The Difference Between Cluster b Personality Disorders

This video details the major difference between the cluster b personality disorders: Narcissistic, Borderline, Histrionic, Antisocial.

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[rorywright]

Being a passenger in a car with him was horrifying at times! Sharp turns to make you bump up against the door, braking abruptly! Aggressive driving and confrontational with other drivers.

[kokoBuSiLiCa]

The timing for me to come here after this video is released 1min ago is hilarious. I was just looking around for this very topic to gather some info, and there is coach DeMars dropping one right as I opened the channel's homepage. Surreal.

[SurnaturalM]

9:20
This is true. That's why I was misdiagnosed. They thought I didn't expressed my emotions, but in reality, I have a very low range of emotions. I'm normal/neutral, happy, or angry. Stuff that makes people sad usually makes me angry. I've learnt to temper my emotions and not be a nuisance because I had outstanding parents and did years of therapy, which was for autism, but it helped me a lot. I have a cognitive comprehension of other people emotions, and what's right or wrong, therapy taught me this. But I don't *feel* much emotions. I also struggle to put myself in somebody else's place. You must ask why I participate in this, I will be very honest. It's because I'm always curious and I think these videos are very informative.

[bryanpauly]

Another well polished, current, and dead accurate delivery of information on these personalities. Like many others here, I made the mistake of attaching to the severely disordered. The clarity you’re providing, David is incredibly helpful- with not only identifying these traits in others, but also being aware of how they are present in my own personality. The trauma of being caught in a real life drama triangle of dark triad traits has been devastating and endlessly confusing. Thanks again for the guidance, David and also for the support from the community.

[VixenTM]

Hey DeMars, glad you are covering the differences between certain disorders. I think it is helpful to a lot of people.
Although I feel largely healed from my personal experience, its great to see how many people benefit from these videos. Your efforts are continuously appreciated!

[Eloquent]

What I like about you in comparrison to other mental health workers, is that you got empirical experiences being in relationships with those kind of people. Experience always prevails over litterature.

[SurnaturalM]

6:36
They don't care if they get good attention or get attention for the wrong reasons. Just like a child who will be deliberately disobedient to get the attention from the parents. I don't know if children who didn't get enough attention from the parents are growing up being histrionics.

[elleonard]

Hello! Rory. Gee that
sounds familiar.

I recall on one occasion, when he had called me on FB video call, while he was driving(which was often when he was driving) This one horrifying time, while he was driving in the highway heading back to staten Island, He started road raging and brought out this mental pipe, he had beside his seat. He did an abrupt turn to chase another driver and followed this driver, shouting profanities and threatening them with his mental pipe. Frightening to say the least.

He would also go around the same road roundabouts, many times, laughing while I was a passenger in my car.

Enjoy your weekend!

Take care ❤

[dawnberger]

Omg the streets are filled with people who display these traits, very common among the homeless. I once volunteered for an outreach program and I eventually had to quit this to save my own sanity. Live well and involve yourself with the good. That is all that I have to say.

[dawnberger]

If a person with border line or narcissism or histrionic or whatever hurts you, it is only because that is really all they can do, well, for the most part anyway, until they get better. So encourage them to go get well in a way that will last. It is the best you can do for them, give them your compassion and expect nothing back.

[dawnberger]

I finally quit. I finally quit working for the outreach when one of the alcoholic.mentally ill people died i overnight on the concrete in front of the liquor store. That was his chosen cure. They suffer so much. They make the people who try to help them suffer. They are victims of all sorts of mental disease mentioned in this video. The ones who truly beat their sickness are few and far between. But some do, thank God. They beat their illness because of their will and desire to heal and because of persaverence to get well. Not because of you. It is either in them to heal or it isnt.

[kevindouglas]

All of cluster B is dangerous and should be avoided at all cost.

Most of my experience has been with borderline.
My advice when confronted by borderline is leave! Run away ! Don't waste time packing your stuff, just run . Run as fast as you possibly can.

[nicky]

Fantastic round up David. My ex bpd was privately sadistic.
Towards the end of me breaking away, I found on his devices the porn he used to watch almost daily & it was some very wacked out catagories, some bordering on illegal. Claims he wasnt a porn addict...yeah right, but he only wanted sex very rarely & only when he initiated it. Absolute arsehole of a manchild he was.

[motowngirl]

What is someone who fakes being really sick?
Plus he ran over a small child while bike riding and didnt even look back

[JoshuaAnzalone-zkht]

I have been monitored by tons of these people and people i dont even know for years. Its

[dawnberger]

And definitely not because of me. The only thing that will happen if they do not choose to heal themselves by getting professional help is that they will break your heart.

[dawnberger]

Or give and try to love unconditionally. Expect nothing in return. That is the best way.

[emilemerten]

from south africa
What is the objective of living, what is the end goal? You sre able to control yourself so you have to be responsible for what you are doing, and you have intelligence so that responsibility has to match what you are able to contemplate on that level because otherwise why think at all and just do drugs all the time. It can't be something that people haven't yet come up with at least by accident that everyone can agree on, so it has to be diffrent for every person but then again the only purpose would be in yourself so why would you have to prove anything to yourself, as if you are not the person creating the problem in the first place, because if it doesn't effect other people, would anything you do even matter, you are just making up a set of goals to accomplish to justify your existence but you came up with those goals in the first place, so how would you know if it is correct, and does it even matter if you succeed or not. If you create an ai to give you the answer would it even matter if your own brain didn't come up with it, it would have no relevance, it would be like explaining the universe to a dog, it wouldn't matter because it wouldn't change anything in how it's brain works to live, it wouldn't change it's day to day ruitene.
So either the purpose of life is different to everyone, it has been found and people don't care about it or the act of trying to find a purpose is an evolved act to stay alive. The fact that so many people wonder what the purpose of life is means that it has to be as real as being hungry or thirsty but the brain's version of it.

[jl]

My narcs do 9 of the 10.Iv'e never seen then be violent.Maligant narc or ASPD?My brother has MS and had the same frontal brain scan anomaly that a psychopath has.Could his ms diagnosis be a mistake?Fantastic information David.Thank's for the video.

[victoriamuniz]

Honestly thought I was ready to start making new friends The neighbors seemed normal, invited me to Her family birthday party Afterwards we stopped at her grandmother's house There were.
Bars in grandma's kitchen, there were bars in the Bathroom doors That's when she laughed at me and said my whole family are Devil worshippers I couldn't get out of the house Fast enough.I don't think i'm ready to make New friends, David.My judgment is still off