9 Unmistakable Signs He’s Not Serious About You and Won't Commit | VixenDaily Love Advice

This video tells you the biggest signs a guy isn’t serious about you – so you know immediately whether he’s got potential or if you're wasting your time.

It’s time. You want to know how serious he is about you.

Maybe the relationship has been going really well, but you’re worried about getting too committed before you find out how he feels about you.

Maybe you’ve been dating him for a while, and it’s getting close to “put up or shut up” time.

Or maybe you just have to know, one way or the other.

Whatever the reason, right now it’s time to find out whether he’s serious about you. And I’m here to help.

[caitlinstewart]

If he says hes not looking for anything serious can that change?

[reginahopkins]

If I want to find out where a guy stands with me and we're not "committed" but have been dating for 4.5 months, what's a good way to bring up the topic? Do you think it would be good to say something like, "Do you see us being compatible, long-term?" (and then get into how our lifestyles might be a bit different...like he's into drinking, and I don't drink at all. He's also never introduced me to his friends yet and is always doing something with his other friends on the weekends...." Or any other way to very softly bring this topic up about whether or not he sees us as working out long-term...But he's already been sticking with me and talking to me by text pretty much daily since we met.

[ElizabethMcQMusic]

Hey 😀 I love your outfit girl 😀 I just watched this one 😀 I wanted to share that I know it CAN change 🙂 Which I believe is happening with this local guy Jake that I've been talking to for the past yr 🙂 We talked on & off for some months last yr from May to December & there were some weeks or days that we didn't talk because he was busy or something. And yeah he didn't invite me to hangout. I mentioned about hanging out a couple times. He said to me in late July like, "But if I'm being honest, I'm not looking for anything serious or a relationship right now but we can be lovey dovey if you want." & then he said, "I'm just chillin lmao".

Now...I thought he meant to flirt & such. But I still wanted to date him & such. So...we still talked. And we still do to this day 🙂 Now...in October is when he started to say at some point about my personality, that I remind of a little girl, so cute & jovial. Stuff like that 🙂 Never heard of "jovial" until he said it haha Had to look it up haha And that's when he started nicknaming me "Little girl" & I was starting to nickname him "Jakeypoo" & "Jakeybaby" haha

Then in November I started to feel confused & conflicted I think. I started to ask him if he has any intentions with me. He was like, "I might..." & then he asked me, "Why?". I told him & I asked him something like what the intentions are if he has any or something like that. He saw what I said & asked & said nothing. The next day I asked him the same question, he saw what I asked & said nothing.

A month goes by & we said nothing to each other. I literally reached out him literally a month later & sent him a lengthy message & another 2 or 3 messages. I remember saying that I think he's using me. So...he saw what I said & he said nothing. He messaged me literally a little bit over a month later & said something about having to talk. That sort of message. I messaged him back at some point. He messaged me back a day or 2 later & accepted my apology which like...a part of me kinda felt bad in a way with the lengthy message the month before & everything but like...I felt like I said a lot & I thought I maybe pissed him off or something. Idk. I was kinda confused & was emotional when I sent the lengthy message.

Anyways...a bit after he accepted my apology he ended up saying like, "Obviously I'm physically attracted to you and I would show that but that's not all silly. ~". I asked him if the "but that's not all silly.~" was him saying that he likes me. He said, "Yeah, but I'm not in a position to be with anyone right now.". Which I thought he was saying like, "Yeah I like you & I'm physically attracted to you but I don't feel ready for a relationship right now in my life. I might want to be in a relationship with you at some point when I feel ready.".

So like...at that time we talked from late January of this yr to early March & he was seeming to wanting to do the dirty/kinky video calls again but I said "No to that.", but he still talked to me. So...in early March he drunk messaged me & drunk messaged other friends too apparently from what he told me that night. So...hrs later after he drunk messaged me he either got rid of his account or he blocked me. I thought he blocked me on Snapchat. He didn't block me on Xbox One which I thought was surprising. So...I just assumed that he blocked me on Snapchat because of not doing that type of video call.

So...he messaged me on Messenger in June. I asked him about Snapchat. He said, " Deleted it... :/". I asked him, "You sure?". Then I asked him, "How come?". Jake said, "I had to... :/". Then he told me what his new Snapchat is & that I'm welcome to add him. Basically we've been talking again ever since. But he did tell me some days or so after giving me his new Snapchat he said to me that he missed me & that he thinks about me a lot. I've been told that usually when a guy says that he means that.

We also last video chatted last week on Sunday & I feel like we got a bit closer which I love 😀😍 He actually opened up a bit about his past job & his ex that took his position the day after he left Hot Topic. Right now he's working at Cheddar's Scratch Kitchen as a waiter but he was telling me in the video call last week on Sunday that he's one of 8 people working at Cheddar's Scratch Kitchen right now because of COVID-19 & they have to do all these jobs there & everything. I remember telling him, " Which makes me feel bad.". He said, "Yeah. Me too.". To be honest...he literally sounded genuine & honest about everything 🙂 He even helped pick a lipstick color for me in the beginning of the video call & he seemed really excited about that of course 🙂 haha Which I just loved that 🙂 I believe that he's starting to realize that I'm not that kind of girl that would always wanna do what he wants to do, when he wants to do it & he possibly has realized that he has feelings for me & is trying to take one day at a time right now 🙂

We haven't talked in about almost 2 weeks. He said in the video call last week on Sunday that he sometimes takes some days or some weeks or some months like 1-3 months to work on himself. Which I guess is normal for some guys. Which is good to try & work on yourself, or take some space from whatever is going on in life or at work or something you know. And he did say in the video call that he ALWAYS tries to message me everyday 🙂 But I still believe that him & I are moving in the right direction with trying to get to know each other more with stories & with opening up about things & such like that 🙂 But I also think he's starting to really like me 🙂