weak men REJECT this idea

[dumpstermaster]

To be fair, taking a break from women can significantly improve your finances.

[simonkeneni]

There’s no way to give up just to get better and improve 🔥

[Primal_Echo]

As someone who is actively improving themselves, working out 7 days a week, and working his ass off, you can't blame those guys that have given up. The risks don't outweigh the rewards for a lot of guys. Over 50% divorce rate with 85% of divorces initiated by women. Alimony/child support payments and still not being able to see their children. Some guys clock out entirely after a bad divorce. You see/hear about it all the time. It breaks men. They get cheated on and then treated like they did the cheating. I've got a pretty high body count. One that if I cut in half and told people that number they'd still be like, really?". So trust me when I say that hooking up and having a rotation of women is overrated. What we really want is intimacy. And even the guys that do go after girls these days and are successful with women seldom find that intimacy. I heard someone say "don't love her more than she loves you" the other day and it broke my heart. Reality is, THAT is the world we live in these days. So yeah, you can't blame the guys who give up. And I certainly wouldn't call them losers.

[valdas]

Improve for myself and no woman involved is the goal

[aodh]

I agree, give up approaching women. Focus on yourself for a bit and get to a level where you're content on your own, working out regularly, getting good sleep and have at least 3 months retention. Women will approach you, so long as you're out there in the world doing your thing. It's happened to me recently, and if it doesn't work out so be it. Nothing gained, nothing lost. It's the mentality of not being needy

[filippavlakovic]

Nah, I'm never giving up..unless it comes to my dating life...some things just aren't worth fighting for

[vladpms]

Would rather choose the pain in the gym than a 💔

[hectorleon]

That is so shallow, to only care about "looks" and "money" and "women" most of the times people like this is the ones that suffer the most and are never happy with themselves. You can be athletic, and still have nothing. Some of us work on a daily basis and have little time for work out, maybe on weekends but still, if i choose to improve myself im doing it for me, not to gain society's approval... Im not gonna waste my entire life doing so knowing people will never be pleased. They always find something to talk about. So i said what i said.

[gagAMinute]

Hey! Your argument is on point, reasonable, and practical!

[atk]

The harsh truth is that as men, we have the burden of performance. No matter what our situation is, we have to always be better ourselves. It's a never-ending process.

[TheWrathfulSlayer]

It takes time and confidence to develop one’s self worth!! We must be willing to put in the effort to making ourselves better all around!!

[joshstamey]

When I’ve shown up like a bitch “nice guy” I’ve gotten crapped on. When I show as a strong masculine man that’s kind and humble AND takes no 💩, women compete for me. Be the man you’re called to be and the woman will appear. End of story.

[TheCoolProfessor]

I made a choice to change. I once weighed 384 pounds. Now I'm under 300. Everything starts with a choice.

[Gabriel-mkp]

These are facts. Overcoming pain equals progress. I welcome it.

[domesticworks]

life is hard but worth the efforts, I'm a year in the gym & I've woman looking at me differently alrdy. It rly is build yourself up and the woman come to you.

[ИльяЗаболотный-ем]

I just finished my hard workout.
I am 6’ 4”, good looking and I earn sometimes more than 20k $ per month (and that’s a lot, considering I am not in US or EU).
But I still don’t want anything with woman right now.

Don’t think that I am a loser.

On the contrary, I was a some kind of loser when I thought of girls most of the time years back then.

[alijahcordova]

This is fax work regardless of the failure heartbreak and adversity never back down and never settle for being average thanks 🙏 for this amazing truthful advice David

[michaelt]

I am 30 but back in my early 20's I had this mindset especially with woman. I was tired of getting rejected and was super close to giving up on dating. However I kept pushing and never gave up and fast forward to my mid 20's I finally met an amazing girl. She's literally everything I want in a girl. Weve been together for 5 years. Moral of the story is don't give up. Just keep going and youll eventually land that girl of your dreams. Also don't forget to level yourself up in the process.

[CuongTran-elci]

I like your advice men should
Be always self improving.

[BenLukeSmith]

I am always leveling up and elevating. This year it’s my annual income. But it has nothing to do with women. More so, about wanting to be the best me and being hungry figuratively. I am focused on other priorities right now. There are times in your life where you just need to shift your focus, and focus on your goals and your purpose. I encourage all men in their 20s to do this. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself, so in your 30s you have plenty of options when you are ready.