My Entitled Brother tries to PROPOSE to Girlfriend at MY WEDDING - Reddit Podcast

0:00 My Entitled brother demands that I allow him to propose to his Girlfriend at MY WEDDING! (u/Soon-to-Wed-Throway)
7:32 I have been lying to my boyfriend about my education, and I don’t know how to fix this situation. (u/insecure_1765)
10:07 My parents have given me an ultimatum, threatening to disown me if I move in with my girlfriend for college. (u/Decent-Ad-9617)
13:24 My wife and I were planning on living in Europe for 3 months, but my wife changed her mind a week before we were supposed to go, and now I don’t know what to do. (u/PianoCharged)
16:34 Today I messed up by telling my Boyfriend that I don’t like his dad. (u/Interesting-Umpire37)

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[carlrood]

It's weird, because I don't know anyone who'd think this was OK.

Also, a proposal to prevent a break up is just turning the break up onto a divorce. You should only get married if both parties actually want to; not due to threats or ultimatum.

[silentscorpio]

Why do people think it’s okay to propose at someone else’s wedding? The day is supposed to be about the new married couple and only them. People can make your own events to do this.?And also if the brother thought his girlfriend was gonna leave him soon why would he think she was gonna say yes to the proposal. It’s sickening to see how humanity is these days.

[JackieSkellington]

I've seen a proposal at a wedding reception, and at another a pregnancy announcement. Both brides upset, crying, and told by stupid people that "they are over-reacting and what's the big deal?!" Sigh

[sayatdegefu]

The fact that he's in his thirties and acts this childish is beyond me

[MartinT]

There are certain things you, as a wedding guest, DO NOT DO at a wedding. You do not:
1. Wear white or anything even remotely bridal.
2. Propose.
3. Come out as anything.
4. Announce a pregnancy.
5. Announce a divorce.
6. Talk shit about ANYTHING concerning the wedding.
7. Make a scene.

[kunfussed]

The parents changed their tune when OP said he'd cut that $500 off. 🤣😭🤭

[ahaanaggarwal]

In the first story he pissed three generations of his family💀💀💀

[silverblaze]

I truthfully feel that grandmother honestly could care less about OP and just shower the brother with affection and love because I have the feeling that if it was up to the grandmother that it would be a surprise wedding for the brother and just toss OP out and basically make it all about him.

[ashleyt]

Not allowing him the opportunity? He has every opportunity to propose to her any other day. He wants to do it at op’s wedding specifically bc he wants to take the spotlight like he has his whole life as the golden child. He probably was very shocked he couldn’t get his parents behind him. He almost did tho. They’re kinda disgusting too.

[drako]

Wife who suddenly doesn’t want to go on vacation is having an affair. It’s that simple.

[Orion]

#4 - She's possibly having an affair. Without condemning her offhand, look for other clues.

[JustSaiyank]

The story about the couple going to live abroad, she's clearly cheating on him and she wanted him to go so she can spend 3 months with whoever she's cheating on him with.. because honestly what else could it be since she's not being upfront about why she doesn't want to go..

[mr.worldturner]

Last story- break up. Cultural differences is one thing, not liking your in laws is one thing, but the kids thing is a whole other issue all together. Ive seen this same issue break up so many of my friends relationships it is a time bomb. They are saying they dont care right now because they think you will change your mind eventually. And when that doesnt happen they will grow to resent you. And then boom

[sweetluvgurl]

If someone is going to leave someone, proposing won’t ultimately change that. I’m saying that because the brother gave that as a reason for proposing. Even if it somehow postpones a split up, it’s most likely only putting off the inevitable.

[henrylopez]

For the college student girlfriend story the best thing you can do is label yourself as an independent and have your girlfriend as a dependent for financial aid, work study and working on campus can help. I don't have all the answers but when my mom couldn't have me as her dependent anymore because the job I had paid me too much our accountant labeled me as independent and then I was eligible for grants.

[kensosaramos]

That title has a little error that makes the whole situation so much more worrying 😂😂😂😂

Also, repost...

[YourAverageGamer-]

Story 1: massive W for the girlfriend, parents and OP in the end!

[teleiosdawyz]

I heard a similar story, the couple delt with it by putting a friend up to being a side piece and causing a scene.
Glorious story to tell the grandkids

[threecheeseburrito]

The story where the wife wants to stay home made me think that she's definitely hiding something. I don't know what it is, but if this is anything like any of the other reddit stories with similar situations, she's either having an affair, trying to surprise him with something (could be good or bad), or she wants to leave him. Or maybe she just got cold feet about it and doesn't know how to explain it without sounding like an idiot, hence the bs excuses. But I don't think OP will find out unless he hires a PI.

[drippy]

That's a very disrespectful for him to even think to propose at his brother's wedding because he thought it was a "great way" to propose