Why People Leave? | Yasmin Mogahid | Personal Story

"I couldn’t let go of anything. People, places, events, photographs, moments—even outcomes became objects of strong attachment. If things didn’t work out the way I wanted or imagined they should, I was devastated. And disappointment for me wasn’t an ordinary emotion. It was catastrophic. Once let down, I never fully recovered. I could never forget, and the break never mended. We experience this emotional roller coaster because we can never find stability and lasting peace until our attachment and dependency is on what is stable and lasting. How can we hope to find constancy if what we hold on to is inconstant and perishing?

Don’t let your source of fulfillment be anything other than your relationship with God. Don’t let your definition of success, failure, or self-worth be anything other than your position with Him (Qur’an, 49:13). And if you do this, you become unbreakable, because your handhold is unbreakable. You become unconquerable, because your supporter can never be conquered. And you will never become empty, because your source of fulfillment is unending and never diminishes. (#attachement #islamicvideo #islamicmotivation #islamiclectures #islamicstatus)

Noble Lessons

[LL-dlvx]

I am basically the same type of person, so I got married twice, I was very much investing in my husband's relationship and was emotionally attached, I finally got divorced, and the same thing happened to a second marriage and also with a friend's relationship. I cried a lot in masjids when praying. So I finally got enlightened that these kinds of relationships and emotional attachments taking us away from worshiping ALLAH, since we slowly start "worshiping "our friends, husbands, etc, this is why Allah takes away the people from us. SubhaAllah

[afshanahassan]

This is very beautifully written in your book "Reclaim Your Heart". Thankyou for such a beautiful calm and relaxing words.

[sofienasiha]

This video caught me at the right time. I was truly thinking this question right now. Thank you sister for the eye opener. Jazak Allah Khair.

[kamraz]

Subhana Allah exactly same as me so attached to people ...
Alhamdulila am trying to fix maself and accept that this duniya is temporary and imperfect.
Perfection is only in janna

[bakthulaneha]

This is me . I totally relate to it . I am this kind of person . But then once people disappoint us it’s very hard for me to get over and I just avoid that person . After a while they realise that they are missing and try everything possible to get back to me . But I don’t know whether to call myself heartless but I don’t feel anything at all towards them. I go beyond my limits to please them make them happy but once after giving my self chances I’m done at a point and do not dare to look back at them nor do I feel like going back to them.

[sajidhussain]

The concept of attachment and detachment wonderfully explained.

[Alexlittle]

Reading reclaim your heart now❤sharing with many! Thank you

[gobble]

Mashallah
I can relate so much.
Jazakallahu khair

[adani_Ilyana]

I have abandonment issues and now that I realize I have always had a hard time of letting go too. Recently, I e experienced heartbreak and find int really hard to let go of the person. It is to the point where I feel like losing myself, I didn’t know what to do. I did everything I could, reading, learning new things, distracting myself but it always find a way to crept back in and finding faults in myself which in turn make me really depressed.

[aishanassali]

This is me... and am struggling to find my way through it. I can totally relate to this. Plz pray for me it ain't easy to break free.

[perk]

Wow! That was an amazing insight into life.

[kaderamer]

Nature made by allahfinally we together in jannah aamin

[iddrisumunira]

This is exactly me 😢I’m even going through it now😢😢

[lisal]

It’s a human need to have people they can depend on. We should expect less but we can’t live alone without any companions. That will cause depression.

[khadijafatima]

O Allah! Forgive me and the believing men and women and the Muslim men and women.”

[sumk]

💯 im finding out now not droend on anyone be it u
Your mum sibmings etc...they all eill disappoint you..onmy Allah eho never lets us down

[RudyAbdullah-eyeg]

This one cara this one isa rasa genting from air this one i pun something i outside no everything beautiful kusyen in beautiful no in belief from my this beautiful i know believe dunia akhirat tu

[expertglow]

Please become Sunni...those who celeberate Milad...the line of majority of Ummah since centuries.

Remember Ummah cannot unite on falsehood.

[RudyAbdullah-eyeg]

Because you this one no no in believe this one in disiplina umno understand okey no in believe in hart you cause you fokus from allah fokus from allah you fokus okey no everything this one in heart you go this one from something from i know go

[RudyAbdullah-eyeg]

Di syurga di suami understand dunia temporary pukul 9 drum akhirat everything dunia okey philippin allah in umat mykis from umat aiman open and neraka dunia nabi muhammad alaihissalam something naruto open everything fokus dunia fokus fokus from allah