If You Cut Him Off Will He Miss You?

The natural assumption most people have is that by utilizing no contact, or cutting a guy off, will instantly make them miss you.

However, I’ve found that getting them to a place where they miss you is not always a straight line. In fact, there will be a lot of emotional value changes along the way.

Here’s how guys typically feel when you cut them off,

Initial shock
Pain (Genuinely hurt)
Anger
Vengeance
Depression
Regret
Acceptance
Let’s take some time and dig in to each of these.

[Jnnycat]

I don’t think he regrets a thing, and if I chase him he’s going to think what he did was okay and lose respect for me.
I dumped him, but he gave me no choice.

[kimberleyann]

I got dumped and it's been 31 days since I contacted last. I'm starting to finally get through this breakup and move on. In a few weeks, I'm supposed to reach out? But....why to get rejected again? I feel like if he really loved me, he would have.

[DAN-lodb]

It's been over 90 days and I haven't heard a word, but I realize it's not my move.

[tiname]

What if he cheated so you left him…and you still want him back? Why should we contact THEM? What for?

[ashleylarson]

Go no contact because you intend to move on. Otherwise it’s just a game. Using these tactics to get a person to change is a bad idea, because they could end up resenting you down the road. If a person wants to change, they have to choose to do so and at their own pace. I personally don’t want a man to have to think about it, I want him to know. If not, then either he’s not the one for me or maybe just not right now. I would rather rely on fate then be contacting him by phone after going no contact. Just let go because choosing a partner changes our lives so significantly, we absolutely have to pick a good one and there’s so many more out there…we just get tired.

[verymuchgerman]

Problem is, I cannot know in which phase he is.

[Carmelmen]

It's been 2 months for me since I cut him off the 2nd time. It was easier the 1st time because I didn't really catch feelings. He told me he had a gf, I fell back for a year. He messaged me, and all the feelings came back. But we tried again for almost a year, and he still hasn't changed.

[මලින්දසමරසිංහ]

Sir I got my ex back after 5 months .And its all thanks to your advice .Thank You Sir

[Aqunime]

ofcourse if the relationship was good and healthy and he/she didnt treat you like complete garbage or devalued you to the point of no return.

then let them accept the breakup, let them move on. because it is the best thing you can do for yourself and them, let them have experiences outside of you, to know your worth and what you brought to the table.

you are valuable, you are worth more than this

[reemmelamed]

I understand, but how could I know if my ex is in the regret phase? Should I wait them to contact me? Which signs should i be looking for?

[endearing]

What if they just stalk your social media without making a conversation?

[daredevil]

What if they didnt reach out within 45 days or between 66 days 🙃🙃🙃🙃being a dumpee u cant reach out and get a nose cut 🙃🙃

[darthjedi]

It means you have emotional problems and you put up walls. Good luck with that.

[sohinibanerjee]

It has been almost two months. No communication from his end.

[Notbothered]

Lets be real if you feel you need to cut a loser off then its for a good reason. There bad news cut it off forever get good at goodbye 👋 life gets simple once you realize the one you cut off deserved to cut off. N stay cut off. There a ex for a reason.. duhĥ