamtobin]

I do this constantly. I’m working on it. I’m also working on just saying what I feel and accepting compliments. I love how aware you are. ❤

[asmr_goblin]

I think you're spot on, I experience the same. We have parts of us still unhealed. Have you heard of the modality Internal Family Systems? (IFS). I've found a lot of progress with it in being able to work with those younger parts of me stuck in the trauma from my past, if that makes sense. It's not for everyone so no worries if it's not your vibe. Just wanted to mention it in case you aren't aware and it might assist you on your healing journey. Thanks for being so genuine.

[FukaiKokoro]

Why is the algorithms Targeting me so hard rn.

[artbookgaming]

Not even that I ever agreed with that stuff, it's just that I had to pretend to agree to survive, not be yelled at or punished for "being difficult", so I just go along and figure out the fastest way to get out of the situation. It's honestly a huge problem with medical staff because I really struggle to express my needs and downplay my problems to the point that doctors and nurses just don't see the struggle if it's not beyond the breaking point where I physically can't pretend (mask) anymore.

[CthulhuRuby]

This is psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud's MOSTLY disproven theory, im not to completely dismiss it but take it with a grain of salt, it doesn't apply to everyone and even when it does apply it won't explain everything

[Celinemoonstone]

I fixate on the for the rest of eternity 😅

[druid_zephyrus]

ha ha heh huh hah...
Not me at all. ... ...

[whenimmanicimgodly]

Yea, but I don't think I AGREE with them, but I UNDERSTAND what they're saying because I've been through it before in some way. I used to agree, so I know the thought process; but I don't agree I just understand how they came to the conclusion they have

[thecalham]

Feels a little ridiculous to be honest. Not sure why everyone has to share there "trama". Life sucks its your job to make it better.