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The number one regret of people who are dying is "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."

So let’s spend this video going through how you can do just that.

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0:00 - Intro
1:00 - #1: Find your fire
2:25 - #2: Create an inner circle
3:10 - #3: Decide your core values
4:47 - #4: Leave the validation casino
7:09 - #5: Self acceptance

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[BlazerMid-kqdt]

When the world needed him most he vanished

[Marz]

"if you live by people's praise, you'll die by their criticism" - Bill Johnson

[tannercottle]

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[FriendlyDawn-knwq]

When people think bad about you or say bad things about you is, for the most part, is a reflection of how they feel about themselves

[SeanLunny]

A wise man once said “it’s none of my business what other people think of me”

[annahataheartfire]

The self-flagellation certainly makes every step 100x harder. This video came at the perfect time. Thank you 🙏🏼

[TopCoin]

1. Find your fire
2. Create an inner circle
3. Decide your core values
4. Leave the validation casino
5. Self-acceptance

[thepablo]

My key takeaways:
- Reframe the question "How to stop thinking about what other people think of you?" to "How do I not let other people's opinions stop me?".

- You should have something more important to care about. What would be your ideal life?

- Have a set of core values, such as honesty, and promise yourself to not break them, even if it's bad for you in the short-term.

- You are not going to like everyone. You should aim to be liked by, at most, your inner circle, but ideally just yourself.

- Leave the validation casino. Don't rely your happiness or unhappiness on people you don't care about.

- Other people's judgments affect you, because you think a hint of it, it's true. They can't make you feel shame, they can only trigger you to feel it. That's why you should fully accept yourself.

- Use the best friend friend trick.

- "You can't get where you want to go, until you accept where you are".

[YourFriendGoofball]

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[michalbadash]

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Your channel is a huge part of what made me who I am today, and I can’t even describe how thankful I am to you for that. Yet I still want to write you - thank you so much, because of you, I can smile ❤️

[Jester]

Just wanted to thank you for your role in my personal development.❤

[RussellClausse]

The biggest confidence game changer is progress and achievement towards the things you value.

Once you are living your dream and pursuing it, you care 10x less.

[astralspectron]

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[TheMusicscotty]

Absolutely beautiful video, guys. Just what i needed to hear.

[StoicNature]

This had a lot of really good points. One of the best videos on this topic.

[How_to_GUYS]

Thank you so much this was the exact video i needed its so weirdly specific my problem. I struggle with insecurity and trauma that costed me my self esteem and this video gave me great advice. Thanks